Comments: 1337
ZerasTheHusky [2014-07-20 15:36:17 +0000 UTC]
To be fair! I like girls with small tops and big bottoms!
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Yamiga [2013-05-29 20:48:56 +0000 UTC]
Overweight people can sometimes be very beautiful! Don't feel bad!
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TheAspiringFlower [2013-05-25 19:01:12 +0000 UTC]
My entire family calls me fat non-stop, every single day since I was 10. I've developed severe social anxiety and always feel that everyone is staring at me and criticizing me. And because of this, my daily routine is coming back from school, sitting in my room for 7 hours, eating as little as I can, and going to sleep. It's even taken a toll on my social life...not that I had one to begin with.
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DarkPika-Sama In reply to TheAspiringFlower [2013-06-13 19:20:48 +0000 UTC]
I know how you feel. My dad calls me fat from time to time and he's worse off than I am, both health and weight wise. One time, I nearly put myself in a dangerous situation of because of him. Eventually, I learned to ignore him whenever the subject came up.
Things will get better.
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TheAspiringFlower In reply to Zenmaya [2013-05-30 22:58:22 +0000 UTC]
I hope so, I'm getting really tired of it all
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space-owls [2013-05-25 16:45:09 +0000 UTC]
You don't have to be skinny to be pretty
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WolfieThaKitty-Cat [2013-05-25 16:26:00 +0000 UTC]
Overweight is still more beautiful than extremely skinny
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LittleCharmers [2013-05-25 04:27:49 +0000 UTC]
You wanna know something? It's something I feel like everyone should know. You people are all beautiful, now all you guys have to do is believe it.
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VB-lurvs-gummy-bearz [2013-05-20 02:59:12 +0000 UTC]
Weight is just a number, I have learned. As long as you are comfortable with yourself and confident in your being, then NEVER CHANGE. EVER.
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Dandelicious In reply to VB-lurvs-gummy-bearz [2013-05-20 17:15:52 +0000 UTC]
I disagree. If you are comfortable with your weight but have health problems because of it, then you should change.
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Dandelicious In reply to VB-lurvs-gummy-bearz [2013-05-21 04:48:44 +0000 UTC]
Nah, I've seen plenty of overweight people who won't lose weight despite health problems because "they are comfortable with their bodies". That's a bit stupid. And I'm not hating on overweight people, being one myself.
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VB-lurvs-gummy-bearz In reply to Dandelicious [2013-05-21 05:29:01 +0000 UTC]
I am as well, I don't really think this conversation is relevant to what I was saying. I just think people should start loving themselves the way they are before they decide to change.
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Kien-Lyons [2013-05-19 21:16:04 +0000 UTC]
My best friends told me two different things. The one I was like a sister to told me I was beautiful. The one I fell in love with called me fat. Guess who I trust the advice of?
No matter who you are, as long as you are a good person at heart, you're beautiful.
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confidenceAlive [2013-05-19 04:36:58 +0000 UTC]
It may not mean much to you..Because I don't know you personally, and people have a hard time wrapping their brains around how anyone could without knowing a person but...
I love you for who you are.
That's all [=
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LilBearStudios [2013-05-18 19:12:08 +0000 UTC]
I know I'm overweight, despite my friends etc. telling me otherwise
Because my family, the majority of my school, and some people I don't even know tell me that it "makes them sick to look at me" just because of my weight.
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Emberraart [2013-05-16 20:15:28 +0000 UTC]
I know that feel...
I can assure you that people do love you for who you are. So many people in this world were raised to judge people on appearances but there is a similar number to judge on personality instead. If you don't have any friends in the latter grouping, find some, it isn't that hard. They are great people and will make you feel great about yourself. You are probably an awesome person, change your weight or don't, you're probably still totally awesome that doesn't change with a few numbers on a scale.
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Ari-Heart-Matsuri [2013-05-16 17:29:45 +0000 UTC]
I made this a fave because I know, who ever you are, you are perfect. If you are kind to people and try to love yourself, even if you fail, I know you're perfect.
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TheGeekQueen [2013-05-16 03:29:17 +0000 UTC]
I used to be picked on for being over weight. I felt alone, so I get where your coming from. I finally got sick of being picked on so I started studying history, reading, drawing; anything to get my mind off of the people I wanted to get away from. I still go to school with the same jerks as before and their either jealous of me for being smart and talented or terrified because I learn so many secrets sitting in the corner that they fear me. hat's not what I wanted but that's what I got. The only thing that change from the beginning is that I can now draw on my homework and be in drama and play Flute without fearing their words. I got over the fact that this word is full of cruel or unusual people. I tend to like the unusual ones more. It probably doesn't help that I tutor my tormentors so that they don't get kicked out of their sports. The kicker I'm still overweight.
