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Published: 2011-09-25 15:12:29 +0000 UTC; Views: 6323; Favourites: 244; Downloads: 12
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Premarital sex is NOT a crime. Stop trying to make it one.Now I know you all might be thinking: "What? Sex isn't a crime! Who the hell thinks it is?"
But once you look deep enough, you see people treating unmarried sex like it is the most discusting thing ever.
Now I'm sexualy active in an unmarried relationship, and I've been told that I'm going to hell, God hates me, that I should get AIDs/Nasty STDs, forced to carry a pregnancy for being 'irresponcible' and all the shit that genrally makes Christians and other religions look like complete assholes.
I don't believe in your God. I'm never getting married. I'm not going to abstain my whole life. Thats stupid. Sex is NOT a crime, it's a physical interaction between two (or more
) people.
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Sex is only a crime if it's nonconsensual, underage, or solicited (like with a prostitute).
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Fuck, are people that dumb to think sex as a hate crime?!
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"YES IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT SHOULD BE MADE A HATE CRIME AS WELL!!!!!!!!!"
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Sex outside of marriage should be a crime.
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Most everyone's going to jail then
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There are religious zealots, or obsessed Christians who have a thing for shaming people just for having a fetish/kink or two as if having personal desires makes you a sinful beast who should be shamed and shunned for it all the way until you get rid of that "sinful behavior" 
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lmao my school (junior high) is full of babies so when sex is brought up....
'eeEEEEEWWWWWW'
grOW UP BOI
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Haha, you've seen Christians saying that? Yeah, I don't think they're really Christians. I think there are exceptions to having sex while unmarried. You just have to be in love for life I guess. That's how my unmarried parents are.
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Let's just make being a human fucking illegal
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People can have AIDS, were they married or not.
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Premarital sex isn't bad at all, you shouldn't have to be married to have sex. It is something that expresses love, not just to make children (even though that's good too, if you want them, I believe).
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And yet, unmarried sex seems to do more harm than good.
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And how is married sex any better? The only difference between a couple that isn't married having sex and a couple that is married having sex is marital status.
((I may have misunderstood your comment orz))
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"I'm going to hell" "God hates you" What the heck xD?! I'm a Christian and I really hate Christians saying those kinds of things. Me and my father would like to call those "fundies".
Sure, I'm religious, but I'm sticking to my practices instead of tellingΒ other people to practice what we do. If ppl wanna have sex before marriage, I fully respect that. I may not like it, but I have the right mind to know that it's notΒ a crime at all. There's nothing wrong with it, it's not hurting anyone, fine by me.Β
Besides, sex isn't just to make babies, it's to express love. Now I understand what it means after talking to Mom about it.
Yep, religious people can be screwed up a-holes. I'm telling ya.
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True, true.
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Sex is very healthy with the right precautions and perfectly natural. It's the 21st century. People need to stop being so prudish already.
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My nation needs hear this quote.
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I want to have sex with the right person married or not
Fuck religion
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Where I live, TALKING about sex leads to many punishments. Wtf?
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What ?! What kinds of punishments ?
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Suspension for up to five days, at the least.
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Holy shit...
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They act like sex is something EVIL....
When it's clear they've all had it before, they have kids.
Hypocrites....
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Yup, that's really ridiculous...
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I have nothing against people who have sex before marriage. It is just not for me, which is why I'm saving myself.
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"saving myself"
i don't want to seem rude or brash here
but i'm a little peeved at seeing people treating virginity like a slice of cake
or their bodies
if you want sex, you want sex
if you don't want sex, you don't
if you want to wait until you're comfortable with someone to try it, then say that
but man, Β you're not a pudding cup. don't say you're "saving" that, say "i'm not ready"
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I'd argue and say, what's wrong with feeling like your virginity is sacred? I felt that way before I lost mine, and to this day I STILL wish I was a virgin...
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you pretty much didn't get what i was trying to say. but i mean, dude, why do you feel that way?
virginity isn't a special state of being. believing in that kind of thing only takes away from the rest of you. i mean seriously. that's like saying, "i'm choosing to save my first time blowing bubbles for someone special."
you weren't ready. you weren't ready to experience that yet, and you did anyway - it's not the virginity.
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I feel that way because my body is important to me, and for me to give something that precious away (actually, my first time wasn't even completely voluntary; I felt betrayed when I lost it) really upsets me. I can't really explain why I think it's so sacred, but I always felt that way; I always felt like I needed to save it for the right person, and I didn't (again, not really intentionally), and I regret it more than anything every day. To me, it's highly tied to my emotional well-being, so I think that's why it's so important for me to only have sex with the right person - the one I love completely who loves me back completely. That's what went wrong; the person who took my virginity didn't give a damn about me.
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well, like i just said, you're not really getting what i am trying to say. i'm deeply sorry that you were very possibly raped, and it shouldn't have gone like that. i'm not saying to sleep with people that don't love you, and i'm not saying for folks to not solely sleep with who they trust or love. i'm just saying "virginity" is a load.
you should keep feeling as though your body is important, because it is. only trust your body to the people you love, respect or trust; but that has nothing to do with virginity.
virginity is not a trophy, nor a prize, or something to flaunt to think you're any better or worse than anybody else. like i said, it's just something that takes away from the core of us. you are not your loss of virginity. Β people are so much more than their sexuality, who they've slept with, or who they haven't.
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I agree with those things, and I don't think of it as a trophy and I didn't think I was better than anyone else when I was a virgin; however, I am JEALOUS of virgins because I still wish I hadn't lost mine to a dickbag. :lΒ
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okay so like, listen hereΒ
let me put it a different way
virginity doesn't make you a special cupcake. you can go to your grave being a virgin and nobody cares. it's not a state of being, it's not being "purer than thou", it's literally just the fact you haven't boinked.
if you don't wanna do it, don't do it.
if you didn't wanna do it and was forced to, you were raped. that doesn't mean you're diminished any. Β it sure as hell doesn't mean you get jealous of people who "are still virgins" because their virginity is literally not special at all and literally not important.
virginity is the biggest joke ever.
why is it so fawned over, god.
i "lost" mine to like six seconds of awkward positioning against my mom's car at 1:00 in the morning, before sort of deciding this is stupid and both going back home to bed.
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Okay, well I still feel the same way, and I still wish I was still a virgin, despite how much I like sex. Of course, if I never felt it, I wouldn't miss it...
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That's true, I mean either way you would like to put it. I'm not ready. I don't care about others, as long as they stay safe and think of the consequences.
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hey, thanks for not getting anal about what i was trying to say
power to you and your choices broski !
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