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VisualPoetress β€” With Love To My Mother

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Description About: This is part of the poem that I wrote and then put in my mom's (Rita) casket when she passed away 8 years ago (April 19, 2004) from Lung Cancer. Though I added on to this a few years ago, she was able to read some of it and was able to feel my heartfelt love for her. She always loved this opal background.

I think about her every day and I miss her greatly. I am working on an online cookbook for her in her memory, she worked on family recipes for so many years. When I get it uploaded and done I'll put the link here so you all can go visit.

The song they played at her funeral was "The Dance" by Garth Brooks, it is still to this day very hard to listen to without tearing up and crying. But once a year I force myself to listen to it, so I can get all the tears I hold inside out.

Song Inspiration:

"The Dance" by Garth Brooks
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Lyrics:

Looking back on the memory of The dance we shared 'neath the stars above For a moment all the world was right How could I have known that you'd ever say goodbye?
And now I'm glad I didn't know The way it all would end, the way it all would go Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain, but I'd have had to miss the dance
Holding you, I held everything For a moment, wasn't I a king? But if I'd only known how the king would fall Hey, who's to say? You know I might have changed it all
And now I'm glad I didn't know The way it all would end, the way it all would go Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain, but I'd have had to miss the dance
Yes my life is better left to chance I could have missed the pain, but I'd have had to miss the dance
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Comments: 185

VisualPoetress In reply to ??? [2012-04-21 06:42:33 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sweetie xoxox

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Aussie-Blonde [2012-04-20 05:49:25 +0000 UTC]

hugssss to u Michelle

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VisualPoetress In reply to Aussie-Blonde [2012-04-20 06:21:49 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sunshine

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Aussie-Blonde In reply to VisualPoetress [2012-04-20 06:50:35 +0000 UTC]

u are most welcome sweet pea

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JocelyneR [2012-04-20 04:54:08 +0000 UTC]

Wonderful tribute to your mother and beautiful and touching poem!
When we lose our mother, it is like a part of our childhood but also a part of ourselves is gone.

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VisualPoetress In reply to JocelyneR [2012-04-20 05:18:23 +0000 UTC]

So true, it is so hard. I lost my father this year too.

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Angelis1911 [2012-04-19 22:14:18 +0000 UTC]

Wonderful work Michelle.Really touched me to read it.I honestly believe if she saw this,she'd be so very proud of you.Truly a wonderful and beautiful tribute for her sweetie.It really is.

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VisualPoetress In reply to Angelis1911 [2012-04-20 05:19:06 +0000 UTC]

She got to read part of it before she passed away, I wrote the rest before her funeral. Thank you hun

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Angelis1911 In reply to VisualPoetress [2012-04-20 22:55:35 +0000 UTC]

You're more than welcome sweetie.It's a very wonderful tribute for her.
Have a good and restful weekend sweetie,ttys.

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ClownFreak88 [2010-07-24 12:58:02 +0000 UTC]

That is a wonderful tribute to your mom. My mom died of cancer as well. and it is a very ugly disease and it does not care who it affects...

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VisualPoetress In reply to ClownFreak88 [2010-07-25 04:36:42 +0000 UTC]

My mom and I were so close I still miss her so much .

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ClownFreak88 In reply to VisualPoetress [2010-07-25 16:55:31 +0000 UTC]

my mom and I weren't close until about 6 years before she died, and we both had made peace with our pasts, and I was FINALLY connecting with her (the way it should have been since the beginning) and then in a blink of an eye she was gone....she passed away on my birthday in 2007

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VisualPoetress In reply to ClownFreak88 [2010-07-26 03:36:47 +0000 UTC]

I never knew why she went first and not my dad.

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ClownFreak88 In reply to VisualPoetress [2010-07-26 13:21:53 +0000 UTC]

My mom smoked her whole life, that is until 8 years before she died because the cancer started in her throat (they removed her voicebox and she had a trach (hole in the neck in which to help her breathe)

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VisualPoetress In reply to ClownFreak88 [2010-07-27 01:06:09 +0000 UTC]

My mom did from a teen up until the time she died, she quit for a while but when it came terminal she decided she was going to die anyways. Lung Cancer took her away from me, she passed away she was a mere 89 pounds

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ClownFreak88 In reply to VisualPoetress [2010-07-27 01:48:48 +0000 UTC]

My mom as well, she had throat cancer, lung cancer and eventually she died from a brain anurisym....the doctors say that all cancer goes to the brain eventually. I am so sorry for your loss, my mom couldn't have been more than probably 95 pounds if she was lucky. I can totally relate to how you feel and my sympathy is with you.

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VisualPoetress In reply to ClownFreak88 [2010-07-27 02:51:05 +0000 UTC]

I am lucky to have some DVD recordings of her to watch her in realtime. There is one song that I can't listen to that they played at her funeral and it was Garth Brooks "The Dance" I tear up after the first note of it. It is a beautiful song though, I am hoping to visit her grave on my way down to California, I haven't been back to their since her 2004 burial in Salem, Oregon.

