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Leahh23 [2010-02-10 00:10:27 +0000 UTC]

Don't hurt yourself. Talk to someone about it

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Catz77 [2010-02-08 04:17:42 +0000 UTC]

Dear ST, you must try to have more positive thoughts, I know that sometimes we feel that we will be empty without that special person, but hurting yourself is not going to make it better. And you know that. Feeling that much for someone is amazing, but when it hurts us more than it makes us happy, it's time to step back and take more care about ourselves.

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Omega23 [2010-02-07 18:31:50 +0000 UTC]

That doesn't sound good at all. I think you need to seek professional help, and maybe start taking steps to move away from him a bit.

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ErikaaBabee [2010-02-07 17:15:39 +0000 UTC]

Aww, the only thing right now you HAVE to do, is not to start hurting yourself again

And I feel the same way, I use to love someone that lived far, and I was addicted to him too, so was he ><

The thing I did, is took my distance because it was hurting so much, I stopped going on the computer for a week, and I just went out with friends, movies, mall.. everything. When I came back, Things changed..

Were not as close.. Sometimes I regret, but its better for the both of us

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deadnurmind [2010-02-07 15:30:13 +0000 UTC]

talk to me. I am so there and I can relate. Send me a dA note. No one else will need to know. But I am so there sweetheart.

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veddabredda [2010-02-07 12:45:09 +0000 UTC]

Don't hurt yourself. If you die, you won't ever see him again.
I know this feeling. I, too, am addicted to someone. Though I've never self-harmed, so I'm sorry but I can't honestly relate to that.

Be strong.

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cremow [2010-02-07 11:42:08 +0000 UTC]

Pretend he's next to you?
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It's hard for me to think of what to do, I just wanted to tell something that would rhyme with the secret's ending. Oh, stop being away from him. Hunt him, get to him, hear his voice and feel good. ._.

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pxhymn [2010-02-07 11:22:26 +0000 UTC]

My dear ST, hold on.
The solution is quite simple and believe it or not, it starts with you.

First of all you must try and understand why are you addicted to your special one. Is it because of fear that he would leave you? Ask yourself this and answer it truly - is it because of your insecurity?
If it's so then please do remember that you are beautiful, my dear, everyone is, and you deserve a chance to be in love and be loved back, because when you'll start to love yourself FIRST, then all the others will follow. Simple as that, isn't it, but trust me, I know.


Second of all, it is good to be addicted to someone, but first of all, as I said before, You must love yourself and be addicted to yourself - your smile, your eyes, your appearance and of course your inner self.
Remember, my dear, that you are the only unique YOU in this world, so do live it like you mean it. Come on, it's so much fun to be yourself.

I believe in You, ST.

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IrisVampyria [2010-02-07 11:18:04 +0000 UTC]

If you think this is really becoming a disease and that you "could not" live without him (in the very meaning of the word), maybe you should look after WWLTM (Women Who Love Too Much) group, they have the same system as Anonymous Alcoholics and they can really help you if you want to recover from that.

I know it's still not time, but you have to keep in mind that if you ever break up with him, it's gonna hurt you badly and you will need every possible help and WWLTM can help you alot, I promise.

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Xcetera [2010-02-07 08:08:39 +0000 UTC]

don't do it things may seem rough but things will turn out okay. sometimes you've gotta let life take you where you're supposed to go. you never know what's going to happen, but you have to be ready to receive it.

talk to a friend, someone you trust, someone you know will be there for you. sometimes its easier to feel better if you let it out to somebody. you don't have to go through it alone.

take care, ST

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