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I forgot how cute they looked together
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So cute!!
Your Deathstar artwork has reignited my love for this pairing!
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i love this and i hope you do more deathstar stuff
btw if you need ideas i might have some if you want to hear
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no guarantees, but i'll take a look at your ideas if you want haha
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Honestly, one of the most wholesome and enduring depictions of light femdom and general fem-dominating romance that is all in all pretty positive I've seen
Like you really do more with this dynamic than most do and you hit all the write spots
It is honestly really fantasticΒ
Some of the better dialogue I've read all in all in these sort of comics, too
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thank you! ..i think? i'm not sure what you mean by "fem-dominating" romance, or such a thing being negative? is male dominating romance the better option to you? lol i don't really think romance is even possible if the two partners don't have mutual respect. the only reason wander doesn't push dominator around is because he's too nice. but he certainly could, if he wanted to.
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Definitely not a negative lol
It is just a dynamic in which the woman very much so is the emotionally dominate one in the relationship, this mostly referring to the possessiveness and the fact she enjoys the fact he more or less submits to her of his own free will
And she more often than not, is the one physically and emotionally leading many of the interactions
It is usually the man who is portrayed as being the emotionally dominate one and the woman as being submissive
So I actually enjoy this female-led dynamic a lot more personally, from a character-driven perspective
It is just that not all of them are well written, due to people not focusing on the mutualness of such a dynamic
Or down playing the fact that consent plays a large part in how these sort of relationships function healthily as well
The fact that Wander is how he is and comes to several compromises of his own being with her is exactly why this pairing actually works out so well and probably why you portray it more realistically and wholesomely than some others out there
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I think I understand what you mean, like, maybe you mean because a lot of people tend to portray female-led relationships in kind of a campy, kinky way? Maybe not because it's necessarily their thing but because that's one of the very few models of a relationship like that. I don't really mind if people want to portray the relationship like that, like, people can do what they want, but it does unfortunately seem to put a lot of people off of the pairing haha. When I first got into this pairing I was pretty disappointed to find that pretty sick torture stories seemed to be at least half of the material available.
In this case, I think Dominator knows he's not /really/ "surrendering" to her. All of this is just her convoluted, backwards way of saying she really, really likes him haha. Her "ultimate victory" is just her joy that he likes her back. When she says "tear you apart" she really means "get close to you". "Nobody will compare to me" means "please don't leave me". I don't think /she/ knows that's what she means yet, they're both a little immature haha. She's just so used to following her bad impulses, I think she assumes every impulse she has is bad. And of course, she's protecting herself from being vulnerable (don't we all? hahaha). I think Wander sees that. He knows what she's really saying, even if she doesn't.
But I think him actually changing his values, or not having the will to defy her would disappoint her a lot. She's still Dominator, if she was put into a difficult situation, even due to the things she /likes/ about Wander, I'm sure she wouldn't react well (she likes that he's determined in his values, for example, an equal match for her, but she's way too emotionally immature to compromise her own wants that might conflict with his, at least at this point in the relationship). But if she actually wanted someone to submit to her, I think she probably has a lot of options. There will be plenty of times Wander will take the lead, but between Dominator being comfortable and Wander getting a thrill out of letting her have control, it's not a surprise that it comes across as Dominator being the one to, uh, dominate. But it would only take a few hurtful words from Wander to break her, and I think Wander knows that. He just wouldn't ever do that, cuz, ya know, he's Wander haha. They're definitely on equal ground, they're just both such eccentric personalities that I guess it might be hard to see at a glance.
Anyway I'm really glad you like my portrayal! I really love this pairing and I guess I'm not totally surprised it's not more popular (they don't exactly have a lot of romantic chemistry in the series lol) but I think it's perfect; & I'm glad I'm doing it justice!
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Yeah, exactly
People make it a kink rather than an actual relationship dynamic, it is easy to fetishize character romances because admittingly it is does not take much justification
Because "lol porn" doesn't need to make sense and people as a result, sort of allow themselves to be complacent in that regard
And yeah, of course her diction doesn't reflect herself in all truth - but it is definitely in her character to use such villainous terms haha
I think, at least - a lot of those words and her own actions come from a place of hurt and also misunderstandings of her own feelings, as well as possibly some self conscious anxieties
All things that Wander seems to help out a lot with, by giving her validation and allowing her to express herself without much fear
It is a good character dynamic though, that you recognized and utilized very well
Since once again, people tend to make characters who are bad or somewhat aggressive in this way without much rhyme or reason
Also big oof, the idea of Wander having that power to hurt her emotionally just goes to show the vulnerabilities of LD, which we rarely see explored - all while exemplifying that noble-bright goodness of Wander himself, as you said - he'd never do that intentionally because he's Wander
Honestly, I had no idea what to think of this pairing because so many other portrayals are poor, overly sexual/kinkized and lack a lot of depth
But your portrayal changed my mind and made me go 180 degrees on the concept
Easily one of my favourite character pairings in general now, so I definitely owe you that haha
What is impressive is actually how you have managed to write these characters together in a convincing, non-forced way
Everything is so fluidly done and the dialogue I can tell, has been given a lot of attention
I sincerely hope that if anything, you make this more popular
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Oh yes, definitely joining this discord as we speak
Thanks!
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1st -0-0 truly love this reasoning XD
2nd what adorable pair
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Kill 'em with kindness, I guess? hahaha
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Kindness and... other things.
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Kindness and COPIOUS AMOUNTS of sex.
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I listen to suggestions sometimes lol.
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Ever think of doing a pic in where Dominator has to dress up all cute and girly for Wander and she absolutely hates it?
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hahaha I don't think Wander would ever want her to do that FOR him, but if there was a circumstance where she had to dress up all cute and girly, I'm sure Wander would love it. I'm sure he'd love it if she dressed super debonair too. He'd probably get a kick out of a lot of outfits. I'll think about it!
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Okay.
Also, I did a fanfic series on FF.net a while back. 7-Parts in total.
Main focus was on Wander and Dominator, but there was a side of Hater and Ripov.
Anyway, as a fellow DeathStar Shipper, I was wondering if you'd like to check it out.
Who knows, it might even inspire some new pics.
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Maybe.
Did the one you read feature a character called the Night Mayor?
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That's mine.
How far did you get?
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Honestly I kinda skipped around. But that fanfic DID inspire something I made:Β
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I liked what I read a lot! But yeah my friends and I tend to favor a very different approach to how the relationship begins haha, so that's sort of the basis I stick to for my art. At least, most of the time.
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I see.Β
Well, I guess that makes sense.Β
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For someone who wrote a 7-part fanfic, you sure aren't very talkative lol.
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Sorry.
I guess I've just got a lot on my mind.Β
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