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Empyrisan [2013-09-20 11:32:11 +0000 UTC]
I like how, even though he looks badass and sexy, you can see his little nubby tail!
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BlueRavenfire In reply to Empyrisan [2013-09-20 21:15:14 +0000 UTC]
lol yes, everyone of the melmacian species as that little stubby tail, so it would not seem right if i did not add it.
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danielflemming [2013-09-20 01:31:20 +0000 UTC]
Ah...but does he move like a Jagger?
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BlueRavenfire In reply to danielflemming [2013-09-21 21:14:25 +0000 UTC]
yeah, i see now that you can be annoying, just hope you don't do it too often.
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danielflemming In reply to BlueRavenfire [2013-09-21 23:50:44 +0000 UTC]
Like with everything else I'm trying to achieve, all I can do is get better at it with practice-I'm now able to catch myself a few times before I say something annoying, the key for me is to think about what I'm about to say before I say it-some days I'm really good at it and on others, I'll say something and everyone will just roll there eyes-so it really depends on the day you catch me on a lot of times.
My constant chatting and overall attitude, actually annoys me, like when I look back on videos I've done I'm like 'my god, if I heard someone chatting this much, I'd seriously leave the room.'
Some days, I've called myself retarded before because of my actions and things I say, like when my aunt called me an 'asshole' for saying one of my annoying comments, that really made me upset, she doesn't understand though...so I don't talk about it with her....
Best thing for people to do, is to let me know when I'm annoying (like you did, you weren't mean-I didn't sense you were overly mad, you were letting me know what I did was annoyoing) People need to clarify what exactly I did that annoyed you so I don't do it again and I'll apologize sincerely, even if the person doesn't believe I am sorry-but that's up too them.
Worst thing to do is yell at me about it (like my aunt or dad have done) and then to ignore me the whole day and turn your back on me the whole day, that gets my self esteem really low and I start getting angry at the person because when people get mad, they spout all kinds of crap and never explain to me WHY and HOW I annoyed them, so I end up not caring and feel a lot of self loathing...I mean, we all make mistakes...I don't understand why some people feel they have to yell and be immature when I do something wrong-it's soooo easy to pull me aside and tell me why I upset you in a mature way...people gain extra points with me when they point my flaws out, that makes me a better person....
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BlueRavenfire In reply to danielflemming [2013-09-22 21:45:27 +0000 UTC]
wow, that was quite a lot to read. O.o
but okay, I see what you mean, your not sure what you say could be annoying until you say it. the comment yo gave me on this pic, I was just like "wow, really...did he have to point that out?". it did get kind of upset that you didn't give a nice comment on the pic, but i guess you were just trying to make a joke. but yeah, the worst thing to do is yell at someone just because they are doing something annoying because it does often hurt their feelings, if someone is doing something that annoying I firmly tell them to stop, when they don't stop after I have said so, then that is when I start to get pissy.
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danielflemming In reply to BlueRavenfire [2013-09-22 22:11:17 +0000 UTC]
I never have to be asked twice, once someone says something to me once, I'm good...
I apologize for upsetting you.....
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danielflemming In reply to BlueRavenfire [2013-09-23 22:11:19 +0000 UTC]
I think you do know though, for me personally, I would NEVER offend you on purpose, I may say an opinion that you disagree with-but I say opinions when I truly believe them, I would never say 'huh, I'll say this to annoy ONE person!'
It's not how I work, when I tease, I try to say something general, not something that just makes one person laugh (or get annoyed by, depends on the person's mood.)
Lately, I've been trying to be more respectful, because I've found that my teasing and boisterous attitude gets on people's nerves a LOT, not to say I'm going to do a full turn around on my personality, because I'm confident for who I am most of the time.
I do aim to tone my 'hyperness' and teasing waaaay down in the future and I'm doing good with it, but it's a process-it won't happen over night....oh, and thank you for accepting my apology.
I hate it when I say I'm sorry and the person stays annoyed and says my 'apology isn't accepted' or they'll say 'you're a jerk!'
So glad you're not the shallow, you're respectful of me, you know that I sometimes say things I don't mean and I think you truly help me out, you don't expect me to be perfect-you know my strengths and weaknesses, I think you're really perceptive....
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BlueRavenfire In reply to danielflemming [2013-09-24 21:38:14 +0000 UTC]
yeah, i know for a fact that you never say anything to offend me on purpose because you seem the type of person that would not do that. I knew you were just teasing, but it was not the best moment to do i suppose and i think that what the point is, knowing when the right moment to it so it seems more funny then annoying. yeah, that is good that you trying to more respectful towards others, while teasing can be fun, it can be seen as annoying to others if you do it all the time.
yeah, i try my best not to be shallow because i hate those that are, i try my best to be respectful and apperceptive for everthing you say and do for me because not many give as much support as you have and i think we can understand each other much more then others because we deal with the same kind of things in our lives.
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