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‘Ok so... I’ve been keeping this in for a while
But now I feel like I need answers 
What sexuality am I?
I always told myself that I’m heterosexual (straight) which I still am now.
but... sometimes when I look at other girls, I feel weird... my heart beats faster and I feel myself blush
I feel... attracted to women in some ways...
‘but in my head I always tell myself I’m straight because I show a more clear attraction to men.
but... I don’t know... I still have the feeling for women but it’s starting to stress me out... I don’t know how to feel
does anyone know what this is called??

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Comments: 39

Greentulf [2020-02-04 14:31:19 +0000 UTC]

Or, maybe, you can just try not to put yourself the pressure of categories and only listen to your own person. What you think you are, what you would like to be, and listen to your feelings and desires.
The way people (or even yourself) categorize you shouldn't influence your life.

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OrcaArtzz In reply to Greentulf [2020-02-04 16:13:55 +0000 UTC]

Ok thank you..

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Greentulf In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-04 16:58:25 +0000 UTC]

I'm sorry if it sounded rude, it was not intentional. I just felt like your desire to find out what "group" or "designation" you """belong""" to was the reason you're so stressed out about this.

I just don't want you to be overpressured about those questions, if they prevent you from living your feelings in a happy way.
In the end, it's up to you

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OrcaArtzz In reply to Greentulf [2020-02-04 17:22:16 +0000 UTC]

Oh no no it’s ok!
tbh it’s not really a case of wanting to find out what group I’m part of, it’s just a sense of curiosity as I’m not sure what this feeling is called 

and thanks again qwq

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Greentulf In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-04 18:09:43 +0000 UTC]

The important is that you feel good with yourself

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OrcaArtzz In reply to Greentulf [2020-02-04 18:16:40 +0000 UTC]

Yeeee Thanksies qwq !

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PexxaBlue [2020-02-03 18:53:17 +0000 UTC]

Oh i was questioning myself that too !
for a long time i was like
am i heterosexual or bisexual ?
when i starred at men i always felt weird like i wanted to avoid em cause i never truly knew how you talk to men XDDD
so i guess i am attracted
but in public i never had the same feeling for girls ?
yet i always wanted to try to date one cause online they attract me in some way
so i found out that i am bi-curious more or less 
i guess dating a girl will finally show me if i really am bi 
so i guess you might be bisexual or bi-curious

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OrcaArtzz In reply to PexxaBlue [2020-02-03 19:03:45 +0000 UTC]

That’s exactly how I am!
I may be bi-curious then? ;;

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Kari4ever [2020-02-03 18:49:36 +0000 UTC]

Maybe it's bicurious 🤷

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OrcaArtzz In reply to Kari4ever [2020-02-03 19:03:53 +0000 UTC]

Most likely ;; !

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genocidalfreak [2020-02-03 18:49:07 +0000 UTC]

Hun you could be bisexual, I am as well, I feel more attrackted to girls yes but i already Had a boyfriend as well sometimes i'm just gay for someone and that Not as Joke, it's okay to question yourself but i fear the only way you can find clearance is trying a relationship with a girl, I was unsure for a long time until i've Had my boyfriend, and then I was certain


All I can Tell you is, don't overthink about It so much Do your way Like you want to, you'll Do the right decisions, i'm Sure, the Rest will come by itself, maybe Not today or tomorrow but someday for Sure, and believe me you will be certain hun, just don't overthink so much about It, you're perfect the way you are, and you'll just hurt yourself by overthinking about It, believe me I know that XD

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OrcaArtzz In reply to genocidalfreak [2020-02-03 19:04:28 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sm ;; <3

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genocidalfreak In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 19:05:12 +0000 UTC]

Anytime my dear

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SkyLunaAngel [2020-02-03 18:32:00 +0000 UTC]

its called being bi-sexual babu
u shouldn't be confused cause its okay to have these feelings for the same gender ;w;
be whoever you wanna be and be proud of yerself honeybear *huggle*

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OrcaArtzz In reply to SkyLunaAngel [2020-02-03 18:35:30 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sm babu ;; <3 *hugs8
idk coz its like... the attraction I have for guys is more than the attraction that I have for girls?

