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Let's face it; getting back with an ex boyfriend/girlfriend can be sometimes such a waste of time in which you will never get back from, therefore it's a really bad thing. You want to know why I have this opinion? It's because I'm speaking from personal experience.

Please don't get me wrong because there are people out there who have dated their ex partners and they have worked through their differences and the second time around was much successful than the first time around. I congratulate those who manage to do that.

However the same couldn't be said for me and that's rather unfortunate.

Out of all the ex boyfriends I've had, I only took one of them back (which ironically is my recent ex). This man was my first boyfriend. The first relationship lasted for one year and two months which resulted in me dumping him. Our second time together lasted for one year and four months and in the end he ended things with me.

And even though we broke up in October last year we tried to be friends despite us having some feelings for one another, however our differences proved too much. We had too many arguments. Just last night he said he was tired of everything and he was cutting ties with me for good. He even blocked me from his DA account as well as defriended/blocked me from Facebook.

This recent change of events has opened my eyes up to the fact how much of a bastard he actually is. He wasn't worth my love or attention. In fact he didn't deserve me at all. I thought that getting back with him would work this time, but I was wrong. Turns out he actually changed for the worse, he never truly loved and respected me and he was using me as a doormat.

In November last year (one month after the breakup) he suggested the idea of us being friends with benefits but he soon changed his mind because according to him, it will only distract me from finding a better man who I can love rather than him. I honestly believed this was a load of rubbish and that he only wanted to use me for sex. On Sunday night he was eager to engage in sex with me.

Right now I regret having him as my boyfriend twice. In fact I wish he wasn't my first love. If I could go back in time, I would have avoided meeting him almost 6 years ago.

But that's life. I'm sure I will meet someone who is ten times the man my ex will ever be.

Description
Let's face it; getting back with an ex boyfriend/girlfriend can be sometimes such a waste of time in which you will never get back from, therefore it's a really bad thing. You want to know why I have this opinion? It's because I'm speaking from personal experience.

Please don't get me wrong because there are people out there who have dated their ex partners and they have worked through their differences and the second time around was much successful than the first time around. I congratulate those who manage to do that.

However the same couldn't be said for me and that's rather unfortunate.

Out of all the ex boyfriends I've had, I only took one of them back (which ironically is my recent ex). This man was my first boyfriend. The first relationship lasted for one year and two months which resulted in me dumping him. Our second time together lasted for one year and four months and in the end he ended things with me.

And even though we broke up in October last year we tried to be friends despite us having some feelings for one another, however our differences proved too much. We had too many arguments. Just last night he said he was tired of everything and he was cutting ties with me for good. He even blocked me from his DA account as well as defriended/blocked me from Facebook.

This recent change of events has opened my eyes up to the fact how much of a bastard he actually is. He wasn't worth my love or attention. In fact he didn't deserve me at all. I thought that getting back with him would work this time, but I was wrong. Turns out he actually changed for the worse, he never truly loved and respected me and he was using me as a doormat.

In November last year (one month after the breakup) he suggested the idea of us being friends with benefits but he soon changed his mind because according to him, it will only distract me from finding a better man who I can love rather than him. I honestly believed this was a load of rubbish and that he only wanted to use me for sex. On Sunday night he was eager to engage in sex with me.

Right now I regret having him as my boyfriend twice. In fact I wish he wasn't my first love. If I could go back in time, I would have avoided meeting him almost 6 years ago.

But that's life. I'm sure I will meet someone who is ten times the man my ex will ever be.