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#fat #obesity #bingeeating #chubbychaser #eatingdisorders #fatfetish #health #fatrolls #feederism #gainingweight #obesityfetish
Published: 2017-08-10 19:27:54 +0000 UTC; Views: 5112; Favourites: 59; Downloads: 1
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I've touched on this a bit before, but let me just reiterate: there is NOTHING hot or attractive about morbid obesity.Notice that I'm not saying that "fat people are inherently unattractive." Because that's an unfair statement to make. I don't think that anyone should be made to feel unlovable or devalued because they're unhealthy. People are more than their physical appearance and you are not subhuman or unfuckable or worth less as a human being just because you're fat. There is nothing wrong with loving yourself the way you currently are while still acknowledging that your weight is unhealthy, and to anyone reading this who is fat, I do believe you deserve to be happy and loved just as much as a healthy person does. However, morbid obesity is not something that should be fetishized and looked at as sexy or cute. I don't think I need to link to any specific studies, because at this point, it should be common sense that if you're overweight β and I don't mean slightly chubby with a BMI in the high normal range, I mean obese β then no matter how "healthy" you are otherwise, you're still at risk of serious health complications. Heart attacks, joint pain, breathing problems, and premature death are so sexy, right?
Additionally, the eating habits that cause an otherwise healthy person to become obese are disordered. Period. Compulsive over eating is no less symptomatic of an eating disorder than low restriction, obessive excercise, purging, or eating non-food items. More likely than not, you would be apalled if someone pointed to an anorexic individual or drew their favorite character emaciated and proudly proclaimed that "bones are sexy." Fat rolls may be the opposite extreme, but at the end of the day, glorifying and fetishizing obesity and/or the binge eating that causes it is no more noble than glorifying any other eating disorder or unhealthy body type.
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I think a Bit more of a woman is indeed kinda sexy, but when seeing morbidly obese girls saying they want to be too fat to move, it is just sad to see these sometimes very young people ruining their life
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Saying βobesity is sexyβ is like saying βdrug abuse is sexyβ. (Since both are unhealthy)
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These comments, seriously. How low have we dropped!? It's like we don't care anymore butΒ "we care" and about things that are absolutely fricking ridiculous.
Do we have anything to live for? Standards? Hopes and dreams? Knowing what the HECK to you do in this world without ruining it..
and yes, I meant those comments that are so DESPERATELY trying to portray fat as sexy.
If you're chubby at least make sure that you will never look like a fucking whale.. Please.
I say it one more time;
It's like nobody cares, they only care to be comfortable and in a sense of living in a lie daily bases.Β
Also once those people who were fat or overweight in their childhood and were bullied, never were (at least how I know that) as mean as those damned whales nowadays...Β
and they KNEW that "I do not like to be fat! I will change".Β
We should all fucking know this by know, especially in the age of information..
Either way, sorry If I got heated!Β
Ty.
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No thanks, I have standards.
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That is offensive, although obesity is unhealthy, some people are heavy and are perfectly healthy and sexy.
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Yeah so maybe read the description before willy-nilly calling people offensive when they're not. Never mind that the stamp itself is the obesity fetish pride flag; I can understand not recognizing it.
This stamp is not, nor has it ever been, about people who happen to be "heavy and perfectly healthy." Hell, it's not even directed at overweight people. I myself am morbidly obese, so to make a stamp calling all fat people ugly would be playing myself. This stamp is directed at abusive individuals who encourage their significant others to develop eating disorders and gain to the point of immobility to entertain a sick fetish.
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I am like chubbies and hate extreme fatness in arts (not support this in real life). =/
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i think chubbiness is cute and i'm fat but i'm trying to lose weight but the fact people find being morbidly obese sexy makes me sick to my stomach
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Thank you. The fat fetish sickens me. Itβs really sad that people defend a fetish that glorifies a health condition that cripples and KILLS people.
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Exactly.
"Safe, sane, and consensual," right? Purposefully putting oneself or one's partner at risk is neither safe nor sane.
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Oh, tultsi93. How dare you to insult special snowflakes?
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It is when eat cereal out of their fat rolls with milk 
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People can't control what they like. You shouldn't kink shame people for that :/
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I've already responded to a very similar comment below. People can't control what they like, but if they know that what they like is unhealthy, unsafe, or illegal, they absolutely can control whether or not they act on it.
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Still, it's not like people have full control over what they are into. I don't feel like kink shaming is going to make them stop people from that.
