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Published: 2019-01-21 18:15:54 +0000 UTC; Views: 2092; Favourites: 57; Downloads: 0
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Description ShaCorrie Wimbley, a Kansas transplant, and Saja Tunkara, an asylum seeker from Sierra Leone, met in Seattle in 2007. ShaCorrie recalls her initial response to Saja, the first foreign man who tried to chat her up. "I was not very nice." But Saja did impress her as kind and patient. "He called every day for a year until I answered the phone."

Fast forward 10 years to 2017. ShacCorrie and Saja are now married, with 2 children. ShaCorrie says of her husband. "He cooks, cleans, does laundry, makes the kids lunches, and gives them baths. I never have to ask for help. He just did it. We have built a life together. We have been through so many things that would have destroyed any family..."

ShaCorrie applied for US permanent residency for her spouse, but the petition was denied. They decided to wait for the outcome of his years-long pending asylum case, which was also later denied. On top of that, Saja was diagnosed with congestive heart failure and a neck tumor.

Saja was scheduled for a tumor-removal operation in January 2018. But because he had remained in the U.S. to support his family after his asylum case was denied, ICE took him into custody shortly before his scheduled operation. ICE did not allow him to keep his hospital appointment.

In the weeks that followed, a local organization NWDC Resistance received calls from [inside the detention center] saying, 'There’s a guy with tumors on his neck that we can see, he shouldn’t be here, he should in a hospital." 

It was not until April 2018, after spending months in pain, that Saja was allowed to have his operation , by which time nerve damage had led to permanent decreased mobility in his arm.

Saja was deported in October 2018, after spending more than 9 months in detention, during which time he acquired vision and breathing problems, in addition to more tumors. ICE did not allow him his wife and children to say goodbye to him. The Tunkaras miss each other terribly.

Read the story of Saja and ShaCorrie's romance here. (Gofundme page to support the Tunkara family)

News about the Tunkaras:
Did ICE Retaliate Against a Detainee Over Seattle Weekly Report? Seattle Weekly, Nov 5 2018
Incarcerated and Infirmed: How Northwest Detention Center Is Failing Sick Inmates Seattle Weekly, Oct 10 2018
South Seattle Emerald, Jun 8 2018

To those rather predictable people who respond to reports of abuses in immigration detention by saying, "Oh well, if you break immigration law, you'll have to suffer the consequences":

I'm all for being law-abiding. But let's not forget that the goal of law and order is justice and safety. Where is the justice if the consequence is horrendously out of proportion with the "offense"?

Losing your eyesight and losing the use of your arm for overstaying a visa is NOT a just consequence.

And where is the safety when the main breadwinner of a family is suddenly ripped away?

In the case of taking Saja away from ShaCorrie and their children, ShaCorrie said: "Since my husband has been detained, I have entered a financial vortex..."  Despite working full time, she still struggles to pay for basic necessities for her family.

Unfortunately, the Tunkara family's plight is not unique.

A Mississippi family with U.S. citizen children had their husband and father taken away "when [the] family was at its most vulnerable – just home from the hospital with a baby only five days old." The father Jorge had told ICE about the baby. Still, the agents left the mother Rita alone with her three children and without so much as a call to local domestic support agencies, which is routine for local police.

Back to the subject of "justice": let's remember that immigration detention is civil detention, NOT criminal detention. It is NOT supposed to be punitive.

And even in the case of criminal detention, is acquiring a permanent disability part of the sentence? 

What happened to Saja Tunkara is not an isolated incident:

Mergensana Amar, another asylum seeker held in the same detention center where Saja Tunkara was held, died in Nov 2018 under questionable conditions. 

What happened to Mergensana Amar? The Russian immigrant’s handwritten note raises questions about treatment at Northwest Detention Center  (The Seattle Times, Nov 30, 2018):Was the asylum seeker thrown naked into a cold cell?  

