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NorroenDyrd — I HEART Sincere Comments

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Published: 2015-07-08 14:02:01 +0000 UTC; Views: 994; Favourites: 59; Downloads: 1
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Description Once upon a time, a young man said to me, 'You are pretty!' - and then, a short while later, he added something along the lines of, 'Actually, I think you are ugly, but now that I said you are pretty, you owe me'. Naturally, I was somewhat offended - not by his opinion of my looks, since everyone has their own ideas and standards of beauty; but by his deception - by the fact that he wanted to get something out of me by pretending to be nice. The same, I feel, can be applied to DA. Time and again, I have had people approach me with posts like, 'I watched you, so now you must watch me back!'; 'I commented on your drawing, so now you must draw my character!'; 'I said your artwork looks good, so now you must make a donation on my profile!'. I find it a little saddening - and I approach all the visitors to my page with this simple request:

Be sincere.

I know that I am no Da Vinci, but every drawing and comic I make has a piece of my soul in it; they are meant to make people smile or sigh wistfully or maybe even cry. If my skill or imagination is not sufficient to move you, I will understand that - but in that case, please move on, without pretending that you like what I have to offer just to make me feel like I owe you.

Please comment/fave/watch for the sake of my art (or anyone else's art, for that matter), not for the sake of potential favours you hope to get out of the artist.

I hope this stamp will prove useful to others here as well!
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Comments: 19

Kombayn [2016-10-23 14:51:25 +0000 UTC]

And I think you indeed owed him...a couple of strong words. For being a bloody stupid, manipulative and inconsistent git.

Cannot but agree that when someone comments/donates/favs/watches/etc, the recieving side owes them nothing. Any reply is optional. Well, unless the two are bound by some sort of agreement (like commissions). If a number of favs/watchers etc is so important for someone, there are a lot of people who'll eagerly fav anything, up to the whole gallery, and watch anyone for a fistful of points. Want a pic from this very artist? Points/money is more eloquent than words alone. All hail sincerity.

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NorroenDyrd In reply to Kombayn [2016-10-23 18:06:21 +0000 UTC]

Aaaah, thank you so much for commenting on this stamp!

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yogurtcandy [2016-05-08 04:18:15 +0000 UTC]

true

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NorroenDyrd In reply to yogurtcandy [2016-05-28 13:40:18 +0000 UTC]

^^

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Skyflower51 [2015-07-27 12:14:39 +0000 UTC]

This stamp sums up a lot of what I feel! I feel quite sad when I see someone has favourited/watched/othered my art, then look closer and see they have no interest in the fandom or the art itself. I do look at the pages of everyone who performs any kind of activity on my art or page, but I wish people wouldn't try to get pageviews in that way.
As for you, you are a wonderful person who should get plenty of sincere comments and favourite and so on, because you deserve them. If you don't, point me in the direction of the insincere people, and I'll deal with them for you.

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NorroenDyrd In reply to Skyflower51 [2016-05-28 13:40:14 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for the support and the encouragement! Ahhh, sometimes I just wanna throw my arms up in silent desperation over such attitudes!

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Mind0fMiccAs [2015-07-17 15:21:57 +0000 UTC]

I love your work and I think you're a great person!   Also, a favour from the artist you like is an honour, not a privilege.

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NorroenDyrd In reply to Mind0fMiccAs [2015-07-23 14:58:40 +0000 UTC]

Awww, thank you! ^^
Yeh, the opposite mindset irks me somewhat. >>

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Wynnifredd [2015-07-09 06:39:14 +0000 UTC]

Very well said lovie. *hugs* I still have that mace handy if you need it

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NorroenDyrd In reply to Wynnifredd [2015-07-23 14:58:05 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for the appreciation! And for the mace!

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Wynnifredd In reply to NorroenDyrd [2015-07-23 16:41:13 +0000 UTC]

always at your service *bows*

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BlueOakRogue [2015-07-08 19:49:09 +0000 UTC]

Goooooooood!! Very well said. (And sad that people can be so...artlessly self-serving.) 
Best advice: 'please move on'. I don't understand why people get the urge to waste time on commenting negatively. Be positive or shut your face! Haha. I'm glad you posted this. 
You're right that your art is no Da Vinci. It's Norroen, it's different, and it's awesome. There is no better or worse.  

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NorroenDyrd In reply to BlueOakRogue [2016-05-28 13:39:11 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so, so much for your continued support! I don't understand such people as well, but I've been told that it's because I am too narrow-minded and think everyone in the world has the same thought process as me. >> (Though I dare say that my thought process is nice enough for the world to benefit from it, hah!).

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HopeSwings777 [2015-07-08 19:27:17 +0000 UTC]

I like the heart. The shape is perfect. 

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NorroenDyrd In reply to HopeSwings777 [2015-07-08 19:28:02 +0000 UTC]

Thanks! I hope you like the message, too!

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GreekStyle [2015-07-08 15:34:16 +0000 UTC]

People are actually doing this to you? Giving you nice comments just to take something in return? People these days...

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NorroenDyrd In reply to GreekStyle [2015-07-08 16:11:04 +0000 UTC]

Not all the time, thankfully, but yeah I've had it happen to me - and I have also seen it happen to others. So I think this stamp will be quite relevant ^^

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GreekStyle In reply to NorroenDyrd [2015-07-11 21:36:36 +0000 UTC]

That's true. I am so using this stamp

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NorroenDyrd In reply to GreekStyle [2015-07-12 14:26:34 +0000 UTC]

I'm glad to hear it!

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