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Description A friend of mine died this summer. About a month ago, actually. He was struck by a vehicle at highway speed while he was crossing on his bike; he died in the hospital that night. He was only 18, and one of the best and brightest kids you could ever wish to meet. I'd known Kenneth and his family for almost as long as we've lived in Rochester, almost 15 years now. His death came as a suprise to all of us, and he was greatly mourned and will be even more greatly missed. I stopped commissions and mural work to finish this portrait for his family, mostly because it helped me to process his passing, and to feel like somehow I contributed to the healing process. Everything is getting back to normal now, but for a couple weeks it seemed like life stopped to mourn Kenneth's passing.

Kenneth was a huge LOTR and Star Wars fan. He was an avid DnD player, gamer, and cosplayer since middle school. He made his own chain maile by the traditional technique with real steal rings. I put him in Aragorn's armor because he had been working on reproducing that costume since the movie's release and took every slight excuse to wear it. To school, to movies, to parties. This is how he would have wanted to be remembered.

As usual, please don't reproduce this image--the original belongs exclusively to the family, and I don't want them to see it show up somewhere randomly online. I wanted to upload it here to share it with you folks, because it was a very emotional event for me this summer, and I think this is the best portrait work I've ever done as a result.
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Comments: 46

Slangolator [2018-04-02 19:40:18 +0000 UTC]

I am very sorry about the loss of your friend, let this picture be a memory to you about him

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Wesker86 [2014-01-18 22:34:56 +0000 UTC]

Incredible work. I'm sure your friend would be proud and honoured to be remembered this way.

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CompassWolf123 [2013-01-15 18:39:28 +0000 UTC]

I'm sorry for your loss...
I think Kenneth would be happy with his portrayal.

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Tordaki [2012-10-12 02:16:52 +0000 UTC]

That is so cool, I feel bad over the loss of such a great young man. I know he would have loved it. Great job.

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Igor-Son-Of-Gondor [2012-02-05 14:24:41 +0000 UTC]

respect man...im sory for your friend. im shure he would love this.

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MichelleDoherty [2011-07-01 08:40:07 +0000 UTC]

This is a beautiful memorial. Thank you for sharing.

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steamgrl [2010-02-21 19:31:59 +0000 UTC]

Sorry about your loss.

Art is beautiful

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MaRina731 [2009-11-03 12:28:57 +0000 UTC]

A real tribute. Now he will be remembered as what he really was like.

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UinenFirestar [2009-09-13 02:15:10 +0000 UTC]

Wow, what a moving tribute! Very well done.

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Kaytara [2008-06-06 12:18:13 +0000 UTC]

*sobs*
Such a beautiful portrait, but.... stories like this make me so angry at the one responsible... I hope the car driver got what (s)he deserved. >(

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TheZeiGal [2007-12-22 14:36:24 +0000 UTC]

I'm very sorry for your lost. I know these are better in person but *hug from random moi*. May he rest in peace.

I love your attention to detail. Its quite a handsome picture and tribute.

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TheZeiGal In reply to TheZeiGal [2007-12-22 14:37:19 +0000 UTC]

And please ignore the smiley face in the corner. Stupid face did the wrong one. ~_~

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Tahlavain [2007-11-02 15:43:07 +0000 UTC]

I absolutely love this! I think you did an amazing job, and there are no words to express how much I believe this must mean to him and his family.... Wonderfully splendid and heartfelt...

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onyx-eyes [2007-08-05 19:17:07 +0000 UTC]

we don't know each other, but still want to tell you im very sorry for your loss. and the portrait is great, of course

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rushofdarkwings [2007-03-24 06:31:09 +0000 UTC]

Very good work. Im very impressed. I am sure his family greatly appreciated it. You are a good friend!

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Captain-Savvy [2007-03-05 03:26:05 +0000 UTC]

This is a beautiful tribute and an awesome work of art.

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MoonFairyLuna [2007-02-24 21:26:27 +0000 UTC]

i am very sory for your loss...the piece is great
this is how he wanted, i am sure
i am really sorry
-x-x-x-

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CyrionB [2007-02-24 15:56:15 +0000 UTC]

Quite touching indeed!

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Draco-Vetus [2006-12-05 04:59:45 +0000 UTC]

wow... it is so amazing. I almost cried... and it is December.

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AG88 [2006-10-14 22:23:45 +0000 UTC]

I am sorry for your loss. This is a wonderful way of remembering your friend.

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Froztwhisper [2006-09-11 20:05:34 +0000 UTC]

how sad...

