Comments: 8
BastianConst [2019-07-30 18:27:43 +0000 UTC]
I am truely sorry for your loss
I know it is not easy losing a pet that has been a part of the family for years
Hopefully the future will look brighter
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kopfstoff In reply to BastianConst [2019-08-03 21:22:39 +0000 UTC]
thanks for the kind words and thoughts! we've been outta town
for a week, to get the head free and some distance. it's better now.
thanks again!
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kyleeartist [2019-07-27 20:37:12 +0000 UTC]
oh no! How sad! A few years ago we had to put our dog down because of his old age! I am sorry for your loss :"(
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kopfstoff In reply to kyleeartist [2019-08-03 21:23:38 +0000 UTC]
thanks you, i really appreciate your kind words! it helps
to read good vibes from people who know how it feels...
thanks!
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colours-melting [2019-07-26 11:17:31 +0000 UTC]
I'm really sorry for your loss, and wish you the best. I'm sure they had great lives under your care.
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kopfstoff In reply to colours-melting [2019-07-26 11:56:37 +0000 UTC]
thanks for the kind words! really appreciate them! its so hard.
and yeah, at first you only see the things you did wrong / could have been better...
finus death has waken feelings, revive memories of sasu, too. its so strange & feels
wrong to see gaps where cat toilets and feeding bowls has been. no more "mau!"
when you come home... it just feels wrong. 12 years...
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colours-melting In reply to kopfstoff [2019-08-02 08:36:27 +0000 UTC]
I am sorry for the late reply, I just got internet access again.
Of course it's difficult, when I lost my dog a few years back I felt lots of guilt for not taking better care of her. There was unbearable silence in the house, and I knew it was ging to take a long time to heal. But after a while I was thinking of how happy she was everytime she saw me or how she would run to me in excitement in the morning to pet her, how she'd be super protective of me in all instances, and I realized that she must have known how much I loved her. And that she probably lived a life feeling loved, and thats all she needed. I'm certain that since you loved your cats so much they also felt the same, and that you did nothing wrong in their eyes. Its always difficult but I promise that after a while it's going to be only the good times that come to mind.
I hope you will consider giving home to another pet when you heal from your loss. Take your time mourning her, it's all part of the process.
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kopfstoff In reply to colours-melting [2019-08-03 21:32:35 +0000 UTC]
thank you, seriously. i am deeply thankful for this.
we've been out of town for a week, to get some
time to clear thoughts and to have some distance.
that worked and helped a lot, even tho it was strange,
because every time we went before, i knew there
are my two beloved cats at home, waiting for me.
we arrived a few hours ago, and its so strange again.
to be honest, it was relieving to not have to focus on
them after getting home, beside unpacking and having
a two year old son. but after taking a shower, i thought
i've heard her. we also walked through some spider-
webs in our flat, never happend before.
i know you're right, because i've lost her sister last year
in october. the beautiful moments remained. there has
been hard days now and then, but most of all it was okay
after some weeks/months... with finus death now, sasus
death came back up again. that was very hard.
i know you're right. thanks again for the kind words and
the time! <3
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