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Comments: 19

Annalisee [2007-08-27 07:59:50 +0000 UTC]

Same for me, except he told me after he kissed me.

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i-am-the-culprit [2007-08-06 03:18:05 +0000 UTC]

Omg, I can relate to this so much.

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DefeatedThoughts [2007-08-06 02:05:23 +0000 UTC]

ahh...me too. but my frist kiss ended up being during a game of truth or dare. when i was 12. with a girl. lol.

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ancient-seeker In reply to DefeatedThoughts [2007-08-11 15:32:58 +0000 UTC]

Haha, total anticlimax.

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AmethystUnderwood [2007-08-05 23:36:14 +0000 UTC]

It is hard, wanting someone to like you like that... I've been there. It is easy to ignore the reality of a situation when your emotions are involved... There isn't anything that can undo what is done, however, there is nothing stopping you from learning from your mistakes *and his* and moving on. He was honest with you. Told you he didn't want to lead you on... When I guy says that, it is a big red flag... meaning.. I don't want to date you... so whatever happens is just that... nothing more. Empower yourself and take away this lesson... Start over and remember to watch out for things like that. It is fine if you are after the same thing... but if you are looking for something more serious, that is certainly not the kind of person for you...

On a side note, I must give him kudos for being a decent person, he must not be a complete scum bag if he was so honest about it. That shows that even though he isn't boyfriend material... He respects women some and very well could be later on in his life. He isn't someone looking for a relationship per say... Just to have fun and live life...

The guy from my experience... we are still friends... He is married with a new baby girl...
I still consider him a mistake.. but a very handsome, dark and tall one. *quite a bit chubbier now though * No sense in beating yourself up for being attracted to someone and wanting them to like you. You are human like the rest of us. I also found after that, that I never had actual feelings for him anyway... Sometimes you have to experience things that aren't meaningful, so you know and see the ones that are. No one ever gets it perfect the very first time... and now you know one more thing you don't want and what signs to look out for

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velvet-reverie [2007-08-05 23:12:01 +0000 UTC]

God.

I can totally see where you're coming from. It bites.

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GabbyGee [2007-08-05 22:49:25 +0000 UTC]

Most first kisses arent from people's true love.

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xblaisexzabinix [2007-08-05 10:45:00 +0000 UTC]

the exact same thing happened to me.
i think we're talking about the same guy.
we talk now that he's married and impregnated his new girlfriend.
i still love him.
he knows it.
so does she.
i don't think she likes it, though.
it's not your fault, though.

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Tepara [2007-08-05 10:21:50 +0000 UTC]

All I can say is, Thank god you didnt sleep with him

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FunkyLilith In reply to Tepara [2007-08-05 18:22:44 +0000 UTC]

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FunkyLilith [2007-08-05 07:17:20 +0000 UTC]

Well then don't consider this to be your first kiss, consider it a practice run! When you find someone that will be important to you and you know that they feel the same way back then that first kiss with them will mean something. Don't forget there will always be first kisses, everyday, even in married life, you always have the first kiss of the day! Ooh! I'm such a romantic, me!

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PeerSupport In reply to FunkyLilith [2007-08-05 08:55:43 +0000 UTC]

As usual, I agree with Funky. Also, sometimes the first kiss can tell a lot about a relationship. Maybe he didn't feel any sparks. You will have plenty other kisses in your lifetime and I can promise that some of them will be magical. Good luck.

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cries-of-the-past [2007-08-05 06:55:16 +0000 UTC]

Your first kiss maybe didn't mean what you wanted it to, but I'm sure there will be oppritunities in the future for amazing first kisses in the beginning of a relationship that would mean more than any other first kiss possibly could.
I'm sorry that boy used you, it was cruel of him.

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thenamelessone [2007-08-05 05:33:18 +0000 UTC]

The first first kiss is rarely all that magical, really. The first kiss in a great relationship, though... that can be really something. :3

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yexy In reply to thenamelessone [2007-08-05 07:28:15 +0000 UTC]

I agree wholeheartedly on this! I can back it up with experience.

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annikalikesbees [2007-08-05 04:49:35 +0000 UTC]

First kisses are overrated. Doesn't make him any less of a douche though

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KazexHane [2007-08-05 04:45:47 +0000 UTC]

I've been here before.

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baby-alien91 [2007-08-05 04:41:54 +0000 UTC]

My first kiss was completely stupid too. I think too many girls put too much emphasis on their first kiss.. it's a big deal, but I think we need to realize that it's not the end of the world if it goes badly. I have to say though, what he did to you was cruel and you didn't deserve it. He's a douche.

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BlueBananas In reply to baby-alien91 [2007-08-05 19:22:18 +0000 UTC]

Lol. He's a douche. xD

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