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TheThievingMagpie In reply to AmaruTea [2012-06-12 19:22:46 +0000 UTC]
Well, the best way to learn riding is definitely from experience, so I totally know why you'd like to get right to riding. One thing I've always wished I learned earlier, though, is that it's extremely important that the horse respects you. If he (and I'll just use "he" right now since I'm too lazy to write "he/she" ) tries to get into your personal space or touch you/push you around without your permission, you need to make sure immediately that the horse knows that that's not acceptable behavior. I usually do so by slapping his chest or shoulder- it seems a little bit mean, at first, but that's how horses act around each other. Horses bite each other if they don't like what the other horse is doing, and a light slap is definitely much gentler.
It was a tough for me to wrap my mind around it, but horses are herd animals, and they need a leader. If they see you as the leader, they feel safe around you, and are less likely to spook or act out because they trust you and know that you'd never let anything hurt them. However, if you don't step up to be the leader, the horse takes it upon himself to control both of you, and that's when he starts to push you around and becomes dangerous, because if something bad happens, he must be the one to "fight off" the danger, even if it's something stupid like a plastic bag.
So sorry for the super long post. Respect is just a concept I wish more stables taught beginning riders immediately, because if a horse acts out on the ground, he also won't respect someone who's riding him.
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AmaruTea In reply to TheThievingMagpie [2012-06-13 03:10:20 +0000 UTC]
Whoa, (long post 'o'). And don't worry, I appreciate long feedback!
Amazing, I had never thought about the whole respect thing between
a rider and his horse. I never remember hearing my instructor on my visit
when I spoke with her mention any of this, so thank you for telling me this
beforehand. Hopefully, when I go (it feels so far away from now ;_; ), I'll
keep this all in mind and be aware of the horse's actions.
I also hope that I can be a good leader, because I'm not so used to being
in that position. x) I really want this to work out for me though. Again,
thank you very much! Hehe plus the plastic bag thing made me laugh. xD
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AmaruTea In reply to The-Sirene [2012-06-12 00:35:22 +0000 UTC]
Yaay thank you so much! And yes, I can't wait to see how the first picture of the two will look. (:
I sure hope I do, and that the next two weeks fly by! xD
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