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Published: 2014-07-22 15:00:22 +0000 UTC; Views: 1174; Favourites: 15; Downloads: 0
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I...uh, I done this meme last year. I fogot about it for a long time and it wasn't until last night I discovered this on my computer. So yeah...many of you may be wondering why exactly I uploaded this, well two reasons actually.1. Everyone has a history/past and this event has kinda shaped who I am despite the fact at times it can be difficult to talk about sometimes. It's kinda strange considering the fact I've discussed this many times with various people and they've assured me that I am someone worthwhile who deserves happiness and respect in relationships and most importantly life. I know they mean well and they want me to succeed and whatnot, but occasionally I do get depressed due to past memories. And hey, that's a part of human nature and everyone suffers with things like that. It's not an easy thing to forget when you went through a relationship with a person who didn't love/accept you for who you are as a human being.
2. Consider it a lesson/another life experience I had to go through. It may help other girls (and maybe boys) if they're going through something similar to what I had to deal with. Just...just don't make the same mistake as I did, okay? If you find yourself with someone who doesn't treat you the way you deserve and/or if they truly fail to understand/appreciate you, then it's best to part with them before they can hurt you any further. That's all I can say right now because right now my chest kinda feels tight and it's something I don't want to have.
Anyway thank you to for creating this meme. I know that it took me a while, but I had a great time filling it out. It allowed me to express myself in a way
See, I did remember telling you I wanted to do your meme so a year later it's finally been uploaded.And for those who are wondering who my ex is, it's I wasn't being sarcastic when I said he introduced me to the joys of this site three years ago. DA has became one of my favourite websites and it's a place where I can connect with artists/writers and befriend them for various reasons. I'm really lucky to be a part of this community.
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Same here. I really didn't like the fact I was being treated slightly like second best when I was in a relationship with him. And that's so very true - just yesterday a man chatted me up :3 And thanks, I'm feeling better 
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oh no 
anyways i hope you're feeling better
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Having a boyfriend can be hard work at times. And that sounds cool 
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Doesn't he get the notification if you mention him in the description?
Must have been hard to write it all down, it is so personal. Hope you are feeling better now.
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Yeah, he got the notification when I mentioned him. Funny thing is that he read the meme and he actually agreed with it. We're on friendly terms right now. It was kinda hard in writing this down but at the end of it I kinda felt a bit better. And thanks so much
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Honestly I'm not sure how I feel about this (not that it disturbs me...dosen't this bring back bad memories for you?
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Well, ever since August him and I got back in contact with one another and we decided to become friends again. We don't plan in getting into another relationship as we wouldn't work out for personal reasons.
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Ok then - I wish the best of luck for you and your friendsΒ
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Thanks
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What a jerk o:
I can relate with number 5 in this meme, my ex did not treat his previous gf well, and he definitely is not suitable for a girlfriend
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Yeah
What kinda things did he do to his previous girlfriend then?
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Let's just say.... When she was suicidial she called him on skype and when he saw her sad he literally said "call me back when you're happy"
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God, he sounds like a right douche.
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Yeah, thank god we both dumped him when we had the chance, his previous gf is actually my BFF, and as luck would have it we found way better boyfriends
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That's always good to hear!
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Well at least now you can find someone better
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Huh. That guy sounds like a jerk.. I've run into that same kinda thing but with friends. So it's probably not as bad as that. But I guess at a smaller scale I kind of understand.. Oh also. For songs. I think I know one that fits mostly. Some things don't, but most of it kinda does from what I know from this. Here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqRC5tβ¦
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Oh my God, I love that song
I'm sorry that you had to deal with ex friends. I've had some incidents where I found out some of my "friends" didn't like me for who I am, so yeah. And yeah, he is kinda like a jerk although calling him a jerk would be very polite indeed ^^
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Heheh. Yay! I do good!
And eh. 'Least there's always at least a few friends you can count on. On the internet or not. Sometimes a bit of both. Those real friends are always good.
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That is so true. I think joining DA three years ago was one of the greatest decisions I ever made. It allowed me to connect with other people and gain interest in new and old fandoms. That's what I like about this place
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Mhm. Same here. Even if I'm stuck in an endless love of yogscast with this. Isn't exactly a bad thing though, they're good. And I have a few good friends on here. Who are mostly girls. Which is a good thing because my only friends in real life are all guys.
