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anifell — To Those In The Fight
Published: 2010-10-03 00:47:16 +0000 UTC; Views: 772; Favourites: 7; Downloads: 12
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Description To Those in the Fight:

     Life is hard, and this I know; especially when you're an adolescent in high school trying to figure out who you are. And, to make life ever harder there are those who would go so far out of their way to harass and ridicule those who haven't completely figured out who they are or where they're going, those drifting through this sea of life, those testing all the different waters offered to them. Harassers, as it seems, make it their duty to find those lost in that dark water and jab at them with sticks sharpened by their ignorance. This saddens me because those wandering souls who don't have others to turn to for help... well, some of them will give up on searching for themselves and, finding a quiet place removed from their tormentors, will pause at that thin veil between life and death, unable to with- or under- stand the hatred that their aggressors inflict on them. And as they try, and try hard to understand why, they will, without their much needed direction, pass through that veil with no possible way back. They will lose themselves, their lives, and the brighter future they will have helped to create.

     So. Before you contemplate taking your own life, please, oh, please remember that it gets better. Bullies will be left in your past, you will find friend who love and cherish you for who you are, and, at the end of the day, No one can make you feel inferior without your consent . Don't give those who would make you feel less of yourself that power.

With Love,
~Johnathan
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Comments: 14

RighttotheCore [2010-10-05 22:21:08 +0000 UTC]

it makes me think of my best friend who committed suicide this summer.
she was gay, and was harassed all the time. i tried to be around her as much as possible to protect her, but that night my phone had died after sending smiley messages to my best friend. i wish i would have gotten that text that said "please come over, now."

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anifell In reply to RighttotheCore [2010-10-06 06:27:43 +0000 UTC]

I am truly sorry for your loss.
Such a thing as that is more than unbearable; absolute torture.

But what's important for the ones left behind... you must never blame yourself; blaming yourself only strengthens that vicious cycle, ultimately dragging others to violent actions--maybe not against themselves--but violent acts nonetheless.

Just remember your friend, for all that they ARE.

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RighttotheCore In reply to anifell [2010-10-06 10:29:40 +0000 UTC]

thanks, <3

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tinkertype [2010-10-05 21:44:40 +0000 UTC]

This made me cry, but in the good way.

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anifell In reply to tinkertype [2010-10-06 06:19:39 +0000 UTC]

Don't say that; when people tell me something made them cry,
it makes me want to cry, too!

But thank you, I'm glad it was moved you.
Much hope & love.

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tinkertype In reply to anifell [2010-10-06 16:53:20 +0000 UTC]

I'm sorry. However, I do feel that if a piece ever moves me to tears, I should tell the writer. Tears and laughter, I think, are great compliments, and you can't see either one over the internet. XD The internet managed to come up with "LOL" there should be some acronym for the other end of that spectrum. XDD

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anifell In reply to tinkertype [2010-10-07 15:30:22 +0000 UTC]

I know it's a great compliment, but sometimes I can get overly emotional;
so when I see other people crying, or hear that they cried,
it makes me want to cry.

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tinkertype In reply to anifell [2010-10-07 16:43:16 +0000 UTC]

Me too. n___n -smoosh- So no crying! XD

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anifell In reply to tinkertype [2010-10-08 17:59:53 +0000 UTC]

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tinkertype In reply to anifell [2010-10-08 18:05:25 +0000 UTC]

Goodness! What an inspiring writer, who can express emotion without a single word.

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Kethrom [2010-10-04 01:27:41 +0000 UTC]

This is an encouraging open letter. I like it.
and yeah, the recent suicides have been hard on me esp since I lost a friend the same way
for the same reasons...

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anifell In reply to Kethrom [2010-10-04 21:20:43 +0000 UTC]

I empathize. Although I have not lost a friend in this manner,
I know it is so very hard to endure such things,
and I offer you my shoulder if you're ever in need.

And thank you for the comment.

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Kethrom In reply to anifell [2010-10-05 00:21:41 +0000 UTC]

Thank you. And you're welcome.

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BoiChick [2010-10-03 02:36:02 +0000 UTC]

I've been hearing about this. It's sad, really. Sadder still is that I know some people that have called it for the best.

I hope this bullying, harassment, and string of suicide stops. For every life cut short, the path to a better society gets longer, I suppose.

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