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Essentially, you want "The Other Girl" gone from her life, because she's better than you? If you love her, shouldn't your top priority be her happiness, rather than your position?
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I so feel like the girl. Not the 'other girl' or the ST, but the one in the middle.
O.o
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Ugh, no. It shows you WANT. Big difference.
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But... Don't you care about things you want?
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People are not things.
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Okay.
Don't you care about the nouns you desire?
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Cute. My point was that, if you only care about a given person in the way you would care about an item you want to have, there is nothing "good" about that. The person may draw some superficial ego boost from your interest in them, but that's the most good it can do. It is not a feeling, it is not what people men when they use the term "to care for" or "to care about" in the context of interpersonal relationships.
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Thanks, I try.
Hmm... I never thought about it that way. But you're right.
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Not always..
I elarned the hrd way....
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I got jealous once...
To bad she made it seem like I tried to take all the thunder in the realtionship and well... Apparently Iw as being a attnention whore... though I've never tried to get attentnion before. It's more lik she got ALL the attenntion and she never told me how much she needed/wanted me and well my little small attempt to get comfort in knowing I'm wanted... Ended the relationship
Now it's like... I'm not gonna waste my time giveing her the attenntion when I'm a wreck...
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This kinda sounds like someone I know...I know it probably isn't.
Jealously is tough, ST. But at least you're able to admit to it. 
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It just means you care alot!
I know how you feel, or sort of..
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I kinda got the feeling this was a lesbian triangle, actually. But I'm just weird.
Anyways, I mostly just wanted to give a "good luck."
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I got the same feeling...
so maybe were just wierd...
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me, toooo, but then i considered it could just be a friend thing
OR it could be a lesbian AND friend thing =o whoknows buuuut.. yeah.
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Good for you for being mature enough to call yourself on your own jealousy, ST! If you're to this point, you'll likely be able to also differentiate between jealousy and when there's a genuine problem that the other person really should address. Best wishes!
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Jealousy is one of the harder emotions to deal with, trust me... have you simply told you're friend? Maybe you two could talk it over and you could solve something?
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Jealousy is somewhere we've all been.
Maybe bring it up in conversaation, see if you can find the thing that makes the raltionship between you two special, that is different to he way their relationship is special.
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Ah, jealousy is like a kick in the gut.
We've all been there, ST.
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What is it that she talks about? Is it escapades they do together, things they've seen or discussed before, and she just wants to share it with you?
Try going out and doing things together, to make your own memories.
If it comes down to it, discuss it with her. I've had similar experiences when all I had was to listen to someone else ramble on and on about this one person.
Finally I said how uncomfortable it was making me, and it made me feel second rate to this person when I knew it wasn't true.
Thankfully, the person checked themselves, and stopped talking about him as much..not completely mind you, but at least every other word out of her mouth wasn't about him.
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I'm not really the jealous type, but I do know what you mean.
Of course...you may be jealous because she talks about her so highly. Though, maybe, when you're not around she talks very highly of you. You never know~
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Well, this sounds like someone I know.
Maybe it's for a reason that she's talked about so highly...
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Hmmmmm.... (I'm trying to think of something useful to say)
I've been in a situation like that before.
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