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crazy4christj [2013-05-02 23:01:58 +0000 UTC]
When my aunt got divorced from her scumbag ex, she remarried and is now in a very happy relationship with someone she met online.
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MeepinKuri [2013-04-26 22:31:28 +0000 UTC]
Ah, I'm on the same boat too. We've been in an online/long distance relationship for 5 years now. We had to wait about 2 and a half years before we ever got the chance to meet, and from then we've been able to see each other in person only about once a year. Now, since I'll be going to college, I'm trying so hard to finally bridge the distance. But at this moment I have no idea if it will be possible, or how this all will end up. I still don't want to give up on all of our dreams together.
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ThelordofallReturn [2013-04-26 14:38:59 +0000 UTC]
I live right now with my man now, we have been separated from each other in two years. where we oly saw each other every second or third weekend, when we visited, we were both from two different countries far far away. We spend most our money on meeting. It was hard and tough, I almost broke down and gave up several times. It crushed us both, seeing him leave each time made me cry in public.. not like sit down and weep, but just walk with tears rolling down, hiding them away.
But now we live together, with my two ferrets as well. So if you really like him, go for it.
If you haven't meet yet, I suggest you do before you say ''I love him'' it is always different meeting someone in real life then over the net, I remember first time i meet him.. I had a mountain in my throat
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EcstaticDismay [2013-04-25 12:55:45 +0000 UTC]
I met my fiancΓ© online, we've been together 5 1/2 years and we're still madly deeply inlove. We lived quite far apart but we made it happen. If it's meant to happen, it will. ^_^
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ergoalels [2013-04-24 01:00:22 +0000 UTC]
Nothing is impossible.
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DorkyAmerikkalainen [2013-04-23 23:18:21 +0000 UTC]
I understand this <3 It's not fun, but it will get better <3
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veronicle [2013-04-23 21:45:03 +0000 UTC]
I feel the exact same way, I care so much about him and I want to see him in person but i can't.
I think about him so much and wish I could hold his hand and love him.
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minz10 [2013-04-23 13:22:18 +0000 UTC]
Like everyone else said, don't ever give up hope! I'm in an online relationship with a guy who lives in Indonesia (I live in Finland) and we have been together for almost 2 years~ Anything could happen, go with the flow and don't think too much! <3 Good luck^^
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XellXenathos [2013-04-23 13:21:06 +0000 UTC]
I'm in the same spot Secret Teller. I've been friends with someone, and even seriously thinkering about a relationship. We plan to meet in 2 to 4 weeks though.
Don't doubt, just get to meet him and plan from there.
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emoturtlefrk [2013-04-23 11:38:25 +0000 UTC]
honey, so many people are in that same position. Even i am.
My girlfriend lives in the UK and i live on the east coast of America...but you know what? we make it work.
If you feel it's worth a shot, go for it and hope for the best.
but if you aren't willing to try, you're just going to live in regret
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Kasumi58 [2013-04-23 10:05:25 +0000 UTC]
I'm in the same situation.
we chat everyday and we both like each other
he lives in the same country as me but in a different city, which is sadly, still far away
but we talk about visiting each other
I've got to go to college, and he also and he even got a side-job
we could meet up but that would be 2-3 visits in a year and i don't know if that's worth it
I reaaallyyy like him and don't wanna lose him but in the end I don't believe in distance relationships :/
any advice? :S
sry for my bad english >.>
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KayFal [2013-04-23 05:53:02 +0000 UTC]
I have a good friend who met his wife on WoW too. It happens all the time. If the online relationship is something you are a little leery of then just be good friends. There is nothing wrong with that and if anything comes of it later then go for it. Never say never because you never know what will happen. One of my very best friends is actually a guy I met on here by total coincidence. I live in the midwest and him on the west coast so we have never met in person but that fact doesn't take away the value of the friendship we have.
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arcanehalo [2013-04-23 05:47:50 +0000 UTC]
I know that feeling all too well.
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Northern-Leuchte [2013-04-23 04:24:08 +0000 UTC]
I met my mate on the internet. Sheβs a thousand miles away. Literally. But we plan to live together when we leave the nests. c:
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Reixxie [2013-04-23 02:08:03 +0000 UTC]
I know this all too well. I fell for a guy I met on Perfect World International and was completely convinced that he'd never be interested, or it would never work. We played together for a year and a half before we got together, and now..
We've been together for two years. The distance can be rough, but it's totally worth it overall.
True love will overcome all odds. <3
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Setsuai-sama [2013-04-23 00:53:30 +0000 UTC]
As much as I want to tell you it could work, reality is long distance relationships are usually doomed to fail. Of course, the same is not true for all, but it's likely that it will.
If you really feel that strongly about this person, you should talk to them about it. I know, its harder than it sounds, but it doesn't hurt to try. Find out how this person feels about you and ask if they're interested in a relationship. Yes, its long distance, but you never know until you try.
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32bees [2013-04-23 00:41:44 +0000 UTC]
I'm in the same situation right now, actually... I know that he lives in Missouri, but I have no way of even ever talking to him again since we met on Omegle and he was on his friend's computer.
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catzrcute [2013-04-22 23:19:29 +0000 UTC]
I feel those feels. Just keep up that hope! One day you'll be with him if you put your head to it! ^^
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Ali2you [2013-04-22 23:14:48 +0000 UTC]
Don't feel like that :c I've met my special person over the internet, we're in a long distance relationship and we've been together for 2 years now. If you love him enough & he loves you enough, anything is possible x3
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gabrilxia [2013-04-22 22:40:52 +0000 UTC]
I know how u feel, but im working hard so i can see my boyfriend. Just dont give up hope and you'll get there!
