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haibishonen
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[2004-01-09 01:25:16 +0000 UTC]
"harper"
(Canada)
# Statistics
Favourites: 195; Deviations: 0; Watchers: 15
Watching: 37; Pageviews: 4807; Comments Made: 279; Friends: 37
# Interests
Favorite bands / musical artists: Kate BushFavorite writers: Basshou
# About me
Current Residence: BC CanadaPersonal Quote: "Life is crazy. You can never eat just one."
# Comments
Comments: 81
Thanks for the fav.
Nice to know I'm in there with "don't be gay, timmy".
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you have some pretty illin word play.
Just believe in yourself!!
Or something
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I'd prefer to trust myself over believing.
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Amd yet isn't trust a belief in the consistency and vilidity of ourselves?
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Perhaps, if you feel trust requires consistency and validity.
I don't think quite along those lines. Trust is not always proved even if one has it. Trust can also operate on flexibility and adaptability.
You talk of trust as equatable to the expected, developed by routine.
I do not disagree however that there would need to be a reliable awareness of ourselves for such trust to be well placed.
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Trust needs consistency in the sense that if you cannot know how something will act / react to you, you cannot trust it. To trust is to believe that one can rely on, and if you can't predict how something will act, you can't rely on it.
Trust needs validity in the sense that you need to believe that your trust is valid. Just knowing something will be consistent doesn't mean that it will accept your trust. Because by trusting you are changing the individual or system which you expect to act a certain way, causing it to possibly change it's actions/reactions. Trust then becomes the mutual understanding that you may rely on it, or vice versa, validating it.
To believe in yourself, you know and rely on your modes and styles of action/reaction, and have come to terms with this knowledge. When you can believe in this consistency and in the validity of this arrangement, you trust yourself.
As you say, this is not a state of proof. You cannot actively prove that you have come to terms with yourself... but it is rather like a synchronicity that is created through belief.
Obviously, you can't know yourself enough to rely on yourself without a measure of self awareness.
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thank you most kindly for the fave on a silhouette of our former selves.
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Awww, thanks for watchin me happertatter...even though i had to make you.....bastard -.-'
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thank you kindly for the fave on where do i belong. much obliged
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and again, on unsealed. much appreciated
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Thank you for the favourite! Sorry it took so long
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I thought I'd do a more proper job of thanking you for several 
"Elysium" [link]
"Re-entry" [link]
... and I'm grateful for your appreciation
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Thank you for the
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thanks for the fave on momme's the word. i appreciate it heaps
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Thank you for the
I really appreciate the support.
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Harper -
Thanks for the
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thank you kindly for the faves - they're much appreciated.
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Thank you kindly for the faves, they're very much appreciated
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And again. 
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Thank you very kindly for the watch and addition to your favorites.
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thanks so much for the fav on candy shop bought
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thanks for the watch! let's get through hwm this month!
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Oh thank you yet again, this time for
"HaikuWriMo 2008, July 1-31" [link]
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and for adding me to your watch, too!
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...and for
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Thanks for the kind friend add... I hope you'll enjoy my art in the future! ^^v
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Hi Harper!
Thank you for fav'ing my "April Tanka Collection" [link]
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And another. Thanks again!
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