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It's always good to see you make more progress away from what you had to through. I'm debating about whether or not to do this meme regarding my last failed relationship. The guy ended up pulling the same move of cutting all ties in the end that it's still raw after a year.
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Thanks, and I do agree. I admit it does still kinda does hurt up until this day, but it just shows that I'm a normal being with feelings and emotions. Earlier on this year I sought some personal help and I talked about Nick to this really awesome woman called Tina. She said I had a lucky escape from him and she also said that I'll do well to remember that he wasn't worth my love and affection, not the other way around. From my sessions with Tina I found out that I'm a highly sensitive person who suffers from mild social anxiety. I got help for my social anxiety as well, so I got to keep on practicing ways I can in order to overcome this.
I think it's up to you if you decide to do the meme or not. But I'm sorry to hear about your ex cutting ties with you
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Thank you, and it's fine
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Glad you're thinking optimisitcally. Guy sounds like a pig. Anyway, hope you become stronger.Β
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I think pigs have more sense and intelligence
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Reading box #2, I can COMPLETELY relate (minus the "sexual roleplaying thing); I had a "bff" who pulled the EXACT. Β SAME. Β CRAP!
Hang in there, baby
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What did you do when your bff used to do that? Did you kick them to the kerb?
And thank you. I've been hanging in there for a long time now
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We had the whole "he's in the US and I'm in the UK" problem you and your ex had, sooooooooo, no kerb kicking was involved...
But, for about four years, I've been helping him with his project, which has LITERALLY taken FIVE YEARS to get off the ground, but I CONSTANTLY noticed that the help I gave him wasn't being put to any use, no matter how many times I hammered it into his skull! Β In the end, I told him what I HONESTLY thought of his project once it got off the ground last March, but he told me quite literally "he didn't want to hear it". Β I would've critiqued him if he HADN'T said that, so I just...lost my temper with him; I told him point blank how I felt he was treating me, to which he kept trying to deny! Β Eventually, he asked if we could be friends who "don't share their artwork" (to which I saw no point in, since, as we were WATCHING one another at the time, we would've received notifications of new artwork in our inboxes anyway) and, finally, just be casual acquaintances; I lost all of my patience with him at that point and pretty much told him I never wanted to speak to him again. Β Now he's blocked me. Β ...which I see no reason for him to do so, since I don't PLAN to constantly spam his page with hate comments - it'd defeat the purpose of NOT WANTING TO SPEAK TO HIM AGAIN!
Looking back on this, I now know that not everyone is as "kind" and "friendly" as they like everyone to think they are...Kinda knew that already, but, still...
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Oh, I understand. Here's a good joke - what if your ex bff is my ex boyfriend's distance relative? 
Yep, I hear ya on that one. When I spoke to my ex about how I felt when he treated me that way he just kept on saying sorry to me. He must have picked up on how insecure I felt but he payed no heed to it. But then again I didn't exactly go about it in the right way as I used to make poll and journals about some of the problems we faced. Oh well, you make mistakes and learn from them I guess. Then again when we sorted out our problems in private he didn't mean his words because he kept on making the same mistakes over and over again and then because of his behaviour it aroused my suspicions and feelings of doubt started to set in.
It's good that you told him how you feel in spite of the absurd suggestions he made. When my ex cut ties with me over this site via a note he blocked me. What made me laugh in the message he sent me was not only he was cutting ties with me, but he was also cutting ties with another female friend on here. Turned out that it was a lie and I caught him out on that a few months after the incident. But then again I have no qualms about it now because her and I get along fine so it's all good
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Unfortunately for me, me and another friend of his have cut ties as well. Β ...actually, SHE cut ties with ME for NO REAL REASON; I went on her profile one day to discover that SHE BLOCKED ME! Β I'm a little more PO'd about THAT one because I literally did NOTHING to her and we WERE good friends beforehand!
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Sometimes you gotta wonder about people these days. I do think it's pretty rude of her to drop you as a friend without explaining why.
