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The-Quoi In reply to zookimer [2012-06-14 01:02:19 +0000 UTC]

It's a good episode... I had a lot of feelings during it. XD

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The-Quoi In reply to MetellaStella [2012-03-21 20:54:54 +0000 UTC]

Does it? XD

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MetellaStella In reply to The-Quoi [2012-03-21 23:35:46 +0000 UTC]

Ohhhhh, yes.

As an aromantic asexual, I can tell you that AVEN, a forum dedicated to asexuals is chock full of stories like this. XDDD

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The-Quoi In reply to MetellaStella [2012-03-23 01:25:57 +0000 UTC]

Ah, okay. I think it just applies to everybody, no matter what they identify as. I mean.. It's pretty universal. XD

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The-Quoi In reply to smurfeyn [2012-01-28 21:41:20 +0000 UTC]

I know right. With my best friend, it's more of a face that's halfway between a pleased smile and a satisfied troll face... lolol. But then again, I do the same face when she gets asked on a date, so whatevs. lol

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pinkfire123 In reply to The-Quoi [2012-02-01 03:20:26 +0000 UTC]

Lucky....my friend's face is a perverted smirk, an evil grin, and the spitting image of : all rolled into one.

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The-Quoi In reply to pinkfire123 [2012-02-01 05:57:12 +0000 UTC]

Isn't that just trollface described with words? XDD

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pinkfire123 In reply to The-Quoi [2012-02-01 20:36:13 +0000 UTC]

yes indeed it is

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smurfeyn In reply to The-Quoi [2012-01-28 23:58:06 +0000 UTC]

nice~
You at least get asked on dates, mostly I do the face because ther're most likely kidding

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The-Quoi In reply to smurfeyn [2012-02-01 05:56:47 +0000 UTC]

Trust me, I've only been asked on a date... Never. lol. My first significant other was in the seventh grade, so it was like "WE SHOULD DATE", "KAY". Wasn't really your average, you know, "Wanna go to the movies?" type thing.

My second significant other, who I'm still with, didn't take the approach to me either. We were both like, "SO THESE FEELINGS. WE HAVE THEM. THESE BUTTERFLY-EE THINGS THAT WE SHOULD PROBS TAKE CARE OF. YEAH. WOO. KAY." And then we kissed lolol.

Basically what I'm saying is:
Fuck asking people on dates. Just talk about your feels and then someone might reciprocate those feels. XD

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smurfeyn In reply to The-Quoi [2012-02-01 14:58:20 +0000 UTC]

But if you and your bf/gf are going to a sappy, romanitc movie together, it would still be called a date~

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The-Quoi In reply to smurfeyn [2012-02-02 00:24:10 +0000 UTC]

Nah, brah. The kind of movies we go to are slasher/thriller movies lol. Then again, we don't really go to movies all that often either. We mostly stay at home and watch really bad 70's horror flicks or a Pokemon movie or two. Or we duel Yu-gi-oh at my place or drink tea like the sophisticated, fake mustache wearing duo we are. XD It's not really conventional, but there you are.

I guess if I had to define our relationship, it would be a bromance. We're really good bros who trust one another and who also happen to love each other and shit. XD Those are most definitely the best kinds of relationships, because you know that if you need a bro, your significant other is there for you, and when you need a lover, your significant other is there for you too! XD

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MetellaStella In reply to The-Quoi [2012-03-21 16:56:41 +0000 UTC]

"Bromance," I always thought, though, was a comcical term for a platonic relationship. (furthering the idea that romance and sexual feelings are different concepts. But that's just me.)

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The-Quoi In reply to MetellaStella [2012-03-21 20:57:56 +0000 UTC]

I don't understand why you seem angry about this. My relationship with my boyfriend is a bromance, excepting that we kiss sometimes and do romantic-y stuff.

Calm your tits, bro.

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MetellaStella In reply to The-Quoi [2012-03-21 23:34:48 +0000 UTC]

"Angry"?

Where in that comment did I sound angry?

I'm just idly commenting and musing. I'm very interested in the lines (or lack thereof) between platonic and romantic bonds. Trying to double check the vocabulary I use. No anger. Just interest. That your relationship defies norms is cool. I like it.

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The-Quoi In reply to MetellaStella [2012-03-23 01:29:01 +0000 UTC]

Mmm, you did sound a little angry. I apologize for getting the wrong impression. I just don't really concentrate on "what's-what" when talking about humans very often. I just encounter things and am like: "Cool." XD I unno. Relationships can't really be defined in words, because the lines of platonic and romantic are often very blurred. Love is just love, you know?

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MetellaStella In reply to The-Quoi [2012-03-23 05:14:49 +0000 UTC]

Well, 'tis the curse of having compartment-affinity. I've learned to let it go, but still try to be as accurate as possible when conveying things when I can

You're absolutely right, love doesn't fit inside a box. Many things don't.

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smurfeyn In reply to The-Quoi [2012-02-05 00:47:38 +0000 UTC]

We need a definition of date, because my ex and I used to do stuff at his room or mine. But is that a date?
And if you go see a movie with a good friend(who is a guy) and it turns out to be a romantic movies and some scary parts where you squeezes his hand. And he lingers when I was crushing his hand. Is that a date?

Sorry for my rambling...
But it's wonderful that you have such a lucky relationship with your significant other. I hope you two remain happy together.

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The-Quoi In reply to smurfeyn [2012-02-05 17:54:11 +0000 UTC]

I'm confused about where you're going with that. Why do you need a definition of date?

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smurfeyn In reply to The-Quoi [2012-02-05 19:48:24 +0000 UTC]

I'm sorry, I was rambling and got kind of carried away...

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The-Quoi In reply to smurfeyn [2012-02-09 21:17:44 +0000 UTC]

Okey dokey. XD

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