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The Secret teller would also like to say:I am NOT homophobic, I am scared by a former friend who will not take no for an answer.
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I've been in a similar situation with a guy, I know how you feel. Tell another close friend or two, then confront her. If you're scared to be with her alone, confront her with friends. It might be hard, but she sounds like the type thats going to need a very strong N-O to back off. REmind her of your friendship, and tell her what this is doing to you. If she's really a friend, she'll stop. If she isn't, cut off all ties. Block her phone numbers, email, etc. This type of situation is hard, for both sides, no matter what the gender of the two people involved are. Be strong ST, you can make it out of this fear.
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Confront them. If it gets too out of hand then the authorities should be able to get a handle on it.
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if they cared enough about you, they wouldn't want to put you into that situation. if you've had to tell them you're straight multiple times, then it's obviously not going to stop. as hard as it may be, tell them to stop. if they don't, it's time to let them go.
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I see so many secrets about the opposite end of this...
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Get a restraining order.
If this person is really a friend, they will back off once they have told you their feelings and KNOW you do not feel the same.
Remember that they can't help having a crush on you, but they should leave you alone romantically if you don't want to be with them. Tell them to back off.
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Yeah that sounds creepy no matter what their sexual orientation is. Depending on the situation it could get worse if something doesn't change =\
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Get help, ST. Tell them strait to stop, and if they don't, well, get serious...
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It certainly doesn't mean you're homophobic. I would feel the same if someone started doing this to me, girl or boy, and I didn't feel anything for them. But some people are very stubborn.
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If you've told them you're uncomfortable and you want them to stop, and they've persisted, that sounds like harassment. If you're really scared then it's a serious matter.
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Not to be mean or anything but have you given out any signs that might indicate you feel something? Because I was in a situation once where I liked this girl and she told me outright that she liked me one day then the next it was a u-turn and she was completely straight. I cut off all contact after that as I realised it wasn't a healthy situation for me to be in, liking her romantically, hating her personally, confused about what she meant. A clean break was the best outcome.
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I was in a similar situation with another friend of mine who was a girl; everyone assumed that we were a couple because of how close we were, she and I discussed if we were in a relationship what'd be like, I always said that if I had to marry someone in our school it'd be her, etc. etc.... But when I finally worked up the courage to tell her how I felt, she pretty much said that it would never work out. I spent the rest of the year feeling a mix of hate and love for my friend, and I was pretty creepy near the end of the year....
I finally realized how much of a jerk I was being by trying to force my feelings, and I've given up on trying to woo her if she doesn't want to be wooed. She can't control who she has feelings for, and I can't force her. That's just how it is.Β
(P.S: ST, get help from someone else. If your friend knows that you are straight and not interested, and still is doing this, then get an adult or close friend to help tell her to stop. She has no right to force you into a situation like this. No one does, irregardless of gender.)
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Have you tried explaining those things to that person? Maybe if you said how you felt,that person would back off and leave you alone.
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This sounds like almost stalking...
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