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PentaGaleArts [2016-08-14 11:30:20 +0000 UTC]
O-M-GGGG!! oh, gosh it is soooo beautifull! I absolutely love it! Β XD
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7MoonWillow [2016-05-16 04:57:35 +0000 UTC]
This is an absolutely stunning ring, if you ever do make it and sell please let me know, it is so stunning! WOW!
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7MoonWillow In reply to FrostKittyAnimation [2016-05-16 08:38:48 +0000 UTC]
Aww, I am so sorry to hear that, I completely understand how you feel, my ex fiancee left me out in the cold too, and it sucked because she asked me to move cross country with her just for her to leave me 2 months later ... I definitely understand that kind of pain, that's kinda why I feel so close to the phoenix, not only is it a symbol that is commonly associated with my zodiac its also a really personal thing for me, I had issues with things... and well the whole rebirth into something better is kinda what got me through it, three times now lol, and rainbows are also something I am quite fond of since well I am a homosexual lol I hope that things go well for you, and I really hope that you find someone who treats you well ^^
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FrostKittyAnimation In reply to 7MoonWillow [2016-05-16 09:22:17 +0000 UTC]
I'm sorry to hear that... Sadly, my story is similar... My ex was my best friend for over 7 years. She wasn't always the best to me in the past but I always forgave her and stayed by her side, even if she hurt me a lot and by anyone's standards didn't deserve it... I saw the good in her and I truly loved her... and in all honesty, I still do, even though I know I should move on with my life... She was having issues with her family... Really bad issues. I believed her and we worked to get an apartment together, though she never helped pay for anything. We planned to get married, but for 9 months she kept pushing it off.. After she left out of the blue, she dumped me over text, and the last time I talked to her (months ago) she told me she never actually loved me. Basically... She used for her amusement for about a year... She destroyed my life, my values, my school/future in a lot of ways... I can't look at myself anymore without hating myself... It's been a terrible experience and it's hard for me to talk about. I'm still fairly young, so I'm doing my best to put things back together and not let this destroy my chances of loving or trusting another again... ...... The ring was designed a lot around my ex. The black-purplish gem is based off her birth/favorite stone as well as her favorite color. The rainbow pattern is from her favorite MLP character, Rainbowdash. She has always loved phoenixes, especially one from WoW, a game we met on. She has always dreamed of flying and I did my best to make the wing prominent to symbolize her "spreading her wings" and taking control of her life (at least based on what she told me early on). I tried to put a lot of thought and symbolism into it, though I think I fell short a bit. It matches the woman I knew a bit... but to be honest... I don't know who she is anymore and haven't got a call back in months. Last I heard she lived far away with her family who hates me (and, according to her, threatened to harm/kill me).
I am really glad you like the ring and it fits you well, and I'm glad phoenix symbolism has gotten you through so much
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7MoonWillow In reply to FrostKittyAnimation [2016-05-16 10:21:12 +0000 UTC]
Im so sorry that you had to go through that... My ex and I ended up being forced to live together for a year or so after... I wish that I hadnt... Having to watch her and realize how terrible of a person she really was.... I warned my now best friend to be careful of her but I guess I just looked like the jealous ex... I grew to hate her so much I wished for her death, but over time I have grown to well hate her less, now I don't hate her for my sake but she hurt my best friend, its kinda funny, my friend and I were fighting so badly that I moved out and scraped up enough money to get my own apartment, but after she hurt her and I heard the news and I kinda started talking to her to make sure she was ok, and of course she wasnt because my ex is cruel... and we kinda just put the past behind us, and became friends again, every cloud has a silver lining. If it helps the way I like to rationalize it that I am lucky that i wasnt stuck with her for the rest of my life, or I didnt had to go through an ugly divorce... I know it is hard but there was some good of what happened, it may just take some time to see where the good wasΒ
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FrostKittyAnimation In reply to 7MoonWillow [2016-05-16 20:26:28 +0000 UTC]
Wow, that's pretty bad... Sadly, my ex told me (for the first time) that she didn't love me back in December... At the time I didn't realize she meant that she never actually love me... She later turned around and acted like she never said that and only had interest in using me for a place to stay... She left near the end of February... the 28th I think... It was a pretty rough time from December to then, and at times I wanted to give up on it all, even though I still believed she actually loved me. She didn't tell me the truth till after she left. Perhaps there is some good in what happened, but sadly, it's mostly bad. I was hurt a lot, my values to destroyed, and my connection to my family ruined. It's really hard to look at myself and continue, but I still try anyways. Thank you for sharing your story... I know it's not good what happened, but it's slightly comforting knowing I'm not the only one who has gone through a hard relationship.
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7MoonWillow In reply to FrostKittyAnimation [2016-05-24 22:10:58 +0000 UTC]
yea... I get what you are saying Hailey said something similar to me, and when I asked her why she dragged me across the US she just looked down and shrugged, she didn't care about the damage she caused.. she didn't care about the tough position she left me in... and I am glad to help in the little way that I have, just know that it gets better ok?
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FrostKittyAnimation In reply to 7MoonWillow [2016-05-25 02:50:27 +0000 UTC]
My ex did pretty much the same... A lot of times she was also very mean about it... Thank you... I try to keep that in mind, though it never really seems to be getting better =/
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FrostKittyAnimation In reply to 7MoonWillow [2016-06-01 06:05:22 +0000 UTC]
Thank you. I've been trying to look at things better recently, and it has helped me feel a little bit better during the day, but not by much. I've started sleeping away the days a lot and hope seems hard to find... But I am trying to make my life beautiful again..
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7MoonWillow In reply to FrostKittyAnimation [2016-06-01 06:22:29 +0000 UTC]
don't worry, time will heal these wounds. I definitely understand your pain, there isn't much I can do but you do have a friend in me, and I may be bad at responding but I am here for you
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7MoonWillow In reply to FrostKittyAnimation [2016-06-03 06:08:13 +0000 UTC]
Don't worry and trust me it will hurt for a while it's been two years almost for me now and I still feel pain sometimes it feels like hints won't get any better, I was a mess of hate and anger for so long that I drove everyone away I was t Led I was so mean that no one would ever like me ever again, I was told to just get over it and to suck it up and that just made it worse but o eventually did. I was a mess of tears and anger and I was so broken I felt shattered but it does get betterΒ
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FrostKittyAnimation In reply to 7MoonWillow [2016-06-06 04:15:01 +0000 UTC]
I hope I get better faster than 2 years... Especially with how much of a mess I am... It's difficult enough for me to keep going each day, let alone do things I need to do.. Blah.. Sadly I probably will go a similar route, if I ever do recover... I hope I do, but even if I do, will the end be worth the path to it? I don't know what could compare to this misery =/
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7MoonWillow In reply to FrostKittyAnimation [2016-06-06 07:30:43 +0000 UTC]
There is no comparison it hurts more than anything, it feels like there are shards of glass in your chest people seem hollow life seems to stop mattering but it does get better you meet new people make new connections and life gets betterΒ
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FrostKittyAnimation In reply to 7MoonWillow [2016-07-04 03:26:46 +0000 UTC]
I dunno if I have ever heard it summarized so well... I hope I meet new people and make new connections and life gets better... Thank you
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FelidaeFire [2016-05-04 04:06:46 +0000 UTC]
Very pretty...I fave!
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jinbaelim [2016-05-02 02:12:56 +0000 UTC]
wow i like it !! this reminds me ofΒ infinity stones !!
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