Roxsana Hernandez, an transgender woman from Honduras who requested asylum at the official port of entry in San Ysidro, California, was also allegedly held in cold conditions after she was taken into immigration detention:

A fellow detainee, Stacy, alleged that Roxsana had fallen ill when she was locked up for 5 days in a notoriously cold holding cell, nicknamed an ice box. Stacy claimed that Ms Hernandez was refused access to a doctor despite coughing, vomiting and suffering from diarrhoea and severe pain all over her body. "The ICE officials yelled at her" because she was sick, Stacy was quoted as saying. (BBC News 31 May 2018) 

Roxsana died in ICE custody on May 25 2018. An independent autopsy found that she had been beaten.

"Piecing together the timeline and dating the injuries based on the pathology, it seems that the injuries (happened) when she was handcuffed and in custody," said Andrew Free, a civil rights attorney representing her Ms. Hernandez's family.  (Journal Sentinel, Nov 27 2018)
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Comments: 30

Varagka [2019-05-02 18:58:19 +0000 UTC]

This is so AWESOME! great work!

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Wolfberry-J In reply to Varagka [2019-05-30 06:49:33 +0000 UTC]

Thank you!

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Mr-Ripley [2019-03-30 12:14:54 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful work. I like the colors

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Wolfberry-J In reply to Mr-Ripley [2019-03-31 03:55:10 +0000 UTC]

Thank you, friend!

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ricky4 [2019-03-17 00:01:40 +0000 UTC]

Nice shades and lightning reflections!

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Wolfberry-J In reply to ricky4 [2019-03-19 05:23:38 +0000 UTC]

Thank you!

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The-Last-Phantom [2019-02-12 16:43:48 +0000 UTC]

Very beautiful colors!!!

 

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Wolfberry-J In reply to The-Last-Phantom [2019-02-23 18:17:26 +0000 UTC]

Thank you!

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The-Last-Phantom In reply to Wolfberry-J [2019-03-11 12:45:44 +0000 UTC]

 

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Wolfberry-J In reply to The-Last-Phantom [2019-03-29 03:23:11 +0000 UTC]

Thanks, friend.

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The-Last-Phantom In reply to Wolfberry-J [2019-12-07 08:18:10 +0000 UTC]

 

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alinecarneiro [2019-01-22 12:06:53 +0000 UTC]

Hi, I am from Brazil. 
We now have a presidente even worse than Donald Trump, believe me. He made Brazil left the Global Compact Imigration thinking he can make Brazil safe from what he calls "The garbage of refugees", as if many people would aply to immigrate to Brazil, wich send more people to other countries than receive refugees. I am sad, angry and very pissed with this government and anyone who is making refugees lifes a suffering life. Because lefting this pact, Brazil just turn the life of Brazilian immigrates worse, because any country has now no reason to receive and host Brazilian people. 
I'd like to live in a country wich welcom people of any nation with war or poverity problems well, but I am ashamed by the government I never voted to run my country. 
So, I give you my friendly embrace to your cause. I promise to help to share this story because we need global atention for the migration problems. The problem of migration are not the emigrates, but the war, the poverity, and the concentration of money. 
And of course, congratulations, you have amazing work.

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Wolfberry-J In reply to alinecarneiro [2019-01-23 06:04:51 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts! I've heard news about Bolsonaro's controversial views on the radio here, but this is the first time I am hearing someone speak firsthand of the impact of his policies.  I am so sorry that this is happening. 

I hope Brazil will become the country that you want it to be. There is hope as long as there are compassionate people like you.

Thank you for your kind support and empathy.   

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alinecarneiro In reply to Wolfberry-J [2019-01-23 10:58:04 +0000 UTC]

I am always supportive with humanitarian causes, because I think we all are one. Thank you for share your work and spread your message!
And about Bolsonaro, he appeared yesterday in Davos and now the world KNOW how mediocre he is. 

