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Published: 2016-07-16 19:28:38 +0000 UTC; Views: 11402; Favourites: 858; Downloads: 93
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-____-does anyone have this kind of problem?
I know sitting around at home watch anime,reading books and drawing are kinda make you feel numb with the outside world,
hanging out, socializing with people, coping with their behaviors are no big deal to me, but wow, it makes you facepalm even more.
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when like so... i just take a walk outside. it's pretty refreshing
maybe at the park, a little bit of sun and fresh air do their job amazingly
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I'd like to go out while having the option to teleport into my bed, as soon as i had enough.
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Been there, done that, got the shirt, hated the trip.
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Yeah, it can be like that sometimes. Honestly, there's no real cure for it.
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Mine is similar, but not quite the same. It's more of I get bored at home and then friends tell me to come hang out, so I do, and then I'm like "gee, this sucks just as bad as being at home." So similar struggles :/
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Not really, no. I stay at home all the time, so I dont know this problem.
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Yep ! my brain and some split mind syndrome Β
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and thats what pokemon go is for. gets you out of the house and excersize, you socialize with other nerds, and you play a fun game
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Why can't I always socialize while i'm drawing or watching stuff? It just happens from time to time...
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You could use earplugs against the noise. Other than that: I don't go out. Best of luck!
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in other words, maybe the superficiality of socializing serves only as a distraction for you and fails to fulfill? you feel like you are not truly recognized, understood, accepted, deemed worthy or loved?
others know so little of your inside world? I think every human feels like that, because we hardly speak about our feelings out of fear of being rejected or hurting someone. We are caught in limbo,
unable to change the situation, because we fear making things worse.
But it doesn't have to be that way. Since i think we all feel this, we can break this emotional isolation. We need to agree that whatever one feels is their perception of reality, whatever one does or says
is caused by their need for recognition, acceptance or love. also our own behaviors are caused by the same mechanism. We need to stop being offended by that, we need to stop taking this personally,
we need to understand the goals and mechanisms behind our own and others behavior. we need to stop opposing, start understanding and stop acting in a way that reinforces the traumas that cause
ours and others behavior. We need to find a way to give a helping hand to ourselves and others, that will not cause rejection of help.
This has a lot to do with how "Ego" protects us by not "taking off the Masks" we wear to make us invulnerable in exchange for emotional isolation. The feeling that no one understands us, that nothing
has purpose, that nothing fulfills, that we are supposed to do certain things because that is what " a good life" is about are symptoms of this.
We need to examine our own Ego, without judging ourselves for it ( as they are not your fault, only products of your traumas), recognize these triggers, understand them and work on them. It is also
essential to become aware that these processes run in everyone, and we are not to judge others for their "misbehavior". We need to try to understand what makes them tick and offer recognition,
understanding, acceptance and love.
For example instead of joining a fight or discussion and only throwing your point of view at others, will only reinforce the feeling of not being understood. Instead of doing something about the symptom,
which is "that someone is angry/ has a certain political view/etc. we need to ask ourselves why. We need to explore the why. the easiest way to do that is instead of rejecting their perception of realitiy,
to ask them why they feel that way, because you truly wish to understand them. This question will also break the thinking pattern of the other and make them question themselves without giving theirΒ
Ego the opportunity to reject your view. on contrary you give them what they desire: being understood.
This can be hard to implement. But it is a lot easier if you start with people that bear good will towards you, like your friends and family.
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i already finished social psychology, dude.
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a.k.a The Introvert's Expectations versus Reality XD
Great piece. I like the simplicity of it, everything looks blurred and ill defined except the character, in sharp focus to the surroundings. Makes me think the view of their world is dulled or bleak.
This is also how my girlfriend is. To a T, and I enjoy her reactions to work like this.
Her comment: this will be exactly me if I did that.
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I love this. Apart from the art I love the concept. Fortunately there is often a silver lining to every cloud.
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hey, just askin,, but is it okay if I try to copy your style? I'm trying to practice digital ar,, but I'm not really the best. And this picture seems very simple and seems close to how I want to draw. Please QwQ I really admire your style. It's fine if you say no.
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Yes yes and yes. couldn't have summed it up better myself
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oh god......life in a nut shell for us allΒ
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I just walk around, in the park, mall or at home.
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bla-bla-bla-bla.... parties.... when I want to go out, IΒ΄m going to have a beer in Whiskey bar Dillon here in Reykjavik, you can sit outside, enjoying a nice day with a friend, girlfriend.... just sit and talk 
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Β Absolutely. Although, being homeless, unemployed and on probation I have zero chance to go out.
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I just skip the going out step and stay in.
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Omg same!?!? Although when I'm outside, it's usually me trying to figure out how to approach people and then I get pissed off cause I don't have any social skills π§π¦
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