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And I gave you that one. Completely. They don't have full control over what they're into at all, as I just stated. I'm not trying to argue with that at all. Just like pedophiles can't help finding small children attractive and frotteursΒ can't help wanting to molest strangers, of course people with obesity fetishes can't just say "okay, I'm going to stop liking this." But a pedophile can refrain from raping a minor, and a frotteur can refrain from sexually assaulting people on the subway, so there's no reason why a fat fetishist can't sit down and think "I'm into this and that's not my fault, but it's unsafe and unhealthy to perform in real life."
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You are not wrong in the slightest! i agree. I don't think that a fat fetish is on the same level as pedofillia however. I think it should be categorized as something similar to bondage if that makes sense. It isn't exactly safe, but people still don't bat an eye at if. Or at least, that's how I feel it should be. You should also remember that some people have unrealistic fantasies that could never take place in real life. People don't want to try something if they know that it's physically impossible.
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But that's a misleading comparison. Bondage does not result in any real bodily harm whatsoever, provided that it's done properly and cautiously. No amount of harm reduction whatsoever can negate the effects of being unhealthily overweight. Bondage doesn't kill, and it's absolutely NOT inherently unsafe. Obesity is.
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My take on obesity is if the person is still able to do simple daily tasks or not. Honestly, I could be considered overweight by people, but I am actually very slim. It really depends on what your definition of obese and overweight is tbh. And you have to remember that people can lose weight whenever they want to. It might take time, but it works just fine. And honestly, people are in to choking and tight ropes/chains that kill much faster than simply being obese. Even if it is done properly. People in the fat fetish comunity know the limits of the human body I feel. From what I know, no one has died from partaking in feederism. Obesity is just a drawback of it. Besides that, some people just naturally are overweight. Whether it be genetics, or hormones, ect. They can't help their weight.
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>It really depends on what your definition of obese and overweight is tbh.
No, it doesn't. "Obese" and "overweight" are medical terms with solid, numerical characteristics. There are no personal definitions of obese. That's like insinuating that people can have a personal opinion of what does and doesn't constitute cancer. Anyone with a BMI of 30 or higher is obese. Anyone with a BMI of over 25 but under 30 is overweight. Period. It's not up for debate, and there's no opinion or personal definition about it. It's factual.
>And honestly, people are in to choking and tight ropes/chains that kill much faster than simply being obese. Even if it is done properly.
Putting aside the fact that if someone dies from a choking kink then they obviously were not doing it "properly" and that I also never condoned choking as safe either, (bondage, yes, but bondage and choking are two completely different things), so trying to defend one unsafe fetish by calling out another isn't exactly a strong arguement, that claim is a blatant lie. If you want to bring actual statistics into this, then...
β’ The usual estimate for the number of autoerotic asphyxiation deaths in the US per year is no more than 1,000. Some have gone so far as to say that the number is below one hundred, but for arguement's sake, we'll go with the 1,000.
www.medicinenet.com/script/maiβ¦
www.livescience.com/21794-autoβ¦
www.independent.co.uk/life-styβ¦
β’ The number of obesity-related deaths per year in the US is upwards of 300,000. Again, I've found several estimates, some as high as nearly 700k deaths per year, but for arguement's sake I'm going with the lowest.
cspinet.org/eating-healthy/whyβ¦
www.wvdhhr.org/bph/oehp/obesitβ¦
So in a worst-case scenario,Β autoerotic asphyxiation kills 1,000 people in the United States each year, and in a best-case scenario, obesity kills 300,000. Tell me again that choking fetishes are substantially more dangerous that obesity. Yeah, hanging yourself accidentally will result in death more quickly than gaining two hundred pounds, but the latter is much more likely to kill you. I don't know about anyone else, but I'd prefer having a slight chance of a quick death to a larger chance at a slower, more painful death. An illness or behavior's mortality rate, not how quickly it will kill you if it does prove fatal, is what should be taken into account when describing how dangerous that illness or behavior is.
>Besides that, some people just naturally are overweight. Whether it be genetics, or hormones, ect. They can't help their weight.
Even assuming that to be true β which it is, in rare cases, but not in the majority of overweight individuals β that's entirely irrelevant to this stamp, so I'm not sure why you're bringing it up. It also contradicts your other claim that people can simply lose weight.
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I've reached my edit limit, it seems, but I meant to say that the statistic forΒ autoerotic asphyxiation deaths has been placed as low as below two hundred, not one.
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And yes obesity isn't attractive, its killing the fat person
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Who makes these god awful flag designs, I mean god damn these dumb flags are everywhere!
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I don't know. Wikipedia claims that a Mr.Β Kevin Seguin designed the obesity fetish pride flag, but obviously, I cannot confirm the validity of that.
