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Burksaurus [2020-01-29 06:17:47 +0000 UTC]
I don't mind your description. I would always respect a woman
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downgrade101 In reply to B9TRIBECA [2011-08-23 22:10:53 +0000 UTC]
Thanks buddy! Glad you like her
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downgrade101 In reply to jsiejkd [2011-08-23 22:18:04 +0000 UTC]
Glad to hear it! Happy you enjoyed the read. I plan to post more in the future.
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tinytitaness [2011-08-23 13:28:55 +0000 UTC]
I didn't find this too offensive and I rather enjoyed the insight. The picture is gorgeous too and I absolutely adore it.
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downgrade101 In reply to tinytitaness [2011-08-23 22:21:07 +0000 UTC]
yes, with these, it is not my intention to offend anyone. I just want to post my view on certain matters. But i'm happy you enjoyed it!
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CzargentSane [2011-08-23 13:27:44 +0000 UTC]
you were afraid 3 was going to be offensive, but not 4??? ya'know, the one with the head of the household crap.
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downgrade101 In reply to CzargentSane [2011-08-23 23:29:40 +0000 UTC]
Hey, I was raised with those ideals. Like I said, submission in no way means slavery. And when I say head of the household, I mean that the husband is the one that sets the example for the family. The one who, after discussing a matter in detail with his wife, makes the final decision for the family. It means that the husband puts the needs of his wife and kids before his own. I'm a country boy, and that is how I was taught a family is supposed to work.
People take the idea of headship in the family and twist it around and think that it means that the man is supposed to be some tyrant-like bloke was who treats his wife like a slave. No sir. Marriage is a partnership. It requires the cooperation of both to work out right.
Sorry for the rant ^^ I just wanted to try and explain what 'head of house' means to me and how i was taught.
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CzargentSane In reply to downgrade101 [2011-08-24 16:15:03 +0000 UTC]
I read the whole description, I know you said "I don't mean slavery."
I knew exactly what you meant when you said head of the household. and its wrong. man and woman should be -equal- in a relationship. submission of any kind is wrong, in that it is fundamentally the antithesis of equality. no one gets MORE say then anyone else. no one should be the one who sets the example based on their GENDER.
let me ask you this: WHY is the man the head of the household? why does he get final say?
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downgrade101 In reply to CzargentSane [2011-08-26 17:36:11 +0000 UTC]
OK. first, sorry for taking so long to reply, like my journal says, I've been pretty busy. And listen, I don't want this to turn into an argument. I'm very sorry if I struck a nerve with you. I totally agree with equality in the marriage. Like I said, it's a partnership.
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CzargentSane In reply to downgrade101 [2011-08-28 03:29:30 +0000 UTC]
if you don't want you argue I can accept that.
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