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Published: 2013-07-07 23:54:07 +0000 UTC; Views: 250; Favourites: 23; Downloads: 2
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Description is still cool

drawn to the album 'Being Nice is Still Cool' by sledding with tigers (check them out)

and now a rant

it sort of annoys me how fashionable it has become, both on deviantart and other places, for people to act like assholes for no reason,,? like, making themselves look unapproachable or being flat out rude to the people that admire them, or worse, berate them?
it's not edgy or cool telling people how much you hate something and in general being really distant and mysterious and and usually if i see a profile that says "i hate you fuck off lol bye xo" i do so
what's the point? is everybody so bitter that they have to put themselves across as somebody like that? or is their self esteem honestly so low that they are trying to drive everybody away?

it's just something that gets to me, because even leaving a comment or replying to somebody even if its to say "thanks!" is really difficult for me and i just envy the people that have the capacity to be nice and come across as nice friendly people when in real life i have people come up to me and say to me "why do you hate me, why do you think you're better than me?" when i don't think like that at all, i'm just so anxious and awkward to the point it makes me look like an arrogant twat.

if you hate yourself, c'mere, i'll give you a coffee/tea/hot chocolate and some biscuits and we can sit and talk it out or watch a movie or read together and you can feel better

this isn't aimed at anybody in particular, by the way.

have a good night
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Comments: 6

DistortedReveries [2013-10-02 08:04:41 +0000 UTC]

Wow I like your work a lot ;o;

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AtOmIc-SoDA [2013-07-08 22:41:48 +0000 UTC]

i agree with this 100% and omf the fRIKEN coLOURS YOU USE THEY MAKE ME REALLY HAPPY

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klefkis [2013-07-08 00:26:52 +0000 UTC]

ahhh love this drawing, the colours are super fun `w`


AND THANK YOU me and *cIefairy talk about this sometimes, i see people compliment "cool" artists who reply something rude or jerky or "mysteriously cool" in some way that just twists my stomach i dont know why people look up to that????? like ill literally see a fucking line of comments complimenting a person and they respond with the same edgy badass mean guy reply to each and every one of them and that somehow just attracts more people to say "omg i look up to you so much"

i dont understand it, parents need to teach the kids of this generation that its still okay to hold a door open for a lady, goodness

i escape from the real world to places like deviantart in hopes of finding friends and nice people and people who view the same views as i religious, socially, politically, etc-wise since thats so hard to find in real life because of heavily religious people and racist people and blind haters in my family in my real life friends and their families, but it seems these things have even reached the good people ive found on deviantart and other websites u_u

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klefkis In reply to klefkis [2013-07-08 00:27:09 +0000 UTC]

(apologies for the atrociously long and agonizing comment huuheueuehe)

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w0lfguts In reply to klefkis [2013-07-08 00:32:39 +0000 UTC]

i saw your comment and was like "OH NO GLlITTERPISS IS ANGRY AT ME AND THINKS IM MEAN" and nearly cried but then i read it and was so relived you were agreeing with me

but yeah even online social interaction is hard.

also when people have a huge group of 'mega cool' friends i feel so intimidated especially if they're really nice to those people and then really rude to everybody else like

and then here i am basically sat screaming PLEASE BE MY FRIENDS I LOVE YOU ALL

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klefkis In reply to w0lfguts [2013-07-08 00:37:05 +0000 UTC]

hHEHEHE NO I COULDNT BE MAD AT YOU ITS OK


yeah oh my gooodd theres one of those friend groups youre talking about that i know of and like 3 of them are visiting me and my friends pages CONSTANTLY and were starting to get under the impression that theyre like????? making fun of us or SOMETHING because they dont watch either of us????? its really weird and creepy and ugh but oh man i hate those friend groups so much they make everyone else feel inferior to them and if you even say something all their friends just make fun of you,, its obnoxious/////

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