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Published: 2011-08-23 13:24:10 +0000 UTC; Views: 3429; Favourites: 56; Downloads: 79
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Description Gentlemen, it's time for us to have a talk about sex. Before we go any further, get you minds out of the gutter. This is not THAT kind of talk. Men, we are full of pride. We love getting our egos stroked. It is to the point that we as men don't ask for help. What I'm getting at is that when it comes to sex, Men tend to just put it in, get themselves off and that's that. They don't take into account that their mate may still need some stimulation to get "there", you know what I mean?

All I'm saying is, to me, I believe that a woman should be completely satisfied after every intimate encounter that they have with us. But because of our egos, men have the phrases, "I got this!" or "I'm the man!" flashing in their heads constantly. And because of this, the woman is often left high and dry and, out of love, will fake her cry's of pleasure because she knows how fragile her man's ego is. Men, put down your so called "egos" and be a man and ask your woman, "Baby, what can I do to please you?" There are a few reasons why I think this way, let's look at the facts, shall we?

1) Sex is the absolute highest form of physical love that you can show your mate and as such, out of love, you should do your utmost to make sure that they enjoy it completely.

2) With all the changes both physically and emotionally that women go through either by getting their "visitor" every few months or by carrying YOUR child, they deserve some complete lovin'.

3) (ladies here who may read this, don't take it the wrong way please) Women are emotional creatures. A half-hearted attempt at love-making may make her feel bad about herself or question your attraction to her. And...

4) Man may be head of the household, but before you're even married, it is the WOMAN who gets to choose who she will submit to (submission DOES NOT mean slavery), so you should WANT to make sure that the girl is left speechless and on the brink of loosing consciousness after every love-making session as a thanks to her for choosing you.

Also, If your mate takes the initiative and tells you that when it comes to sex, you aren't "the man," (or "the women," because sometimes it goes that way too.) but is willing to teach you a few things, don't take it as a stab to your pride and get mad. Nobody is perfect so if your mate has something to say, then you should listen. In any kind of relationship, it tends to work out better if both parties are willing to help each other out.
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Comments: 14

Burksaurus [2020-01-29 06:17:47 +0000 UTC]

I don't mind your description. I would always respect a woman

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B9TRIBECA [2011-08-23 17:04:35 +0000 UTC]

I don't find it offensive. She looks hot!

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downgrade101 In reply to B9TRIBECA [2011-08-23 22:10:53 +0000 UTC]

Thanks buddy! Glad you like her

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B9TRIBECA In reply to downgrade101 [2011-08-23 23:05:07 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome man!

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jsiejkd [2011-08-23 14:45:56 +0000 UTC]

I too don't find it insensitive at all. I find it rather enjoyable to read that description. And plus with the picture that comes with it,my oh my

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downgrade101 In reply to jsiejkd [2011-08-23 22:18:04 +0000 UTC]

Glad to hear it! Happy you enjoyed the read. I plan to post more in the future.

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jsiejkd In reply to downgrade101 [2011-08-23 23:18:53 +0000 UTC]

That is very reassuring to know

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tinytitaness [2011-08-23 13:28:55 +0000 UTC]

I didn't find this too offensive and I rather enjoyed the insight. The picture is gorgeous too and I absolutely adore it.

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downgrade101 In reply to tinytitaness [2011-08-23 22:21:07 +0000 UTC]

yes, with these, it is not my intention to offend anyone. I just want to post my view on certain matters. But i'm happy you enjoyed it!

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CzargentSane [2011-08-23 13:27:44 +0000 UTC]

you were afraid 3 was going to be offensive, but not 4??? ya'know, the one with the head of the household crap.

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downgrade101 In reply to CzargentSane [2011-08-23 23:29:40 +0000 UTC]

Hey, I was raised with those ideals. Like I said, submission in no way means slavery. And when I say head of the household, I mean that the husband is the one that sets the example for the family. The one who, after discussing a matter in detail with his wife, makes the final decision for the family. It means that the husband puts the needs of his wife and kids before his own. I'm a country boy, and that is how I was taught a family is supposed to work.

People take the idea of headship in the family and twist it around and think that it means that the man is supposed to be some tyrant-like bloke was who treats his wife like a slave. No sir. Marriage is a partnership. It requires the cooperation of both to work out right.

Sorry for the rant ^^ I just wanted to try and explain what 'head of house' means to me and how i was taught.

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CzargentSane In reply to downgrade101 [2011-08-24 16:15:03 +0000 UTC]

I read the whole description, I know you said "I don't mean slavery."
I knew exactly what you meant when you said head of the household. and its wrong. man and woman should be -equal- in a relationship. submission of any kind is wrong, in that it is fundamentally the antithesis of equality. no one gets MORE say then anyone else. no one should be the one who sets the example based on their GENDER.

let me ask you this: WHY is the man the head of the household? why does he get final say?

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downgrade101 In reply to CzargentSane [2011-08-26 17:36:11 +0000 UTC]

OK. first, sorry for taking so long to reply, like my journal says, I've been pretty busy. And listen, I don't want this to turn into an argument. I'm very sorry if I struck a nerve with you. I totally agree with equality in the marriage. Like I said, it's a partnership.

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CzargentSane In reply to downgrade101 [2011-08-28 03:29:30 +0000 UTC]

if you don't want you argue I can accept that.

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