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CupcakeAttack85 β It's Okay To Wait
Published: 2012-01-24 15:48:22 +0000 UTC; Views: 935; Favourites: 40; Downloads: 22
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Okay 1st things 1st I'm NOT a virgin myselfI did this for a friend who is old fashion. Yes she still a virgin but she doesn't go around telling people she is, like most of these girls do now a days.
When people do find out she is they try to get her to have sex with some random guy and they all get mad at her for not doing so. She once told me a guy broke up with her because she wouldn't get in bed with her...i felt bad for her.
We talked over the weekend a lot and sex was one of many subjects we talked about and she told me her reason in waiting to to make sure the guy she was with was there to stay for her not for just one thing. She said too my of friends have gotten in bed with guys that's promised to marry them and the world but after that night they break up with them and leave and then the girl finds out she pregnant and the guy wants nothing to do with her and the baby.
She for her waiting is one of many ways to see if the guy truly loves her and is gonna be with her and be true to her.
Even though I'm a non-virgin i respect that opinion of hers. Honestly wasn't gonna make this stamp because of the virgin non virgin war going on here on DA. It's a stupid fight honestly. People are gonna do what they gonna do, but it's our actions which define us of who we are, not how much sex you have. With so much pressure around she starting to think her plan is a bad idea and should just give up (which I told her not to) I like her plan, I wish i was a little smarter when it was my 1st time.
We got enough virgin non-virgin war going on TV, movies, books etc etc it's all over the place I can understand why some people lash out about it and want to state their opinion.
I'm leaving comments on, but if you leave a comment wanting to start and fight/debate or something along the lines rude I will ignore it, or mark it as spam
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Oh god.. She got dumped for that?
I won't have sex until marriage, and thankfully my boyfriend understands. Β He's been dating me for 4 years now, and not once has he ever pressured me about it, and he actually respects it quite a bit.
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i 100% agree with this stamp and i have a bf and we both agree with sex should be for marigge i rly hate the fact that lots of girls in my hight school are pregnet and it bugs me so bad -.- idk why people cant just wait i mean rly :/
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I just read that this is a five-month-late comment, but here we go:
I'm with her about waiting, but I respect if any other thinks otherwise. And they shouldn't talk like that to her. Would they stop having sex just because someone says so? No, because they like to live that way, and it's fine. They need to be in her shoes, and everyone who knows someone with different ideas.
I'm not sure if this would help, but when someone asked me why I stay virgin (someone really close that was having second thoughts about it), I told her that for me having sex is an expression of love, and I think one of the best gifts you could give to your wife/husband, it's that intimate, new experience of your first time. That will be one of a kind, special conection that you will not have with anyone else. Besides, you don't really need it to know someone loves you, having words, and affection, and little details. And (this is a very personal point of view, because I know that's not true to all people) I think that when you have sex as often as you breathe, sex will be then very superficial or, like a drug, you just will want to have more regardless with whom or when you have it, and it will be no special anymore.
I hope this doesn't mind you in any way, I just think that maybe she need someone with the same opinion to let her know that she's not alone and her desition is not wrong, it's just something we choose to experience after we find the one. I hope this help her 
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It don't bother me one bit 
I wish i would have waited but then again I haven't had sex since that girl broke up with me which has been about two years...next time I have sex will be with someone I know be with me for life.
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That's a nice desition
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Who tries to hook her up with men? that's awful. I'm don't necessarily think you have to be married to have sex, but just randomly hooking up can be dangerous. And if they know she wants to wait until marriage they should respect that.
She's got a good reason too, I think that would be my reason for waiting (I really don't have any sex drive, so I can't really say...).
I hope you don't mind that I posted this (if you take it off that's fine) I'm really laid back about the subject, but if this comment didn't come off that way then I'm sorry.
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no offense taken
Yeah I agree it awful they way some people do her, it's effected her badly she needs to surround herself with friends that aren't gonna do her that way (like me and my brother
I'm pretty laid back on sex myself
Thanks for the comment
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No problem, and please tell your friend to stay strong. Don't let her get fooled into anything she doesn't want to do
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I will let her know
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I love this so much. she is making a good choice. cause its just not worth it. 
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I can hear Discord in the background, "I AM YOUR GOD NOW BRING ME YOUR VIRGINS!!"
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this.
marriage = testing, and no way in hell am I gonna get herpes. :I
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