It's quite literally just neapolitan ice cream with a heart on it. It's not particularly eye-bleeding, just horrendously uncreative.
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I bet you 2 dollars theirs a foot fetish pride flag to
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Oh, I don't doubt it.
I find the concept of any fetish pride flag to be absolutely ridiculous, but I don't really have anything against foot fetishists. I think feet are absolutely repulsive and I don't understand how anyone could not, but everyone has feet. Feet aren't harmful. I don't like it, but as long as they don't shove their bare feet in my face, I have no beef with them.
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Agreed, I don't get why someone can't like tits for a fetish
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It's a fetish. People can't control a fetish. If you're a sadist, you can't help but get off from hurting people. I'm not saying it's a good thing, though. This is basically kink-shaming, though, which is immature and silly.
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You're right; people can't control a fetish. I'll grant you that one. But they can control whether or not they act on it.
Pedophiles can't help being attracted to little kids, but they can help raping them. Zoosadists can't help getting off on hurting animals, but they can help abusing their dogs. Those two are, of course, more extreme than fat fetishism and very illegal, but the same thing applies to all harmful fetishes and just fetishes in general. Also, comparing fat fetishists to sadists is a bit of a false equivalence; something can cause pain without being inherently dangerous or life threatening or posing any real risk of permanent damage (whipping, spanking, biting, cutting, etc.) but being morbidly obese will always pose a health risk and can lead to death no matter how safely a person may think they're doing it.
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But it's not like they like irl fat people, trust me. They just like the big tits and stuff artists draw. Most of them don't even like the fat-by-food stuff. They enjoy the inflation. That's just from my experience tho
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I'll have to respectfully disagree. People like the ones you describe that get off to drawings of big tits/inlation/obese characters are objectively harmless. Art of fictional characters hurts no one. But I've had multiple friends before who were fat fetishists, and they actually found morbid obesity in real life to be attractive. Some of them were more tame about it and just found fat women and thin women to be equally attractive. Others weren't. I had one ex-friend (ex-friend for other reasons, not because of his fetish) describe to me how he wanted to force feed his future wife until she was literally imobilized so that she would have no choice but to stay submissive to him. I had a kid who would constantly punch me in the stomach and thighs during school while my girlfriend sat two desks away because he got off on feeling my fat jiggle when he touched me. And there have been several cases β give me a moment to gather my sources β of fat fetishests encouraging their significant others to gain weight until they were upwards of 400 pounds.
No, I have no problem with people indulging in their kinks via art/cartoon porn/writing/other works of fiction, because that is completely and utterly harmless no matter how you look at it. The problem comes with kinks like fat fetishes, rape fetishes, etc. because unlike things like anthro/furry kinks or vore, these are very possible to perform in real life and can and will cause severe, lasting physical and/or emotional damage to any persons involved. I'd much rather see groups of fat/inflation artists and their fans using art as a less destructive outlet for kinks that, as you said, they cannot help having, than people running around encouraging their obese SOs to gain weight or molesting fat people.
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Holy shit, that's pretty fucked up. I'd like to see sources, this is legit interesting now...
I completely agree with you. This is a lot of food for thought right now...
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Monica Riley is one of the women I was thinking of. In her case, she actually wanted to put on weight and had (has?) a goal weight of something like 1,000 pounds. Some of the logic she used in regards to wanting to gain weight was eerily similar to the logic that anorexics apply to losing weight (Saying that it's her life and therefore her choice when her mother expressed concern for her health, that it doesn't matter if she's killing herself if it makes her happy, etc.), and yet her boyfriend encouraged her to continue gaining. I'm not entirely sure if she's still trying to gain or not, as one recent article says that after two miscarriages she's started to care about her health.
metro.co.uk/2016/09/06/woman-wβ¦
gossiponthis.com/2016/09/12/70β¦
www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/artβ¦
Donna Simpson is another fairly high-profile case, and a quick search of her name will bring up several articles. Her target weight was also 1,000 pounds, I believe. She was also encouraged by her then-lover to become obese to the point of immobility. They've since split up and she's lost some of the weight.
blog.cleveland.com/metro/2011/β¦
Also, I'm tempted to make a "food for thought" pun now.
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Wow, very interesting. Sick, though. Disturbing mindsets among us.
that pun was not intended lmao
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That's what I was talking about; fat fetishists.
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Being skinny should not be seen as sexy.
Being obese should not be seen as sexy.
Being fit should be seen as sexy.
Period.Β
I just don't understand how we can glorify something that's unhealthy.Β
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This comment hits the nail right on the head. π
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