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Fushi-san [2014-02-17 23:23:24 +0000 UTC]

I don't know your circumstances.. But I have tried being the friend in the other end. The one being hated and looked at as a bitch. My best friend (and she is STILL my best friend) had a depression and she was so angry with me all the time, wanted me to go away and leave her alone... I cried myself to sleep countless of nights because I felt like I was loosing her.. And still the day today, two years after she got out of it, sometimes I still fear that she will hate me and leave me. She felt I was better than her at everything and that I looked down upon her, which was never true.. but because she felt so bad about herself, it became true in her head. I kept holding on and comming back to her, and today we are still best friends.. I don't know if your friend also just feels misunderstood, but maybe she actually loves you just as much as you love her and is super scared that you might leave her? 

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Yobi-chan [2014-02-17 23:20:24 +0000 UTC]

I've been there. You'll get over it, both of you.

Think about it, maybe she feels the same way too?

I ended up sharing it with my best friend and found out she felt the same way. Then we had the opportunity to change about us what made us both sad, and today we feel great together and are even closer. I promise you it'll be allright in time.

Until then - hang on and don't give up

Someone else feels like this or have felt like this. You're not the only one and there's a ton of people who'd love to talk to you and make you feel happy again

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AngeloftheBloodyRose [2014-02-17 15:47:34 +0000 UTC]

Hey, don't stress yourself over it. As you called her, she is your sister and you love her, so go on and tell her that you are not happy with her behavior. Tell her what you TRULY feel. If she loves you as much as you love her, she will understand and won' blame you for it. Trust me. Please.

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