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ha this so realates to me right now. except my best friend ditched me for the guy...
i swear some girls suck...
and ST she's gonna realize she was just a toy and cry to you. But, don't be to far from her once she realizes this she's gonna be broken and have alot of emotional trama. =]] hang in there. <3
message me if you need to talk =]
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Sounds like my best friend, and I'd almost be concerned if she knew anything of importance about computers that she wrote this... I know it's not to me, but the heart wants what it wants, and if it's a mistake, it's hers to make. Maybe she'll come around..
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It's still going after all this time. Actually, it's ended before, but that never lasts long. And now, it's starting again.
I cannot stand relationships based on stupid fun.
Will they ever learn?
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Oh Gods.
I swear this secret could be written for me.
I'm just hoping it's not.
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Isn't it strange how when facing conflict yourself, other people seem to be going through it to?
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You can't love and hate someone at the same time. If you think you do - you lie to yourself, on at least one account. But probably on both.
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You can love a person but hate the CHOICES they make... I think that is really what they are trying to say.
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With such a needlessly long secret, i can't see what would prevent the ST from saying just that, is that's what they were trying to say.
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Oh shut up. "Needlessly long"-Nobody's making you read this. And you can love someone and hate them at the same time. We often do. It's contradictory, but humans are contradictory creatures. And, ST? Your *sigh* friend will eventually figure it out, and will need someone to lean on. Whether you are that someone will be entirely up to you. "Choose, and act."
-Revan
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At some point, you'll have to decide whether your nature as a "contradictory creature" is more important to you than the person you want to be with. Yes, people contain contradictions, but it is not the only thing they contain.
As long as you are capable of hating a given person, you will never be devoted to them completely. So you can hate them and be infatuated with them, you can hate them and be intrigued by them, you can hate them and lust after them but conveniently hide the latter under a socially accepted and glorifies saublimation... but you can't love them.
And if you try reading my previous comment with any attention, you'll notice i was not complaining about the secret's length. I simply said that, if such an important nuance {as Nyrobi very reasonably suggested} was present, the ST would surely have no problem including this in the secret, since word-count was obviously not a concern for them.
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Wow. This sounds A LOT like one of my friend's opinions on one of our friends.
Hmm.
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I wish you *and your friend* strength and and courage... and all the luck you will need. Sometimes it is hard for people to leave an abusive relationship. And yes, before you all go off on me about my wording.... using someone for sex IS abusive. Abuse has many faces...its not just physical or verbal.
ST: I hope you can find the courage to tell your friend exactly what you have told us. Sometimes tough love works. Sometimes its doesn't. Just try and hang in there because from what you've said so far... this person is going to need you a LOT when shit hits the fan.
*huggles*
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be there. take care of the one you love. it's very important.
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related to the secret: tell her mom that he's abusing her. That'll get it done. lol
not related to the secret: the secret that I wrote was rejected for length but this secret is a much larger file and is also a lot longer. wth?
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Maybe DAS felt that this secret was , I don't know how else to say it, but more important?
Maybe you shouyld re write it and make it less detailed..?
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ugh. x_X It was only two sentences....
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Oh, then I don't know why they didn't submit it..
Maybe you should note them and ask?
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*sigh* The reason was it was too big and too long... I don't understand.
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Or was DAS in ROM mode?
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Old post is old.
That was said before it was in ROM
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I'm sorry. I have to input the obligatory "that's what she said" here.
Same thing happened to me, btw. I gave up because I liked my secret just how it is. Maybe you should send it to Frank Warren.
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He does PostSecrets. The real person who started to Secrets thing.
He is amazing. XD I have seen him in person.
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[link]
DAS snatched the idea from Post Secret.
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Thanks for the link! *click*
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I'm sorry. That's not fair. :[
To ST: You're doing the right thing. I hope your friend can come through.
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that scared me for a moment. i thought it was aimed towards me
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that took me a moment to realize...
i kinda don't feel so hot anymore
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Adding on to what ~Frogger277 said...
Just remember, just because it seems like this person 'used you for sex' or maybe even hurt you 'deliberately' doesn't mean that its true.
It is far too easy to assume, and even if it looks so much like that is how it went, it doesn't mean it did.
But either way, follow your heart. It is the only true thing anyone can do.
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I feel sorry for your lost friend, ST. They'll be in my prayers. But the best thing to do it let them know that you're always there, but I'm pretty sure you've let them know that.
Hopefully your friend will learn, and not get too hurt.
I wish you the best.
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Wow. This sounds like it should be my secret. ST, I'm definitely in the same boat as you (with a few differences in details, of course).
It seems to me that there's nothing you can do to stop your friend. I always say "just be careful" too.
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You might not know, there might be something else to the relationship that you're not seeing. Obviously she really adores him that much. Saying that though, hardly any teenage relationships last, which is really sad.
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I agree completely with what you just said, there can very often be more to the situation than most people can see.
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Why thank you. ;D
People just don't get into relationships for the second time because they hate the person. If so, that must be freaking great sex.
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it's a lot harder to break up with someone you've been with for along time than you make it seem
most people are so lonely they'll stay in a relationship they find dissatisfying
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I hate to say it, but I think you may be doing the right thing. I want to tell you to be there for them, and to tell them how you feel and all that, but it sounds like you already have.
I think that right now all you can do is let them make the mistake again, and be there for them when they need to pick up the pieces. It hurts, I know, but if they won't listen to you there's nothing you can do.
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