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MissCarlette In reply to BalthierFlare [2012-05-31 01:44:06 +0000 UTC]
thank you so much! I really appreciate it! <33333
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StephenTang [2012-05-22 14:36:42 +0000 UTC]
Olha has a tail? I don't think I ever seen any of the art show that.
Your face is cute! You need to work that!
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MissCarlette In reply to StephenTang [2012-05-22 16:26:11 +0000 UTC]
Yup! she has a tail XD [link] you can see it coming out the back here, and on her figure here [link] and here as well [link] :3 Believe me, I wouldn't have added it if it wasn't necessary because I feel really awkward wearing it XD
And thank you! but I've always felt really blah about it so I generally like pics that showcase other aspects.
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StephenTang In reply to MissCarlette [2012-05-23 12:47:35 +0000 UTC]
Hi!
Those links were just your links that you posted. Apparently, I had an extra colon at the end of each link, so dA made it part of the link, so that is why they didn't work. Technology at work! XP
I recommend going with the hair tail. It looks more feminine. I expect the male island natives to have the furry tails. XP I'm understand how your current furry tail makes a nice cushion (lol), but it does seem mismatched with the rest of the outfit.
I think you might be one of those "blossoming" types. In your youth, nobody paid much attention to you and called you names, which hurt your confidence. Some people never escape it. Others need counseling. But from all your photos, you've grown into a comely young woman. You have a boyfriend, you are well-educated, people compliment you on your looks, and people think you are younger than you are (this sounds silly, but it is a great characteristic to have). It sounds like a turnaround story to me. Be confident about yourself and your life and when you project that, other people notice and react differently.
I'm sure you look pretty in normal clothing. Your Ranka cosplay is the closest to a regular outfit, and you look good in that.
Well, it may be a year before we can arrange a photoshoot (unless one of us somehow travels to the other's location). In the meantime, you and your boyfriend can fix up those cosplays to be the way they were supposed to be.
See you around!
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StephenTang In reply to MissCarlette [2012-05-31 16:26:11 +0000 UTC]
I'm not a licensed psychologist, but there is probably volumes to say on this topic, but. lol
It seems that in your childhood, your youthfulness meant people didn't take you seriously. Over time, that caused you to believe that even compliments people made were insincere. Also, this youthfulness probably didn't get you noticed by boys, so you were probably thinking, "Am I pretty? What's wrong with me?"
Now, that youthfulness is an asset. The next thing you know, your friends and colleagues will be asking you for beauty secrets, and your reply will simply be "No secrets. It's just who I am."
Being confident means accepting sincere compliments, accepting useful criticism, and brushing off completely offending remarks (i.e. don't let insults cause you to question yourself).
It's just going to take a little time to undo that old thinking in your head. Your boyfriend, family, and your friends have validated who you are, so you can face the world with a strong (and pretty) face.
I am probably sounding like your parents, so I will end this conversation with "I look forward to your future cosplays."
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MissCarlette In reply to m-squaredphotography [2012-05-22 16:30:46 +0000 UTC]
Thanks guys! And I like it too! It was a really great time of day and there weren't too many people around so it was actually very peaceful :3
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