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Secret-Teller In reply to jsplollypop [2011-02-14 11:42:47 +0000 UTC]
Thanx!
LOL, defntly not gonna tell her. And dfntly not planning to put it into action: even if I had no sense of loyalty and didn't care about her feelings, her sister and I just wouldn't work well together as anything other than friends.
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VegetarianSquishy [2011-01-29 20:23:02 +0000 UTC]
Quit thinking you're some kind of failure just because you're attracted to someone other than the person you're seeing.
No one will admit it but EVERYONE does it, yours just happens to unfortunately be related to your significant other.
Don't actually act on it, that's the important part.
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Secret-Teller In reply to VegetarianSquishy [2011-02-14 11:42:45 +0000 UTC]
Huh? o_O Umm I never said I thought I'm "some kind of failure". :blink: Mental autocomplete much?
Btw, there's difference between being attracted to someone and having fantasies about them.
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Baron-Cimetiere [2011-01-29 08:58:07 +0000 UTC]
People are such douchbags in their own minds.
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MasqueVivi [2011-01-29 07:26:30 +0000 UTC]
I think that anybody would resent their significant other having persistent fantasies about ANYONE that wasn't them (or at least being told about it in great detail, anyway.) But the truth is, they're just fantasies, something you think about, and put in the back of your mind after you're done thinking about it. It doesn't hurt anybody as long as you're the only party involved in your actions.
Infidelity is way too strong a word for merely a passing fancy. the truth is that you probably are only into the sibling because she reminds you of the girl you really love. Even if that's not the case, Your mind is your own place, and you're entitled to think about whatever you want as long as you don't do something inappropriate in real life.
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AnarWolf [2011-01-29 07:23:12 +0000 UTC]
I've SOOOO been there ^_^ actually I'm currently thinking of such acts ;D
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Felix55 [2011-01-29 07:22:46 +0000 UTC]
Interesting... this secret really gets me thinking.
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