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Bahamut285 [2013-05-15 18:32:35 +0000 UTC]
I don't really appreciate on how people who are butthurt about not being thin have resorted to thin shaming and the whole "real women have curves". It just perpetuates the idea that women are only valued by their bodies and not by who they are inside. Nobody likes to be 5 bajillion pounds with rolls of fat or triple chins or being bed-bound. Nobody likes to be 50 pounds where you are literally a bag of bones. (This is for men and women alike)
It shouldn't be about appearance, it should be about HEALTH. If you are severely overweight or severely underweight you should seek help with you doctor or nutritionist, or start exercising. Exercising is not just for people who want to lose weight. I am horribly underweight and I have since normalized my weight through exercise because it stimulated my unhealthy body to consume more food. Eating healthy is important too. I hate seeing people go into McDonalds and ordering 10 hamburgers with "a diet coke".
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VivaAngel In reply to Bahamut285 [2013-05-18 07:20:25 +0000 UTC]
"It shouldn't be about appearance, it should be about HEALTH"
You are one smart cookie.
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DPXArio [2013-05-15 18:18:47 +0000 UTC]
my parents constantly tell me that i will never find love because i am overweight... it kills me, because i am a nice person, and i really want that to be the only thing that matters, i mean i am not sick, and i dont look overweight... why should that deter my happiness? people should love you for who you are...
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SapphiraTheMongoose [2013-05-15 18:06:22 +0000 UTC]
These comments are so wonderful! I don't know why they aren't allowed in most of the deviations here, it always bugs me. I don't want to fav and share them because it'd make me feel like I was seeking attention, or just feeling sorry for myself. The support and love from the comments show that there are people out there with the capacity to love, despite all the jerks in the world who don't, or only 'do' on specific terms and conditions. And it reminds me not to allow them in our lives, because there's no room or time available for someone who just brings you down. These people have no place in your life, and should just be passed over like a stranger on the street.
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Remember: "There could never be a more beautiful you
Don't buy the lies, disguises and hoops, they make you jump through
You were made to fill a purpose that only you could do
So there could never be a more beautiful you!"
We're all here for you!
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Caphey1960 [2013-05-15 18:00:30 +0000 UTC]
Flagged as Spam
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minieverfeel [2013-05-15 17:27:35 +0000 UTC]
All my life I've been made fun of because of my weight. My mom the day before Mother's Day announced my weight to be over 250, but its not. I thought about returning her mother's day presents and then felt bad about it. I was anorexic at a point because my stepmother made me feel so shamed to be the weight. I still don't forgive her for it. But in the end, I know its me. And I hate me for being overweight.
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minieverfeel In reply to cat12553 [2013-05-17 16:57:22 +0000 UTC]
Thank you! You're really nice too!
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DayDreamPony [2013-05-15 16:06:49 +0000 UTC]
These "secret" thingies are so emo, srsly, can't you put something happy or funny or something like that? Put something to encourage people's self-esteem not to bring it down...
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Maura302 [2013-05-15 16:01:48 +0000 UTC]
Here's a not so secret, secret: Love yourself! Appreciate your qualities and talents. Admiration is reflected! Your body is nothing but wrapping for your soul.
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growinluvhandles [2013-05-15 14:35:51 +0000 UTC]
There is nothing wrong with being overweight. More and more people are becoming overweight every day. It is the new normal for modern people. Learn to love yourself, and to let others love you for who you are -- not your size, shape or weight.
You area a child of the universe, and you deserve to be loved -- especially by yourself.
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SormiPoro [2013-05-15 10:52:22 +0000 UTC]
Regardless of what people say, whether positive or negative, you will have a problem as long as you aren't happy with yourself. The definition of a healthy weight is not set in stone, because of different body types so the "healthy" weight of a person is when they feel healthy. It certainly has nothing to do with the BMI, which was developed for statistical analysis and can only provide any useful information when looking at very large groups, not individuals. People will tell you that your weight or shape doesn't matter, but that isn't really true until you come to terms with it. At least that's how it was for me.
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Zack-angel [2013-05-15 10:01:45 +0000 UTC]
my wife is curvy and I love the hell out of that body, stop thinking that overweight is a problem, there's always someone who want you so BAD
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