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Wolfberry-J In reply to alinecarneiro [2019-01-26 10:47:01 +0000 UTC]

I hope that more people would treat others as they would like to be treated.

Btw, Bolsonaro gets a mention in the opening paragraph of Social media is rotting democracy from within

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alinecarneiro In reply to Wolfberry-J [2019-01-26 13:28:19 +0000 UTC]

Yes, the article has accurated informations. Specially about how whatsapp had a major role in these elections. 
This week Bolsonaro shown his ugly face in Davos. An human rights defensor deputy is leaving the country because his life is in danger. I hope to see the light somehow, but the best I can do far now is resist.

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Wolfberry-J In reply to alinecarneiro [2019-01-28 14:52:26 +0000 UTC]

I am so sorry to hear of what is happening to Jean Wyllys!  It is disgusting to see how the bigots who issued death threats to LGBTQ politicians and activists are now more emboldened than before. 

There was a similar situation in the US, with a transgender activist having to leave the country and seek asylum abroad after being targeted by neo-Nazis who sent her over 12000 threats.

I hope that things get better in Brazil soon. May love triumph over hate.

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alinecarneiro In reply to Wolfberry-J [2019-01-28 16:32:42 +0000 UTC]

I am sure love will win! Love above all odds. 

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akitku [2019-01-22 08:14:38 +0000 UTC]

Gosh, I don't know what to say. The piece is so sweet and pretty, but the testimonies so horrific! It's good you bring attention to them! 

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Wolfberry-J In reply to akitku [2019-01-23 05:53:33 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for your kind words.   I hope the day will come when such cruel things don't happen anymore. 

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CasuallyCormack [2019-01-22 04:54:53 +0000 UTC]

Amazing art as ever. Wish we didn't still have to call attention to these abuses of human rights...

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Wolfberry-J In reply to CasuallyCormack [2019-01-23 05:41:45 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for your kind support! I hope that more people will choose to be kind instead of cruel to their fellow humans. Is it really that hard?

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SkylaComics [2019-01-21 22:13:00 +0000 UTC]

Gosh their eyes are too cute!

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Wolfberry-J In reply to SkylaComics [2019-01-23 05:16:11 +0000 UTC]

Thanks!

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SmallCurryLeaf [2019-01-21 20:59:26 +0000 UTC]

these testimonies are so sad and shocking... the same things are happening in Europe.

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Wolfberry-J In reply to SmallCurryLeaf [2019-01-23 04:59:49 +0000 UTC]

I am so sorry to hear that things aren't much better on the other side of the pond.

Sometimes, we humans fixate on our differences, but we have so many cruel behaviors in common. I do hope that people's common decency will prevail though, wherever they may live. 

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SmallCurryLeaf In reply to Wolfberry-J [2019-01-23 08:56:30 +0000 UTC]

have you heard about the Mediterranean Sea which has become a huge cemetery with tens of thousands of migrants died during their hypothetical crossing towards what they think is the continent where they can finally live instead of survive?...

I hope your hopes will come true...

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Wolfberry-J In reply to SmallCurryLeaf [2019-01-23 17:30:52 +0000 UTC]

Yes. I have read those horrifying stories about the callousness with which humans crossing the Mediterranean are treated, but only because I follow news from organizations like Doctors Without Borders, and not because the mainstream media talks about it. 

Most of us are probably descended from refugees. Our refugee ancestors might have fled war, famine or persecution 50 years ago, 600 years ago or 2000 years ago.  I hope the time gap doesn't translate to an empathy gap.

And practically all humans are descended from migrants. 

May Europe become the kinder place that you want it to be.  Soon, for the sake of all those who are dying needlessly.

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Burksaurus [2019-01-21 20:15:37 +0000 UTC]

This is really cute.

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Wolfberry-J In reply to Burksaurus [2019-01-23 04:06:09 +0000 UTC]

Thanks. Their children are cute . I hope the family gets to reunite soon. 

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