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no secret. you look into their eyes, smile and say hi my name is..........
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No importa si alguien puede leerloΒ y me conoce.
o si este mal decirlo por aquΓ.
Pero hay dΓas que sonΒ difΓciles, sobre todo cuando te das cuenta de cosas que realmente no querΓas saber.
y me la paso pensando en si me lo merezco o no.
pero como sea siempre es muy deprimente el resultado y el sentir que no puedes volver a creer o no puedes levantarte... estas hundido y callado, sin auxilio.
cuando te conformas con lo que sabes que realmente no deseas que este pasando.
Β
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I can relate to this, i have SCD(social communication disorder) i was just diagnosed a few months ago(they found out i was actually born with it), to describe it as short and simple as possible, i literally don't know how to communicate with people "properly" as my psychiatrist put it. My face is mostly vacant of expression, I feel emotions but have difficulty showing them, and as a "bonus", i tend to creep people out without realizing it. Im not shy or timid, i just can't seem to grasp it the way everyone else does. I say hello to someone, and i get a 3 minute lecture on how much of a loser i am or whatever that person was talking about, i say how are you to some one else and i get a "fuck you" in return. I just didn't understand people's way of social activity and emotional connection. Soon after that, i stopped caring after i noticed how it didn't effect me or my life whether i had relationships or not.Β
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Ha, im glad im not the only one. Thats why i always let someone greet me themselves Β instead of actually approaching them. It can be so hard talking to someone you don't know.
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Oh, dear...I understand you too well, because is the same for me...
You know, now, I'm on a trip and I feel that I'm getting lonely because I'm not able to talk with the anothers guys...and, even I won't tell anyone, I'm not very comfortable with that point...
Come here and hug me, sweetie!
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I can not talk that well to people either, I usually can not find the right words to explain something so I say something else which is somewhat different.
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I created an alter ego that isn't afraid to talk to people.When I'm at a bar or party or public place I let this ego take over.And tell myself what does it matter I'm not saying it?But maybe that just makes me crazy?
Oh yeah I also tell myself I look good naked......Don't judge me its what works for me.
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your not alone, being around people makes it awkward for me and i forget simple words, stuttering and not making eye contact, don't worry, with practise makes perfect, I'm a lot better than i was 2 years ago at the very least ^u^
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Show interest in the person you're talking to.
Ask about the certain things they answered with.
And best way to start a conversation is:
"Hi, how are you?"
sounds a bit... lame.
but rly. That's how I socialize.
When I'm not introvert
XD
Well just a tip.
o3o
bye
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Yep, I used to be that way. Training is the only way that helps. It's awkward in the beginning, but you're getting smoother in no time
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This is the explanation for that life.
Y'know.
The one that I don't have.
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Omg yes! I cannot talk to people for the life of me...
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oooh god yes...
when a new person talks to me I just stare an think: whatcouldisaywhatcouldisaywhatcouldisay!
it's awful..
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This secret is very true for me. My social skills= o
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whenever I try to speak no one will listen to me so I just shut up and leave.
when someone does listen to me, they just dont understand what I'm talking about so they just leave.
I just dont know what to do! I feel so lonely...
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It'll be okay. I go through the same thing.... Every time I talk I get interrupted or ignored and I almost burst into tears
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College was the worst two years of my life because of this.
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Everybody says I can't, but I constantly feel like I'm just making myself stupid. I see every little bit of body language and hear every shift in someone's tone of voice. So... Yeah. Blehh.
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It's even worse when you can't point out your own opinion properly..
Or argue
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Aw man, this is relatable! I always have these weird fidgets when someone talks to me, and I shake uncontrollably! It's annoying as heck!
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You say somthing, people hate you, you say nothing your a weirdo, you say more and then you become annoying for wanting to share somthing about you, no one will ever care though.....
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I sound stupid around people other than my closest friends.....especially when I say something smart.....................
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So true...
I hate when I can't express what I feel and I end up choosing the wrong words!
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I can't either it's like word vomit when I talk ur not alone.
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*sigh* those awkward silences or misunderstandings make it so hard to...
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ive just started college and i have that problem bad. idk how to start talking to someone then idk what to say when i do talk to them. i feel so stupid trying to talk to people
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Talking to other people makes you feel stupid becouse you don't want peoplee to think badly about you, so you are nervous to let them know you... U know?
It has something to do with your pride or something, but now I'm going to sleep...
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