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I lost someone as a friend about two years ago, but at the very least we ended our friendship "diplomatically"; SHE, on the other hand, just cut ties with me for no reason! Β She said she's afraid of confrontations; I don't like confrontations either, but that's NO excuse!
Since you had the courage to share your ex's identity (at least his profile), I'll tell you the two people in question; the "friendship abuser" was and the backstabber was .
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I admit I had a friend who dropped me for no reason at all. However it didn't really bother me in the end because I knew what she was like - she was fake as press on nails.
I think the reason why I shared my ex's identity is not because of courage really. It's because it's a reminder to myself never to fall in love with a person like him. Besides, I don't care if he gets pissed off that I mentioned him.
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Me neither when it comes to those two anymore. Β I still won't talk about it in my blogs, but that's mostly because I don't want to be reminded of what I already know about how untrue people can be.
Now I can't take either of those two seriously, and one look at their profiles "might" tell you why. Β The hint is to look under their username. Β
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I'm the same exactly
And what is the point of hiding from these people? They have every right to know you feel wronged. But you also got to learn how to forgive yourself too ^^
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When it comes to Kellyn87 , I've already forgiven myself for my faults. Β When it comes to Aetherya , however, I've literally NOTHING to forgive myself for! Β All I saw was this and then she blocked me.
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I read the journal entry. I just think it's strange that she decided to write it in the open where everyone can see. She could have sent you a private message and then addressed the problems, enabling you to have a discussion about things. That's all I can say on the matter. Oh, and I noticed that your American friend (well, former friend to be correct) commented on her journal as well, so yeah it's just odd.
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She even ADMITTED to being afraid of confrontations; quite frankly, seeing that made me ANGRY! Β And of course the other person kisses the shadow she casts; they're both fanbrats of the same character that I absolutely despise.
...considering that, it was a miracle I was friends with them both for this long...
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Well, confrontations seems to have a negative association with the word but really at times it's not. You can confront a person about something but it depends on how you do it - it's like you can be calm yet firm or you can be aggressive and explosive. It's just a weird subject and quite debateful in some ways.
But then usually I find that people can form an alliance/friendship based on a mutual hate for a person. It's quite pathetic really because it's like saying "Oh, your enemy is my enemy" and other bull crap like that. I think people display that kind of attitude just agree for the sake of it, which is kinda annoying and a bit laughable
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Yet more reasons why I can't take either of my ex friends seriously, even when she made that journal; she sounded serious, but then I remember her being a fanbrat, which kills her credibility for me. Β Same with him; he says something serious, but remembering he's a fanbrat makes me unable to take him seriously.
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After my ex cut ties with me, I couldn't take anything he said seriously. Hell, once during our first relationship he said that he wanted to lock me in a room with no access to the toilet. And then a day after cutting ties with me he tried to justify his reasoning for saying that in the first place was that he didn't mean it and he got it from a hentai site (I think - I could be wrong in what I'm saying). But seriously, it just sounded so disturbing.
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It really does...O_O
I didn't have anything so disturbing from Kellyn87, but, still...he made me feel like I wasted FOUR YEARS of my life giving him help he WASN'T TAKING ADVANTAGE OF.
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I know the feeling. I met my ex on FanFiction.net back in 2007 as we both liked the Soul Calibur game series and then in June 2008 we fell in love and we got together. The relationship lasted one year and two months and I was the first to dump him because he kept on breaking his promises about coming over to see me in the UK. Fast forward to June 2011 we got together for the second time and it lasted for one year and four months. He dumped me because my parents weren't too keen on us dating.
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Sorry to hear that
Kellyn87 and I first met when he asked if he could use my main OC in his project; I initially allowed him to do so and our friendship grew. Β Buuuuuuuuuuut...THEN I discovered more of what his "project" would contain and grew to HATE the idea of my OC being involved, so, once he decided to cut her from the project, I was so happy I could've danced on the ceiling! Β I didn't TELL him that, but, still...
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At least it kinda saved you in the end then with him cutting your OC out of his project
Speaking of which, my ex and I used each other characters in our stories. I mean, it was really great at the time because it shown that we did support each other when it came to writing. But right now I have to kinda rewrite a few of my stories, especially ones featuring his character. I'm getting there but I think I'll cross that bridge when I do decide to do something about it.
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