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SkyLunaAngel In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 18:59:08 +0000 UTC]

well it can mean two things 
u can be pansexual or bisexual, 
I mean either falls under the same category but Pan means ur into personality
which is normal for quite a few people nowadays 
I'm pansexual but I feel like being called bisexual more cuz in my opinion it just suits me ya know?
ur probably either just appreciating a girl looking nice (Which is normal obviously cuz I use to be able to say girls were pretty/beautiful/etc when I was straight and had no intrest in the same gender)
or u are indeed bisexual, its okay to be confused I was a bit confused myself when I had a crush on a girl ;w; she was a Trans but she was a very beautiful girl
its normal to be conused, take time out and find yourself honeybear <3

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OrcaArtzz In reply to SkyLunaAngel [2020-02-03 19:05:13 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sm babu ;;
That’s really helped me to think about it..! <3

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SkyLunaAngel In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 19:32:32 +0000 UTC]

your welcome hon ;w; <3
just know its ojay to deny it to urself sometimes 
only embrace it when u feel comfortable doing it <3

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OrcaArtzz In reply to SkyLunaAngel [2020-02-03 20:58:16 +0000 UTC]

<333

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RezzoRose [2020-02-03 18:14:50 +0000 UTC]

You could be Heterosexual and Bi-romantic. 
Sexual attraction to the opposite gender, and romantic feelings towards both men and women? 

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OrcaArtzz In reply to RezzoRose [2020-02-03 18:20:03 +0000 UTC]

Possibly? I could probs end up coming out as those

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RezzoRose In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 18:56:29 +0000 UTC]

If you ever need someone to talk to/listen/get advice from, I'm always around, and I'll reply as quickly as I can.

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OrcaArtzz In reply to RezzoRose [2020-02-03 19:05:24 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sm ;;

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RezzoRose In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 19:07:33 +0000 UTC]

It's my job

(Also, Hetalia is amazing, i have to mention that)

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OrcaArtzz In reply to RezzoRose [2020-02-03 19:07:52 +0000 UTC]

;w;

( yes it is uwu )

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RezzoRose In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 19:09:30 +0000 UTC]



(What's your favorite character?)

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OrcaArtzz In reply to RezzoRose [2020-02-03 19:30:09 +0000 UTC]

( My main faves are Russia and Britain qwq, but overall it’s Russia )

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RezzoRose In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 22:50:59 +0000 UTC]

(Kolkolkol, Да, Russia is best sunflower)

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OrcaArtzz In reply to RezzoRose [2020-02-03 22:56:11 +0000 UTC]

( YES HE IS ;w; )

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RezzoRose In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-04 00:00:05 +0000 UTC]

(INDEED)

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BlossomCherrie [2020-02-03 18:13:33 +0000 UTC]

thats how I felt before I found out I'm bi-sexual, but it's ok sissie you choose what sexuality you want to be ^^ I'll support ya no matter what <3333 

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OrcaArtzz In reply to BlossomCherrie [2020-02-03 18:14:28 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sissie<333 ;;

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BlossomCherrie In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 18:15:52 +0000 UTC]

np ^w^ I hope you figer out which sexuality u are, but don't let anyone force ya which one you are you choose. *hugs* 

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OrcaArtzz In reply to BlossomCherrie [2020-02-03 18:20:22 +0000 UTC]

Awwwe sissie thank you ;; don’t worry I won’t <3

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BlossomCherrie In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 18:26:16 +0000 UTC]

np ^^ everyone supports ya cause we love ya lots <333

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OrcaArtzz In reply to BlossomCherrie [2020-02-03 18:35:35 +0000 UTC]

<33333

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Gobbii [2020-02-03 18:11:32 +0000 UTC]

Maybe you're Bi? When a person is Bi, they like both Guys and Girls. I dunno, maybe you're that? I'm not too sure. 

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OrcaArtzz In reply to Gobbii [2020-02-03 18:12:13 +0000 UTC]

Maybe? I’m not too sure

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Gobbii In reply to OrcaArtzz [2020-02-03 18:13:06 +0000 UTC]

I don't wanna say definitely, but that's just what I see.

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