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Adris [2006-09-09 20:19:19 +0000 UTC]

It is a beautifle tribute. I am sorry for your loss.

I myself have lost many loved ones.

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shoomlah [2006-09-09 00:55:56 +0000 UTC]

Amazing piece, and a wonderful tribute. Can't wait to see you.

-C

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Bobwa [2006-09-07 22:01:29 +0000 UTC]

thats very sweet! Im sorry your friend died, as well as sounding clichΓ©d! i really like this picture and im sure his parents love it!love the detail and the lighting! very nice!

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LunarwingsArt [2006-09-07 13:46:59 +0000 UTC]

Very sorry for your loss...but glad that you could immortalize him in a way that brings out so much of his character and hobbies.

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Swordgleam [2006-09-07 03:46:03 +0000 UTC]

I remember when he wore that costume to Star Wars, stayed up all night, and wore it to school the next day.

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ZombieLady [2006-09-07 02:42:00 +0000 UTC]

Lovely, and I'm sorry for your loss.

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KodyYoung [2006-09-07 00:23:14 +0000 UTC]

Really sorry for your loss. It is a beautiful memorial. His family and probably himself would be very proud
Also, was he biking by a highway speed allowable road or was the man speeding?
Well, I hoped that he got caught and fined for hit and run and killing him.

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Saelyra [2006-09-06 23:18:36 +0000 UTC]

What a beautiful memorial. It would do any memory a proud honor.

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Ultor [2006-09-06 14:34:00 +0000 UTC]

Beth, this is beautiful. I can't think of a better memorial for Kenneth than what you've portrayed. He would have loved to have that armor in real life, that's for certain. And I would agree this is one of your best portrait works ever.

Beautiful portraiture.

We all miss him

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okuko [2006-09-06 14:07:40 +0000 UTC]

I can't describe this with words. Awesome.

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SirMartin1 [2006-09-06 13:37:30 +0000 UTC]

he really sounds like the one true king may he rest in peace. i know hed love your portrait friends like you are few and far between.

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DragonSparx [2006-09-06 13:26:03 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful.

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otterling [2006-09-06 12:57:12 +0000 UTC]

I know you've heard it a thousand times so far, but I'm really sorry for the loss of your friend. I have to say, I'm glad you posted this. I'm glad you wrote the description and really let us know who he was. He sounds like someone I would have gotten along with very well.

In this way, hopefully, people will read this, think about what they are doing when they get behind the wheel and really consider that he was a person, vibrant and wonderful, not just a name and statistic. I hope it convinces at least one more person to be careful when they drive so that tradgedies like this won't keep happening.

I'm sure his family will cherish this painting as a portrait of his spirit and personality. And I'm fairly certain he would smile if he saw it.

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AnNuttin [2006-09-06 10:34:58 +0000 UTC]

i'm very sorry for your loss. he would be pleaced with this picture, i'm sure of it.

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leopatra-lionfur [2006-09-06 10:33:53 +0000 UTC]

I am sorry to hear that.

Over here we have a lot of medieval fests and markets he surely would have liked that.

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muura [2006-09-06 09:57:47 +0000 UTC]

Gorgeous.

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Bedwyr-Bedrydant [2006-09-06 09:43:45 +0000 UTC]

I'm really sorry for your loss. Great work.

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rodrev [2006-09-06 06:14:56 +0000 UTC]

WOW. Great art. I'm sorry for your loss.

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granlundaren [2006-09-06 05:58:50 +0000 UTC]

I am very sorry for your loss. Very realistic picture. Just want to say something smart but it's hard... I do know how it feels. Really. I'm not just one of those who say the have lost someone and then lies jut to get atteniton. I mourn with you. Hope you feel better now, after creating this piece.

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motavated [2006-09-06 05:56:33 +0000 UTC]

Thats f*d up. What did the driver get? Probably nothing. Thats F*d up...

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TinorialPeredhil [2006-09-06 04:50:57 +0000 UTC]

This is a beautiful way to remember him. He wears the armor as well as Aragorn.

I'm sorry for your loss. My condolences to you, his family, and his friends.

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banak [2006-09-06 04:48:38 +0000 UTC]

amazing... im sorry for your loss. this is a good way to rember, its a powerful peice.

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Creejak [2006-09-06 04:37:53 +0000 UTC]

It's very lovely.

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estarial [2006-09-06 04:02:03 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful and I'm sure his family will treasure it forever.

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SinopaRapax [2006-09-06 03:56:25 +0000 UTC]

I'm very sorry for your loss. this is beautiful.

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