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RikiPerot [2021-10-13 03:39:19 +0000 UTC]
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polliwoggledahlia [2019-06-25 03:58:54 +0000 UTC]
Grandma should've read this back when I was 11... She was quite harsh about her anti-artist career views with me...
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LE2 [2016-03-14 19:50:17 +0000 UTC]
I went through the same thing! Only replace "Doctor" with "Nurse" because I was raised by a grandmother who thought it was still 1955.
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briskyart [2016-01-27 11:27:24 +0000 UTC]
I love this! ;-;
I can totally relate..
I want to become a illustrator of some sort. Maybe for books, comic books, etc. I would do them all. I'm willing to work hard because I know it's my dream. Although my grandfather wants me to have a "proper" job, such as a teacher, doctor, etc.
HOWEVER, I understand where he is coming from. But no. I'm going to my dream college and I will work hard no matter what. If it means drawing for 40 hours or more every week, pfft, it might be overwhelming but I will get it done because drawing is my life. I'll make me excited and happy.
I think doing what you love will help you overcome your stress about your job or work. It helps a lot in my opinion..
And thank you for this ;-; I needed this ;o;
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mayshing In reply to briskyart [2016-01-29 01:35:58 +0000 UTC]
you sound seriously into this so i am sure you will do just fine.
As long as u are willing to draw until you puke and keep improving you can make it as a prof.
Most of the art jobs are freelance, project based, so it's not any immediate security, the only security is keep getting jobs or start up your own products that can make enough for your needed salary to pay everything. Best wishes.
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briskyart In reply to mayshing [2016-01-29 11:19:46 +0000 UTC]
That's very true. There's a lot of freelancers out there and I thought that being a freelance illustrator might be best for me. The best part is that at the college I'm willing to attend to; they're very connected to businesses, companies, etc and they can easily help find jobs for their students once they graduate. They still keep in touch after they graduate.
And thanks. c: I'm willing to sketch everyday. God, not a day passes by with me knowing that I seriously, really want to improve in illustration. I just want to go off to college and just draw everyday. ;o;
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mayshing In reply to briskyart [2016-02-03 20:28:27 +0000 UTC]
colleges usually prepare u on older technology but the foundations are all the same, if they can prep u with upto date stuff is even better, but from my experience u will need to really dig for knowledge out of all your professors to get the most of it and make that money worth spent. Ganbatte!
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Gardevoirliker [2015-11-29 17:47:32 +0000 UTC]
I think parent fear arts because it can be quite the gamble, you can be rich or you can be poor, however arts can be learned without any class (it will be hard there's no doubt) since it is a hobby, do that make a artist jobs lower in the great parental jobs hierarchy? Yes, but read careful: "great PARENTAL hierarchy". Still artist are important and if you believe in your dream, who know what you will achieve.
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flozoa [2013-10-30 19:27:32 +0000 UTC]
thank you so much for this. I know you posted this a while ago, but I am only now confronting my parents about my art and how I want to pursue my dream of being an artist...they aren't taking it well, and this comforted me. Thanks!
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Cyber-Knight [2013-01-05 10:17:18 +0000 UTC]
wow back in high school, my mom tried convincing me to be a nurse or a flight attendant. But i didn't want and allowed me to take fine arts: major in advertising. (I wanted animation, but there are limited schools that promotes that course back in my time). Now she's trying to turn me into a call center agent... Yeesh.
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Schplitzkriegs [2011-12-19 23:29:32 +0000 UTC]
Parents say this based on your interests like for example: Oh you like animals? Be a veterinarian! Seriously, that's a bit stereotypical.
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Sirisk In reply to Schplitzkriegs [2015-04-05 20:51:21 +0000 UTC]
Not really for me. My mom used to be a nurse and my dad is a nurse now, so they want me to be a nurse right now. I can't stand looking at really bad bruises or any nasty body parts or anything like that, so it's the total opposite for me.
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Afro-dreads [2011-04-01 17:34:50 +0000 UTC]
This post helped so much, I always knew I would have trouble confronting my mother about the sacrifices that my art course produced, but now this has given me some insight in how I can handle it. (and bless her she is understandably worried)
Just wondering do you have any resources that you can share about creative jobs with illustration or just resources about creative jobs in general?
Whenever and if you can. Thank you <3
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mayshing In reply to Afro-dreads [2011-04-01 18:40:54 +0000 UTC]
i shared what i had on this article, job wise it's a up hill battle, you will tend to come out as a freelancer or intern, you have to work your way up in the biz.
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JenBroomall [2011-01-11 18:07:40 +0000 UTC]
My parents are artists in many art forms: music, painting, writing, etc and I'm an artist too. I have a daughter and will support her in any choice.
Sure you can be a doctor but you can have art too.
I hope those who have not had support get some and don't give up.
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NightMargin [2010-11-16 17:27:13 +0000 UTC]
2a = storyofmylife
Thank you for putting this into perspective! 8D
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chibiveechan [2010-04-26 15:45:51 +0000 UTC]
....I love you.
But seriously, thank you for writing this, it really puts into perspective what my priorities in life are... now if i can get my parents to read this...
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MorbidFool [2010-03-31 08:33:14 +0000 UTC]
The release of JC's Avatar shut my father up regarding my plans for 3D and Environment Design as a career. XD
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DiscombobulatedTrin [2010-03-04 04:18:48 +0000 UTC]
I must say that I have the same argument with my mother all the time and this only reasured me after reading to confront her with what I plan to do. I don't know if you are intrested but I would like to study art in graphic design and traditional means and then become a art teacher.
But thank you very much with this article.
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Almadeia [2010-02-23 22:54:35 +0000 UTC]
I get this with my dad, we actually yelled at each other :<
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mayshing In reply to CaliforniaClipper [2010-02-02 18:26:09 +0000 UTC]
i am not too far ahead of you on that one. lol~ I hope i land a job around 30, i mean, others landed a job at 22. I am in school for WAY too long. -_-bb
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mayshing In reply to CaliforniaClipper [2010-02-02 19:22:35 +0000 UTC]
ah, sorry. XD you know its like TV game, u are trying to get to my level but i am trying to get to Weta/Pixar/Disney level. XD
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iznbodyzangel [2010-01-28 04:31:26 +0000 UTC]
my mom is supportive of me pursuing an art career but half of my siblings and some of the influential people are not... i will look forward to reading more of your articles
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Seraph6283 [2010-01-23 22:16:27 +0000 UTC]
My parents have been supportive as well. That said I wish my dad wasn't so dang ignorant/forgetful of my wrists in relation to what artist career choices I can physically manage without blowing body parts out like an athlete (I like to be able to help usage of my hands). As it makes a already difficult more so by needlessly unintentionally making my limits I very much have to worry about focus in my mind more then they need to be.
I would be a teacher but my langauge skills have lapse so badly and my wrists having to type up lesson plans all the time isn't a good combo. Again I think photograpjhy might be something good for me to pursue as it isn't as hard on me.
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theclownatethem [2010-01-18 00:14:50 +0000 UTC]
though I'm past this stage, I think this is some VERY useful literature
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