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you haven't seen me yet, so it's normal to think that
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I don't think. I KNOW you're beautiful.
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Sigh... why do I even bother...
No I'm not... And just a heads up we can argue about this all day long but I'm never going to believe you
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You really are so beautiful. You should believe it, because I know I'm not the only one to. You're stronger than you think, darling.
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Well I'm willing to believe that I'm stronger than I think, but that does not mean that I'm beautiful... I don't understand why you're calling everybody beautiful, because that would diminish the value of that message. Not everybody is to be considered beautiful and if you were to call everybody beautiful the value of the word would be gone. Being beautiful is something you only say to those who are special and sexually attractive to you, not just something to brighten people's day.
Don't get me wrong, I appreciate what you're doing, but it just doesn't have any meaning if you just keep saying something that is reserved for a select few people.
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I say it because everyone truly is beautiful. Everyone does have a beautiful part about them. And they deserve to know that. I understand the diminishing value thing completely, but it's different considering who says it. If it's from some anonymous person or someone you just don't know well (me) it's just a nice message to hear. I know it will mean something more if it comes from someone you know really well or someone that's especially special to you.
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See I don't think you understood what I meant...
Hearing such a thing from an anonymous person might be nice to hear, but if you learn that he/she says this to everyone you'd feel a little strange, as if it didn't really matter he/she said this to you because well... He/she is saying this to everyone and the feeling you're wanted or someone likes you is severely diminished and even gone.
I actually wonder how many people have actually wondered the way I do. I can understand many would probably have said ' Thank you for saying this' and 'it really made my day' or... But I wonder if they actually knew this wasn't specifically meant to them, but more to everybody in general because well, you say it to everybody.
That's the main reason I don't like to read these kinds of things and that's why I hate how 'popular' these things are. Most people just make them to gain popularity, but those select few who really want to help people around would just offend me by saying this to me. Sure I might smile for a few seconds, but that smile would quickly disappear if I learned you say this to everybody. That would just make me feel like a 'number' or another person to make you feel good about yourself.
Which reminds me... Why are you doing this exactly? Is it the typical ' I do good for others so that I feel good inside' or is it something more?
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Thank you for your opinion again. I actually do like hearing it xD
But I really do mean it to each person I say it to. And a lot of times I try to narrow it down to certain people...like those with depression or things that matter a lot to me. People who I think deserve to hear it. And I made a separate account for this..so I wouldn't be "popular" or anything. I don't like the attention. I honestly and truly want to help people, and I hope making this account has at least a few people.
And I don't really do it to make myself feel good inside or anything. I've been through a lot the past year and a half, and I don't want others to feel like I have. In a lot of the stuff that's happened (not getting into any specifics), my faith has a really grown. I don't know if you're Christian or a believer or whatnot..but this is one of the bigger ways for me to be able to spread love without having to worry about my anxiety disorder because no one knows who I actually am. I'm not doing it for myself, it's for God and others that need the love. I'm trying to do my best to live it for him, and this is what I can do to make a difference when I'm stuck at home. That's all I want to do and why I'm even here; to make a difference.
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No problem. I like discussions and debates.
I honestly don't think you do. It is impossible for a human being to say things akin to ' I truly love the person you are' or ' You are beautiful inside and I know it' to every single human walking on this planet while actually meaning it. First of there are the physical reasons, such as distance and money and whatnot, and then there are the mental reasons. As a first reason why not is that you cannot have the same first impression for everyone you meet. You will consider some kind while others, like me, are probably considered whiny or annoying. And that's a natural human thought process.
It's just impossible to display the same way of kindness towards everyone. There will always be a text you won't like, an action you disapprove of or even a face you consider ugly. This is not bad, nor do I condemn you or so for doing so, as this, and I will keep saying this, natural.
On the other hand you have to not want to say this to certain people. You have to, and sorry for saying it like this, hate certain people. To love you must also know hate and by knowing hate you can love. It is a sad truth, but it is a truth nevertheless. You will never be capable of loving everyone or displaying kindness towards everyone.
Ah, but there is still a reason, which was what I was looking for. Please do not take what I'm about to say as an insult, as I in no way want to make fun of ' conditions'.
But as you claim that you have social anxiety it means you probably cannot go outside the house that often. This means that you know pain, and this pain allows you to act on it. For this reason you want to give this message to everyone on Devart, because you cannot do it in real life and because this makes you feel good. Despite saying this is not the reason I get the feeling it is.
Ah, I am agnostic, which might be handy to know.
And does ' wanting to make a difference' not mean that you wish to perform certain actions that will bring change to the world? In that case it's more than likely that the one who did it will be known. Granted, you have made a second account to do this, but that only means that THIS account will be know and this account will be very popular, which I believe it is.
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You're amazing, 'ya know that? It's a wonderful thing you're doing.
And... I like your handwriting (:
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Why thank you. I would say so about myself too, but then I'd be a self righteous douchebag... too late for that already though
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You definitely aren't, dear. Everyone is beautiful, inside out. Don't be afraid to show it
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