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CeramicRose β€” It's OKAY to be girly.

Published: 2011-07-14 02:24:29 +0000 UTC; Views: 1733; Favourites: 58; Downloads: 5
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Description Why do I make stamps if I can't use them OTL? x'D

Something I've noticed, summarised nicely in this quote: "...while most reasonable people see women and men as equals, few (if any) dare to claim that femininity is masculinity's equal."
β€” Julia Serano

What I'm saying is this: I can be equal to a man while wearing flower print skirts and bows in my hair. The idea that a woman must be physically strong, must battle, must not shave/wear makeup/etc. is supporting the idea that to have worth a woman much become like a man and can have no worth solely because she is a woman. It's extremely sexist because it implies that masculinity (ie, being a man) is somehow superior to feminity (ie, being a woman). A woman shouldn't have to copy a man to be equal to one. Feminism, Equalism, whatever you consider it, is about women and men having the choice to stay at home or to get a job, to work or to have kids, to stay single or marry, to wear make up or not to. Saying that to be equal to men women must do this or do that completely undermines what equality means. A woman can be extremely feminine and still be equal to men, and neither femininity or masculinity are inherently better than each other.
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bananamarioslamma234 [2024-05-11 21:21:36 +0000 UTC]

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DarkVikingMistress [2015-05-18 13:25:04 +0000 UTC]

Even as a more butch female, I don't shame women (or men!)Β for being girly...

I don't wear make up but I don't mind if others do.

Plus I find feminity to be attractive in a partner whether male or female...because it's beautiful and graceful. Plus I don't have an overload of it myself, so it balances me out.

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Winter-moon-laidy [2013-10-29 02:57:13 +0000 UTC]

THIS!! o-o

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MarissaSunshine [2011-12-14 09:33:03 +0000 UTC]

I agree with this stamp and your description. I am equal to men and I wear too much makeup, skirts, heels, and bows in my hair as well!

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daddyslittlejanegirl [2011-11-15 04:52:36 +0000 UTC]

"There is no wholly masculine man, no purely feminine woman." ~Margaret Fuller

Given that each flows into the other at different points, I would agree that they are equal. Also, you read Julia Serano?! She's one of my favourites!

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AnataHana [2011-07-24 20:58:48 +0000 UTC]

Thousand times YES YES YES!

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CeramicRose In reply to AnataHana [2011-07-24 23:12:07 +0000 UTC]

Thank you <3

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SockPuppetsAreReal [2011-07-14 16:38:47 +0000 UTC]

This is so true C:

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CeramicRose In reply to SockPuppetsAreReal [2011-07-14 16:51:34 +0000 UTC]

Thanks.

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SockPuppetsAreReal In reply to CeramicRose [2011-07-14 17:51:43 +0000 UTC]

no prob :3

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paper-rust [2011-07-14 14:00:54 +0000 UTC]

This should really be waaaay more popular!

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CeramicRose In reply to paper-rust [2011-07-14 14:30:47 +0000 UTC]

Thanks. x'D I just wish more people would realise that they already spread misogynistic beliefs often without realising it. //sigh

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Gabalot [2011-07-14 13:01:35 +0000 UTC]

YES. While I'm not much of a feminine girl, I say that it's alright for women to act like women.

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CeramicRose In reply to Gabalot [2011-07-14 14:30:57 +0000 UTC]

Thanks!

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Cr1kk3t [2011-07-14 05:26:05 +0000 UTC]

Thank you.

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CeramicRose In reply to Cr1kk3t [2011-07-14 14:31:09 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome.

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Cr1kk3t In reply to CeramicRose [2011-07-14 18:39:47 +0000 UTC]

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TheOneAndOnlyZouza [2011-07-14 03:26:43 +0000 UTC]

Hurr, I can use this c:
Which, I will do.

TOTALLY AGREED.

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CeramicRose In reply to TheOneAndOnlyZouza [2011-07-14 14:31:46 +0000 UTC]

Darn you, using my stamps that I can't. DARN YOU.

But, I'm glad you agree. x'D

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AntiImage [2011-07-14 02:29:40 +0000 UTC]

cool

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CeramicRose In reply to AntiImage [2011-07-14 02:38:55 +0000 UTC]

Thank you.

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AntiImage In reply to CeramicRose [2011-07-14 02:45:15 +0000 UTC]

welcome.

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iPixehKitteh [2011-07-14 02:25:42 +0000 UTC]

yes it is.

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CeramicRose In reply to iPixehKitteh [2011-07-14 02:28:08 +0000 UTC]

YAY.

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