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Published: 2015-04-24 18:23:06 +0000 UTC; Views: 998; Favourites: 38; Downloads: 3
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I did this exactly three weeks ago and was tooooooooo lazy to post, because I want to talk about Bisexuality. (So if you don't want to know what I have to say just skip my babbling bellow.
)Just so you know, I am bisexual which means that I'm attracted to both genders, male and female. That said, what brought me to do this drawing was based on an experience I had a week before, when I was with this girl and a lot people kept staring and mainly man would look at us with that filthy, lustful stare. It disgusted me. Then, by chance, I saw this video: www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUozcq… The title is "What Lesbians Think About Bisexuals". During the video my mouth dropped and I stayed open-mouthed throughout the rest of it, because it's so rude what they think about us, bisexual people. Some people are so misconceived about what Bisexuality is, that at one point it is really annoying.
Just because I am bisexual,
It doesn't mean that I want to kiss/make out/hang out/whatever with everyone. Yeah, I'm attracted to both genders BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN I WANT EVERYONE ON EARTH.It doesn't mean that if I am with someone I'll cheat her/him with someone of the opposite sex. (urgh!!) If I am with this someone IS BECAUSE I WANT TO BE WITH THIS SOMEONE. Be bisexual doesn't mean I'm a cheater.IT DOESN'T MEAN I WANT A FREAKING TREESOME/MÉNAGE/THE FUCK IT IS. If I'm kissing someone (specially a girl) it doesn't mean I want another fucking mouth between us)(yeah it happened)And NO. IT DON'T FUCKING MEAN I AM CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT I WANT. God. No. I know what I want. I want someone that love me for what I am, be that someone an women or a man.*sigh* and NO. It doesn't mean that when I am with someone I stop to be bisexual............. *SIGH* because... guess what? I'll still be attracted to both genders; which doesn't mean I have the NEED to BE with both genders. I was really sad when I saw that video because I thought them would understand people with different sex orientation!!! BUT NO!!! PREJUDGMENT ARE EVERYWHERE!!!!!!
Ok. That's it. I'm better now. And if what bisexuality is are still not clear to you, please watch these two videos bellow. Thanks.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6SXrK…
www.youtube.com/watch?v=j63sq5… (<<< she is awesome. I love her ♥)
EDIT: As someone said I was generalizing everyone when I wanted to be fair to everyone. I know that not every homosexual nor every heterosexual think those things about bisexuals. So I want to truly apologize for those who read the text before I corrected it.
((Oh, and that beautiful princess of the image is my gorgeous, bisexual lady, Evy. She used to date Psique, but shit happened and now she is alone and Psique is with Claude.))
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Comments: 21
Please, don't be angry or sad.
People are just people - incomplete in some ways and unfortunately intolerant. Be yourself and try to not hear the words of hate from those whom don't understand such simple thing that LOVE is just LOVE.
I would like to write more about that what you wrote but my english is not good. Ugh... It's so irritating.
Your drawing is AMAZING. So calm and beautiful.
I'm sending big hug and a little positive energy to you.
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I know people are just people, but I'm people too hahahaahaha I'm more calm today compared to the day I watched the video, and I try to ignore those kind of comments because I know that there are good, open-minded, people out there and it still give me hope!! So I'm not the worried anymore.
Your comment is amazing, and thank you so much for doing it so. Your english is really good by the way... but who am I to say something since my english is not that good too?? hahaha Thank you once again, I'm really glad you liked this drawing ♥
Sending a hug back and keeping your good positive energy for a while (I'll need it) ♥♥♥
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1) amazing drawing, so beautiful and peaceful, that space dress makes her an Universe Goddess! And those feet barely visible through the layers of it! I can't stop looking at them. I would love to hang it on my wall as a print! ♥
2) that video made me so angry! How dare they judge bisexuals??! After them knowing how it is to be judged by other people, they are acting THE SAME. Same on you, lesbians! (not all of them but those who think that. which is probably most of them) I'm bisexual myself and I had HUUUGE problems with accepting my sexuality (had to go for counselling to realize that I don't have to pick the side, that's being bisexual is perfectly normal and it's not a stage in between) So being bisexual is hell loads more harder than being gay/lesbian. cause you have to fight for the acceptance of both sides.