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ClownFreak88 In reply to VisualPoetress [2010-07-27 16:12:37 +0000 UTC]

That is wonderful, we have photos of my mom and a few videos of before she got sick....I know what you mean about songs...the ones played at my moms funeral was Vince Gill (go rest high on that mountain), Billy Gillman (till I can make it on my own) George Strait (I'll see you on the other side) Billy Dean (If there hadn't been you)....all very touching songs and the dance gets me every time as well, I think anyone who passed away in the early ninetys used that song...X million

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VisualPoetress In reply to ClownFreak88 [2010-07-28 02:47:19 +0000 UTC]

I might use it when I pass on which is down the road a long time from now but it is a classic

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ClownFreak88 In reply to VisualPoetress [2010-07-28 12:49:27 +0000 UTC]

oh, absolutely! I can never get enough of Garth Brooks....lol Yes, hopefully you will not be "leaving" us anytime soon....

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VisualPoetress In reply to ClownFreak88 [2010-07-29 04:57:22 +0000 UTC]

I hope I at least got 55 years left at least

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ClownFreak88 In reply to VisualPoetress [2010-07-29 11:37:44 +0000 UTC]

Awesome!

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Leanndra51 [2010-05-26 22:54:03 +0000 UTC]

Oh Michelle,
This is so beautiful, yet heartbreaking too. You were blessed to have such a wonderful mom! Thanks for sharing this part of your life with us!
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VisualPoetress In reply to Leanndra51 [2010-05-27 03:24:59 +0000 UTC]

Yep she was wonderful and I still keep her close to my memory and heart

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1001G [2009-08-16 03:30:28 +0000 UTC]

my mom is gone too and I know how you feel. Life is never the same after your mom is gone...

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VisualPoetress In reply to 1001G [2009-08-16 03:36:01 +0000 UTC]

That is true sweetie

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1001G In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-08-16 03:47:18 +0000 UTC]

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Corvidae65 [2009-08-15 08:47:45 +0000 UTC]

Michelle The poem is lovely and from your heart--that comes through very clear

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VisualPoetress In reply to Corvidae65 [2009-08-15 22:00:07 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sweetheart

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Corvidae65 In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-08-16 03:25:15 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome

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scarlettdarling [2009-05-08 09:52:32 +0000 UTC]

That's beautiful. I'm so sorry about your mom, but you're right, she's in a place where she'll never be sick again. I'd love to see the cookbook!

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VisualPoetress In reply to scarlettdarling [2009-05-09 03:20:34 +0000 UTC]

I'll post it as soon as I am done or well into it

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scarlettdarling In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-05-09 03:41:43 +0000 UTC]

Sweet!

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TheDauphine [2009-04-19 06:06:05 +0000 UTC]

Really beautiful and touching poem!
I know that your mother would love it. It’s very heartfelt.

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VisualPoetress In reply to TheDauphine [2009-04-19 06:42:47 +0000 UTC]

She read 1/2 of it while she was alive, I finished the other half after she passed away.

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TheDauphine In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-04-19 06:53:20 +0000 UTC]

I'm sure she would love it, if she had read it

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AnimadellaRosa [2009-04-18 22:07:11 +0000 UTC]

Dear Michelle, this is such a deeply touching memorial to your Mother. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose a parent, especially losing a parent from cancer. My dad passed away in 1995. Last year around this time my brothers and I learned my mother had stage four cancer. I went to every doctor's appointment and chemo treatment with her. I am happy to say that she is victorious in fighting this horrible battle. I thought I would share this with you in so you know that I do more than understand.

Your Mother is looking down on you with such love and pride. I'm sure she is smiling knowing you have found happiness with a heart filled with love since knowing Rich. Who knows, maybe she gave you two a little heavenly nudge.

Big, big s to you sweetie!

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VisualPoetress In reply to AnimadellaRosa [2009-04-18 22:42:36 +0000 UTC]

Thank you my dear, I know she is smiling that I am on my way to have long lasting happiness with Rich. She knew how miserable I was before.

I pray for your mom's continuous getting better

Hugs and Love - Michelle

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AnimadellaRosa In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-04-18 23:18:38 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome sweetie! She certainly is smiling upon you and everyone she loves.

Thank you for your prayers for my mom. I appreciate it very much!

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VisualPoetress In reply to AnimadellaRosa [2009-04-19 00:21:27 +0000 UTC]

Take care hun

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vampireknightfan [2009-04-16 23:19:33 +0000 UTC]

i'm starting to cry! and i'm not forcing it to come out either. i would have loved to have met her if i came to america, but i know she would have been a wonderful mother to you Michelle. i'm sure she still loves you as much as you love her.

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VisualPoetress In reply to vampireknightfan [2009-04-17 03:05:00 +0000 UTC]

She was an awesome person The kind of mother everyone wishes they had Thank you for reading it sweetie

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vampireknightfan In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-04-17 07:07:29 +0000 UTC]

hey its ok. you are amazing, and so is your mother!

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VisualPoetress In reply to vampireknightfan [2009-04-17 07:10:37 +0000 UTC]

Thank you dear

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vampireknightfan In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-04-17 07:18:24 +0000 UTC]

your welcome.

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mssbehave [2009-04-16 15:13:25 +0000 UTC]

very touching!Sorry about your mom

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VisualPoetress In reply to mssbehave [2009-04-16 19:12:25 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sweetie you would've liked her she was a sweet and caring woman

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mssbehave In reply to VisualPoetress [2009-04-17 01:15:57 +0000 UTC]

you welcome im sure i would

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ChrissieCool [2009-04-16 13:36:19 +0000 UTC]

So sorry for your loss Michelle very beautiful piece

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VisualPoetress In reply to ChrissieCool [2009-04-16 19:17:04 +0000 UTC]

Thank you sweetie

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