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Melloroom — I am gender fluid
Published: 2015-06-05 04:39:21 +0000 UTC; Views: 2018; Favourites: 4; Downloads: 0
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Description Today I did something I wouldn't have had the strength to do at all if it hadn't been for recent events and I came out on facebook today as mentally and cosmetically gender fluid, between female and non-binary. I'm "feminine in small portions, and then most of the time just a neither binary specific minded neutral personality person, mentally.". No this does not mean any kind of surgical transition, I do intend to cosmetically change my appearance though. I will get buffer, I will lose weight, I will bind, I will cover myself in tattoos, I will be myself. To be honest if you're wondering why would I make such girly feminine art if I myself am not that feminine? it's because I like girly stuff....I just, don't like it on or for myself, does that make sense? You wouldn't say a guy who is very into the female form wants to have the female form, just really appreciates it aesthetically. Same goes for me. Maybe some of it is overcompensation for my inner lack of femininity even though I love the concept of it, but I can't say for sure. Anyway, I will always accept the name Molly but I'm also go by Apollo or "ollie," and my pronouns are she/her or they/they're, either are fine. SO I just wanted to mention this, its really personal/important to me, and I'm glad I could talk about it. 
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Comments: 24

LiLloftmouse [2015-06-14 19:47:02 +0000 UTC]

Congratulations! I wish you the best of luck.  
(I love your art btw)

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rosheruuu [2015-06-13 14:07:30 +0000 UTC]

I'm really happy for you!! Congrats, its amazing that you're so brave and strong to do so <33

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Yumi-Cake [2015-06-05 18:42:16 +0000 UTC]

Ahh, congrats!! I'm really happy that you were able to come out!
You should always be happy with yourself and comfortable. 
I totally get it, you don't have to be a certain thing to like a certain thing

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Melloroom In reply to Yumi-Cake [2015-06-05 22:39:15 +0000 UTC]

That's it, absolutely.
Thank you for the support Yumi, I really appreciate it.

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Yumi-Cake In reply to Melloroom [2015-06-05 23:53:04 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome!! I'm always here for you if you ever need anything!

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Twime777 [2015-06-05 16:29:46 +0000 UTC]

Congrats. You should always be true to yourself.

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Melloroom In reply to Twime777 [2015-06-05 22:36:48 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much

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AkulaShuvelle [2015-06-05 16:04:13 +0000 UTC]

It's wonderful that you've embraced who you are!! I'm so happy for you!
The sooner you become comfortable with yourself the better!

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Melloroom In reply to AkulaShuvelle [2015-06-05 22:36:08 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much and, I couldn't have put it better, preach.

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theyhim [2015-06-05 13:24:16 +0000 UTC]

aaa congrats i'm glad you figured it out!! gender identity can be really confusing sometimes

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Melloroom In reply to theyhim [2015-06-05 22:34:42 +0000 UTC]

I feel that, this was a debate that took many MANY years of just, waiting for the right time and the right way to express who I am, and I feel amazing about it! thank you so much.

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theyhim In reply to Melloroom [2015-06-07 14:45:05 +0000 UTC]

i know how that feels, i'm still unsure about myself and so happy for you!! <3

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Saihai [2015-06-05 10:12:41 +0000 UTC]

I'm so proud of you! I hope it all turns out amazing for you, good luck! I would love to see your progress!

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Melloroom In reply to Saihai [2015-06-05 22:32:51 +0000 UTC]

And I can't wait to show it lmao
thank you so much, it means a lot.

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IronicEggAffection [2015-06-05 09:40:47 +0000 UTC]

Congratulations!!

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Melloroom In reply to IronicEggAffection [2015-06-05 22:32:03 +0000 UTC]

Thanks C:

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Slothydoll [2015-06-05 05:28:29 +0000 UTC]

congratulations~  

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Melloroom In reply to Slothydoll [2015-06-05 05:31:26 +0000 UTC]

Ty so much!

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Slothydoll In reply to Melloroom [2015-06-05 06:42:52 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome  

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SiXProductions [2015-06-05 05:13:35 +0000 UTC]

congrats on coming out!!

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Melloroom In reply to SiXProductions [2015-06-05 05:31:43 +0000 UTC]

Thank you, I appreciate it (:

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dongfairy [2015-06-05 04:50:29 +0000 UTC]

That's great!!

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aaeeeuhg [2015-06-05 04:48:34 +0000 UTC]

woooOO !!!

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Gro-ggy [2015-06-05 04:44:20 +0000 UTC]

I'm proud of you!

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