Also I had hard time when I told my ex boyfriend that I'm bi. now, I'm scared to make this mistake again. my boyfriend doesn't know. and I think that's just better for both of us. cause really, you don't sit in someone's head to know he/she will be ok about the fact who you are. I mean, jealousy is a bad thing you know? because when you are bi, what if all your friends who are girls are your potential lovers lol? uhh can't talk about it any more. but I feel your pain 
3) Kiera Rose is amazing! Wise and pretty. And omg I love listening to her deep voice
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Thank you so much! The dress came out of nowhere because I didn't like the way I paint her body, but it fit perfectly!!! So I'm glad you liked it, really! hahahah
Everything you told me is so sad because you should be able to be who you are in front of everyone without having everyone judging or stereotyping you all the time. I mean, is really annoying to think that the one you are with are jealous because "everyone" could be a potential lover!!!! THAT'S SO WRONG!!!!
I'm having a really hard time telling people that I'm bisexual (since I assumed to myself just a while ago), because on high school I couldn't even think about the possibility of telling everyone without the jokes and stares and all that shit. Now I'm still a bit afraid but people around me are more considerate and are not judging me, which I'm glad for!!!
Thank you for comment and telling a bit about you!!!!! ♥
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my ex was like that but it was his problem really. my boyfriend is not jealous about me but I just don't feel that he needs to know if he doesn't ask, dunno. I'm in love and nothing else matters right now : )
I hope people will accept you the way you are. stay strong!
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I am happily a lesbian, and one of my old friends is bisexual, and I would just like to say not ALL homosexual people think the same way. Saying that we do is like saying all bi's are cheaters or whores or what not. But otherwise, I agree with you. People need to stop stereotyping, because my friend (a straight one) said "i thought you just wanted to have sex with every single girl you see" and I was like "no, if you don't want sex with every guy, why am i different just because i don't like the opposite anatomy?" and she just shrugged and walked away.
edit i just watched the video, and yeah. i don't agree with any of them.
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I didn't mean all homosexual. I just "generalized" to keep my ideas on track, but I did just as wrong as the people I was blaming, so I'll change what I wrote because I want be fair with everyone. I agree with everything you said, and I just can't understand those who stereotype everything. Thank you so much for your comment, I really appreciated it. And thank you once again!!
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Its fine, I just wanted to point it out in case someone took great offense and flamed you. You're welcome.
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And I'm really appreciated of that! Seriously.
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^^ don't worry about it. I would want someone to do the same for me, because I know that I get hypocritical, especially whenever I'm passionate about something and not piecing my thoughts together as well as I should be before going off and blaming people. Its a human thing, so no big.
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Those kind of things just piss me off. There's nothing wrong to be attracted to both genders, and it doesn't mean that you're forcely polyamorosus if you like girls and boys as well (even if there's nothing wrong with that but it's a too common assumption). It's really sad how bi/pan/ace people are considered 'wrong' and 'confused' by queer people too, I mean shouldn't you know how it feels being called like that? Mhe... THIS is hella confusing : /
The drawing is gorgerous btw, I love her dress
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YEEAH!! I'd comment about polyamorous but the description would be really big. That's not wrong in being polyamorous and some bisexuals might be polyamorous but that's not my thing, and there is a HUGE difference in polyamorous and cheating (and that's another thing that bothers me, because polyamorous people are always being called "cheaters" by someone DDD
((I also like her dress hahahaha)
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Como sabes, já tinha comentado este desenho no Youtube, mas não sabia o que tinha acontecido para te levar a desenhar isto.
Apesar de ser heterosexual, se há coisa que mais me enerva, é este tipo de preconceito, ideias preconcebidas para com as diferentes sexualidades. Cada pessoa é livre de ter qualquer orientação sexual, e não tem de ser inferiorizada, ridicularizada ou criticada por isso, nem sequer levar com esse tipo de comentários. Acho simplesmente ridículo; somos tão avançados nalgumas coisas, mas ainda assim há pessoas que mantém uma mentalidade retrograda.
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Concordo com tudo o que você disse!! Já estamos em um século, em um tempo tão avançado, mas certas pessoas parecem ter parado no tempo. Eu realmente espero que isso acabe um dia, por ninguém merece este tipo de julgamento.
Obrigada por este maravilhoso comentário, adoro ler todos eles ♥
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Ok so Im bisexaul as well and omg I am so mad at this video like what the...I just like really its so rude my head is spinning right now
(also great pic by the way
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IKR???? I wanted to argue with them, because I felt really bad. I's extremely rude what people think and say about bisexual people.
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That girl with dreadlocks (nothing against her hair) was the worst god she got my blood boiling she was just so rude about the whole thing and really ignorant?? i think that the right word??
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Yeah, those on the video are REALLY ignorant!!! And the other video "What Gay Thins about Bisexuals" is just as annoying as this one....!!!!!!!
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I didnt watch that one I had enough anger and ignorance for one day
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I know... !! Don't watch it then... it's better this way haha
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haha I'll probably watch it eventually anyway
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