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Shanyume [2013-04-22 22:40:01 +0000 UTC]
I'm not sure how far apart is too far apart but my husband and I met online, on WoW to be exact. I was a raid leader and we were looking for someone to fill our vacant healer spot and he volunteered and ended up joining our raid and guild. One of my rules was if you couldn't raid for whatever reason you had to call or text me. Such a day came where he had to call me because of a storm we ended up chatting on the phone for nearly 5 hours. We had talked in vent prior to that frequently but there are almost always other people in vent with you.
One thing he asked me was 'how's your BF doing?" which puzzled me. I told him "I'm not dating anyone, I've had too many bad relationships online and refuse to do long distance dating. I don't want to tie myself to someone I'll spend years of my life and probably never meet in real life." Our conversations went on and on and continued through the next few days. Then one day he decided he wanted to come visit.
To be honest it was love at first sight, and him taking the initiative to come see me let me know that he does care and for once I felt worth it. Eventually a few months down the road and many visits in-between he moved up here and a year later we got married. To this day and forever on he is the love of my life.
My advise to you would be unless you know in your heart and your mind that you will meet this person some day don't pursue it. You may be passing by someone who is right next to you that loves you and you just not know it. Or someone who is closer. If you feel that some day you may meet and that you feel like this can work out then go for it.
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RolllingGirl In reply to Shanyume [2013-04-23 00:12:44 +0000 UTC]
That was beautiful. World of Warcraft. Who would've guessed? I hope you have an even better relationship in the future.
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Shanyume In reply to RolllingGirl [2013-04-23 00:46:28 +0000 UTC]
Thank you <3 Everything so far has been going wonderful, just a few more months and we will be celebrating our 1 year anniversary.
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Eearii [2013-04-22 22:17:40 +0000 UTC]
It depends more on the people. Long distance relationships are hard, especially if you're younger and have no real means to travel, but it can be done. It also depends a lot on how physical you want to be with them, too.
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Cinder254 [2013-04-22 22:16:50 +0000 UTC]
I will tell you Secret, one of my dear friend met someone on World of Warcraft, and think she fell in love with him. She flew right over to him, and would you believe me if I said it had been 20 years and they got married and have two wonderful children? If you said yes go for it, if no, think a bit longer.
(the answer is yes it is true)
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UhhhhMelissa In reply to Cinder254 [2013-05-15 18:33:09 +0000 UTC]
World of Warcraft hasn't been out for 20 years.
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Cinder254 In reply to UhhhhMelissa [2013-05-16 01:32:45 +0000 UTC]
*6 years XD me of all people should know that I have been playing since Burning Crusade.
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UhhhhMelissa In reply to Cinder254 [2013-05-16 18:31:36 +0000 UTC]
Same here, I've been playing since the early days of BC
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Cinder254 In reply to UhhhhMelissa [2013-05-16 21:01:28 +0000 UTC]
It is a good game I'm not the biggest fan of Cataclysm or Mists of Pandaria, but I still play, either way I enjoy it haha, I mostly am in it for the RP now though.
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UhhhhMelissa In reply to Cinder254 [2013-05-16 21:20:55 +0000 UTC]
I use to RP until my ex got me kicked out of my RP guild by spreading lies, so I don't really do it much anymore but I am still on an RP server
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Cinder254 In reply to UhhhhMelissa [2013-05-16 22:02:05 +0000 UTC]
Aww I'm sorry to hear that, I wish you the best. What server are you on?
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Cinder254 In reply to UhhhhMelissa [2013-05-24 21:11:58 +0000 UTC]
Ohhh I see I am Wyrmnest Accord
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UhhhhMelissa In reply to Cinder254 [2013-05-25 19:12:30 +0000 UTC]
I thought about moving when my ex and I split but I figured that would mean she won, and I'm a stubborn old fool.
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Cinder254 In reply to UhhhhMelissa [2013-05-26 04:08:54 +0000 UTC]
I'm not stubborn at all why suffer to gain the winning team when you are unhappy? When I am in those situations i just move one from it and let them think they won but if you are happy you are the one who has won, that is my philosophy personally, But hey to each their own.
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UhhhhMelissa In reply to Cinder254 [2013-05-27 17:34:53 +0000 UTC]
I am happy, I would have been sad if I left Moonguard. I have so many friends there.
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MishiruTsuki [2013-04-22 21:58:11 +0000 UTC]
Dont give up hope! love and life both work in mysterious ways, wait as long as you can for the one you love
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omnomnomagon [2013-04-22 21:58:09 +0000 UTC]
You can't give up hope in this situation. I was in the exact same place and I beat it against all odds. It took me getting the courage to move in with him cross country, but it happened, and I've never been happier in my life.
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TheAnswer-FortyTwo [2013-04-22 21:15:53 +0000 UTC]
Never give up hope. Life is funny, and if you met him, however far away he is, you met him for a reason. One day you'll meet, or if you don't, you'll still be able to talk to him, which is one of the best parts of any relationship.
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MockingJay1256 [2013-04-22 21:08:00 +0000 UTC]
Dont ever give up hope!!! I am currently in an online relationship and the one I love is over 1000 km away from me... Our love burns bright enough that we promise to one day hold each other <3 this world is messed up sometimes, but everything happens for a reason: maybe you're meant to travel, maybe he's meant to travel, either way, dont give up hope!! :hugs:
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SinfulAnkh [2013-04-22 21:05:11 +0000 UTC]
Don't give up hope, Secret Teller
You never know what could happen in this crazy world <:3
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