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Published: 2018-08-17 13:37:16 +0000 UTC; Views: 907; Favourites: 37; Downloads: 0
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Bisexuality - attraction to your own gender and other gendersI really felt the strong urge to make this stamp because I, a bisexual, am getting soooo fed up of the whole "bi = 2" shit that's been swarming around for god knows how long. I'm so fed up of people saying that "bisexuals can only feel attracted to two genders" (usually the two binary genders, and usually cis people) and I fucking hate it.
Yes, "bi" means "two". I know. But keep in mind that the term came into existence way back before people were fully aware that there were more than two genders. Bisexual people have literally NEVER given a shit about gender - binary or non-binary, cis or trans. Why on earth would a bisexual person give a shit about genitals, pronouns or identity? Answer: we don't.
ALSO, THE BISEXUAL FLAG ITSELF IS A DEAD GIVEAWAY. Pink = women (cis and trans), Blue = men (cis and trans), and purple = all nonbinary genders. Bisexual people feel attraction to ALL genders, both within and outside of the gender binary. We simply do not give a shit. Please stop assuming that sex and gender are the same thing, or lack thereof. Please stop assuming our attraction is so limited. And if you're not even bisexual, please stop speaking for us.
Thanks for reading.
- Sincerely,
A very angry bisexual
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Sorry this isn't prettier or better looking, I just wanted to make something quick !
Yes, you may use this stamp !!
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hhh does it make me a bad person to call myself bi but personally feel uncomfortable to like,, date a trans?
Like, i have nothing against them, its just a personal preference, and i respect them 100%
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Ahh,, I just feel uncomfortable dating trans people. Like, I prefer not to. I'm not sure how to explain it
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Not wanting to date a trans is NOT transphobia. Thats,,, actually really fucking cruel of you.
I have MANY friends who are trans and i'd support it all the way.
You can feel obligated to love who you want, and yeah i'll admit i'd rather date a cis than a trans. That does not = transphobia.
Preferences =/= transphobia
Not to mention im pretty sure theres a stamp about this.
Calling people a transphobe over preferences is kind of,, rude. Not even kind of but full-out
Know your facts man,,
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Alright. Please tell me why you, a bisexual, would feel uncomfortable dating a trans person.
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I have preferences. Im gay, i wouldn't feel sexually attracted to a trans person(FtM) who didn't have surgeries i guess. I would probably date a trans person who DID have that surgery, though, depending on personality of course. Make sense?
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Wait what?? You're gay? You literally said you were bi (which is what this stamp is about) like 2 comments up.
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wEEPS im questioning alright, i think arguing past the transphobe thing made me think more but yeah.
It's all just preferences.
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You can't just keep throwing the word "preferences" around just because you suddenly feel on the spot. The whole point of bisexuality is not being bothered by someone's genitals/pronouns. Would you feel uncomfortable being with a woman, or just pre-surgery trans men? Is it vaginas that make you uncomfortable? These are important things to think about, because if you feel perfectly fine being with cis men and woman but not a trans man then yes, you are transphobic.
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I truly do believe it is preferences that determines what i am. I don't exactly feel on the spot because i posted a status awhile ago stating that not wanting to date a trans does not make you transphobic. Only one person argued with me n the subject.
Its not exactly genitals either, dating another trans person could be strenuous for you because it's difficult to help support them? People have emotional limits i suppose. I can't exactly keep up with the dysphoria thing because i can only comfort them to a limit. I don't want to be the person that can't comfort my partner. And maybe it is vaginas i don't really like. I want a romantic AND sexual relationship but I'm not attracted to that genital.
I couldn't pin point it, cause i have dated women in the past but haven't really clicked with them like i do males. So it's still sort of a work in progress.
I do feel more gay than i am not but you know.
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You're not attracted to people with vaginas? You've never clicked with women in the same way you do with men? Sounds like you're gay to me dude.
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THANK YOU!!
-A proud bi.
I'm adding this to my profile
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Agreed. I've always understood Bisexual as the attraction to both sexes rather than any particular genders.
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That's literally the exact opposite of what this stamp is saying. Maybe try reading the description?
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I did and agree with your discription. I don't think I explained clearly what I meant sorry. Having grown up around the time where someones sex was also seen as their gender I and my Bi friends understand Bisexuality more as not really caring about a person's biological sex in general regardless of their gender identity. All of my Bi friends don't care about the sex or gender of their partners. None of us understand why it would be seen as attraction to only 2 genders or why you'd have to identify as something other than Bi for loving a Trans person or Nonbinary person when regardless of what someone identified as theyd still be one of the 2 sexes which is what (for our generation at least) Bisexual refered to before the seperation of ones sex and gender became more well known and accepted
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OH I see, thank you so much for clarifying !! That makes a lot of sense, and I agree with you completely. Sorry for the misunderstanding!
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Its okey. I'm sorry for not writing it clearer. I was at work and found this on the last 3 minutes of my break lol
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Nono you're fine !! I get you now. ^^
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For a while I wondered if I was technically pansexual instead of bisexual...but in reality I don't think there is too much difference...it's just a label. I also hate when people call me "bicurious" because I'm married to a dude and if you get to know me...you'll notice I watch alot of shoujo ais have some lesbo stuff on my computer and posters in my living room. So people are like " are you bicurious". NO! NO! I am very aware of myself, and I'm not heterosexual. I'm sexually attracted to other women, but that simply doesn't matter...its just eye candy to me because I'm in love with my husband. Its that simple people. If you found straight porn on your friend's computer, you wouldn't ask them: "are you curious about cheating?" like what? No dude...it's just porn. Which is why I think people are confused about what "bicurious" even means. A bi curious person is a person who is normally straight or identifies as hetro sexual, but interested in experimenting sexually with the same sex. I don't need to expirement, I already know my orientation and am in a committed relationship. End of story.
Lol I'm sorry for the rant LOOOL. I realize this had little to do with what your post was even about but idk maybe something else to add that annoys other bi women such as myself.
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No no, you're absolutely right !!! It's not fair for someone to assume people's sexualities based entirely on their relationship. I'm in a relationship with a girl, but it doesn't change my attraction towards men or NB people. She's gay but I'm not xD But people seem to not like it when bisexuals "choose a side" and get into committed relationships with someone they just so happen to fall in love with LMAO
And yeah, there really isn't much difference at all between bisexuality and pansexuality. I just hate it when people think pansexuality is somehow superior because "GENDER DOESN'T MATTER TO US" or "WE FALL FOR PERSONALITY NOT GENDER" and I'm just a bit. Eh. About it all
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I say bi can mean any 2 genders, at least in definition, including the "my and other genders" since I've also seen "my and nonbinary genders", "men and women", "nonbinary and (insert one binary here)" bisexual people (some cis, some trans/nb ^^). I 100% agree that it doesn't just mean the two binary genders. It depends from person to person. I do love bi being used as the "my and other genders" though! Absolutely love it! <3 Puts a thorn in the NBphobes that's for dang sure. Besides, the nonbinary being the "second" gender you're attracted to would piss off the "but only two???" people since nonbinary is a wide spectrum of different identities haha! Makes it even better
Since bi does mean 2 that's why people still use it for those other cool combinations still. But "my and other" still falls under the 2 category since it's 2 words
Plus there are the "BUT ISN'T THAT JUST PAN??" camp and those people just piss me off cuz "my and other" bi ppl and pan ppl are not the same
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