HOME | DD
RoseOfTheNight4444 β There Is A Difference Stamp
#fandom #fangirl #triggered
Published: 2016-09-30 11:28:45 +0000 UTC; Views: 438; Favourites: 15; Downloads: 0
Redirect to original
Related content
Comments: 36
I kinda knew you would make a stamp about this instead of peacefully disagreeing with me.
Its not bad to be emotionally invested with fictional characters you like but you need to draw a line. Triggering has been abused on the internet it doesn't mean '' seeing something you dislike '' it means something that grabs you, like seeing a person that used you bully you in high school so much that you forget to breath for a second and you feel terrified, that reminds you of a traumatizing experience or it consers your phobia. This has to do with people who have a legit phobia for animals or heights, it has something to do with people who suffer from ptds, or suffered from child abuse. Getting triggered over fictional characters to me is offensive for people who really get real legit triggers. Β
If it gets to a point to that than it's really unhealthy and you must reconsider what the fictional characters /fandom/series does to you on an emotional level and if the franchise is really healthy to you. Hate a character? sure! get triggered over seeing thecharacters pictures and names? No just no.
π: 1 β©: 2
I know your comment is from last year, but I really couldn't agree more.
π: 0 β©: 1
I just want you to know this was not directed at you in any way, just inspired by the conversation. I just felt that it should be a stamp, anyways because there are trolls out there who unfairly call casual fans psychotic fans. This stamp is not meant to bitch and moan because you "hurt my feewings" like some butthurt person. I've been really moody the past several days and I needed to get some things off my chest. So I'm sorry if it sounded like I was simply complaining.
Um... Scourge, the example mentioned as an icon, is nearly identical to my ex-fiance who cheated on me. Long story short, we were childhood friends, we thought we could hit it off, we had a strong relationship, he proposed to me on V-Day, he had been cheating on me with a girl he claimed was like a "sister" to him, and even broke up with me shy of our anniversary. This was in June; four months after he got on one knee. Before I knew he was cheating on me, I sincerely believed I loved this guy and he loved me back but he broke my heart in the worst way possible. He's never apologized for it in a way that mattered. He carried on like some egotistical bad-boy and he even feigned feeling bad about it several times. When I look at Scourge, I am haunted by memories of my ex. I literally have anxiety-inducing flashbacks of the relationship, the breakup, and the mess that took place shortly afterward. I was devastated to the point of suicidal thinking. This guy was my world and it literally fell apart on me on the phone when he broke up with me. So yeah, "forgetting to breathe" and triggered are pretty accurate. Even after two years, I'm still shaken up. I haven't been the same sense this because I fell for him so hard.
So I'm sorry if you find this unhealthy but Scourge has this sickening charm about him and it makes me gag. My ex had copious amounts of it. One night my mom was speaking to a total stranger about politics and the like as we were chilling out in front of our apartment and during the conversation, my ex somehow had been mentioned - a total stranger knew of my ex. I live in a fairly small town so it's no complete surprise but do you know what he called my ex and those that like him that live in my town? A parasite. My ex used my mom to live someplace for 6 months without any responsibilities. He never helped with chores and my mom still feels horrible spending so much money on him. She even bought him a new phone days before he broke up with me and didn't even offer to pay her back. At any rate, Scourge is also a parasite whose greed literally sucks the life out of other characters. I hope you understand now.
π: 0 β©: 1
I really hope you work on this because, the way you react might effect how people react to you in real life, and reacting to you.
While I am very sorry for what happened between you and your ex, it still doesnt change the fact that you are overreacting to a fictional hedgehog character, and for your sake I just hope you learn to deal with it better for oyur own health.
π: 0 β©: 1
Hmm... I'll keep that in mind. Social etiquette is not my strong suit but I do try.
Like with my social problems, I'm still dealing with my health. Thinking about it, I suppose the majority of my anger on the character allows me to focus all my negative emotions on something without harming real people; even my ex who deserves it.
π: 0 β©: 1
I think there might be more healthy ways to deal with anger,
Have you ever thought about doing a course in Mindfullness? I am doing that atm and its hard but its a good way to calm yourself, Im doing a course that specializes in Mindfullness training for Β autistic people (like me) and I do feel it helps
π: 0 β©: 1
Having both autism and anger issues, I've never really considered other methods because nothing seemed to work. But I could sure use something to calm myself as anger and anxiety both plague me.
π: 0 β©: 1
I would suggest you look into it! it's not a magical cure but it might help you!
π: 0 β©: 1
Dammit, I want a potion! GIMME. Dumb question but does it cost money? I'm not exactly able to afford alot of stuff right now...
π: 0 β©: 1
It's covered by my health care because Β I have been officially diagnosed with autism. Maybe you can check your health care plan? you can also try doing Mindfullnes on your own by just watching a course video on Youtube. Thats what I sometimes do.
π: 0 β©: 1
YouTube seems the more likely option xD
π: 0 β©: 0
I'm really glad you agree ^^ This should be obvious, I don't know why it isn't. The only thing I can conclude is that such people are casual fans.
π: 0 β©: 1
Hahaha yes XD I am a very obsessed/passionate fan
π: 0 β©: 1
Same! But even these types can be sane fans
π: 0 β©: 1
True true ^^
π: 0 β©: 1
It's so annoying people can't tell the difference xD
π: 0 β©: 1
PFFFFT.Β Yeah right. Don't flatter me you! Β
π: 0 β©: 1
TOO BAD, I'M DOING IT ANYWAY!!! SOMEONE DESERVES A PRIZE!!!
π: 0 β©: 1
PFFFFFFFFFT. xD It's not that great haha It's not even the right size.
π: 0 β©: 1
π: 0 β©: 1