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PresidentGrasshopper [2011-01-24 22:42:15 +0000 UTC]

Awwww man, I can relate big time to this...

I wanted to cry during that dark time, but I never did...

But now I'm seeing brighter days! And you will too!

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Justin-Tyme [2010-07-27 02:42:46 +0000 UTC]

This could have been me. I still fight an urge to contact my ex on a daily basis.
Sometimes keeping her out of your life is the best thing you can do for yourself.

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dingallama [2010-07-11 08:36:51 +0000 UTC]

Uh...Yeah...

My ex could have written this. >_>

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buyobabyboo [2010-07-10 08:29:26 +0000 UTC]

I'm in a very similar situation... only I'm the one with the new interest.
He broke up with me, and I was terribly upset, because, naturally, I took it he didn't love me. After a cool down period, I wanted to get to know this cool guy my room mate was friends with. Then my ex told me he felt he'd made a terrible mistake. We agreed to take some time before getting back together. I'm a little upset he made me promise not to let my feelings for him get in the way of me seeing the new guy.
I told him I could only promise to not do it intentionally, and it's a good thing I did, because I still can't NOT love him, and I still cry about him, because I can't be with him.

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violetteV [2010-07-08 23:24:40 +0000 UTC]

god, this is why i hate people.
especially women.
is it a woman?
i bet it's a woman.
Dx

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kuro-saki [2010-07-08 19:15:55 +0000 UTC]

That second paragraph 'I want to hate you...' is the stage I'm at now. It's so confusing isn't it. And you don't know if you should remember the moments you shared cos you'll only cry, or you should remember them because they happened.
Bleh. -_-

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kyia6 [2010-07-08 18:11:11 +0000 UTC]

:c that's me too...

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ThousandCookie [2010-07-08 16:19:24 +0000 UTC]

Sounds like you got your hopes up too high, if I'm honest.

They may still see you as and want you to be a close friend - in which case, be happy for this. Don't let the desire to hate throw that opportunity away, it really isn't worth it.

They may still feel about you in the same way, but they may be doing their best to move on, or even just hide it, and getting a new boyfriend could be one way of doing that. It's possibly one of the healthier ways to do it, providing you feel ready for it.

Either way, try not to blame them, their boyfriend or yourself, and find other things and people in life that make you happy or content and try to make them play a bigger role in your life. You should be fine.

Best of luck!

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Kyrie-Marie-P [2010-07-08 16:05:40 +0000 UTC]

This made me think of my ex Tim. :/ I really hope you guys can find a way to work it out, but if not, then I surely hope that you'll find a way to move on. Moving on is the hardest part, however, you'll feel so much better because you'll be able to find somebody better, somebody you'll be together with for the rest of your lives.

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bbryella [2010-07-08 12:17:27 +0000 UTC]

i know what it's like to still love somebody but also wanting to move on....i don't know the whole story but i do know that girls are very complicated and indecisive and emotional and they care too much for too many people..which in the end hurts half of them

be strong ST and you can move on...you have to, for your own good and that doesn't mean to forget about her.
I would love to talk to you about this and about everything else like this we can maybe help each other get through it.
if you don't want to talk please just give me a sign to know that you've read this and i'm not alone.

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