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Kaylachan1990 [2010-12-26 15:45:14 +0000 UTC]
Let then know, if you two are truelly close, it won't effect your friendship. And in some cases it can make you closer friends ^_^
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soranna In reply to Kaylachan1990 [2010-12-26 17:37:39 +0000 UTC]
...or probably it will affect their friendship like hell and everything will end up awfully.
Still, there's 50/50 chances, so...
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Kaylachan1990 In reply to soranna [2010-12-26 18:43:19 +0000 UTC]
Well aren't we the perfect pessimist. I JUST this month confessed to my friend, and he and I are still just as close friends as we were. Don't try to make the ST feel bad.
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soranna In reply to Kaylachan1990 [2010-12-27 07:46:02 +0000 UTC]
Same thing happened to me and it screwed up everything. I'm not being pessimistic, I'm just being realistic- you can't say there's 100% chances of them still being friends after that. It just depends on the risks that ST wants to assume.
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Kaylachan1990 In reply to soranna [2010-12-27 15:18:48 +0000 UTC]
That just means that your friend was a jerk to begin with.
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soranna In reply to Kaylachan1990 [2010-12-27 15:43:08 +0000 UTC]
Maaaybe. But maybe not; it can happen that after you tell him, you both find yourselves in an awkward situation and then there's awkward silences and you just feel there's no point in it all anymore. This is nobody's fault.
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Kaylachan1990 In reply to soranna [2010-12-27 15:54:39 +0000 UTC]
Awkward situations only happen if someoen isn't comfortable with the outcome of a certain event, though that is based on all awkward situtiouns I have had with people.
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soranna In reply to Kaylachan1990 [2010-12-27 16:07:02 +0000 UTC]
You're right, I think. In this case, a good friend confessing he/she is in love with you when your feelings aren't the same miiiight just be an awkwakd situation and it depends on each person if he/she can get over this and just continue being friends.
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Kaylachan1990 In reply to soranna [2010-12-27 16:47:59 +0000 UTC]
Yes, though if both people agree that it shouldn't be awkward, it won't be.
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