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"Sexually healthy people are not sluts!"I was originally going to say "Sexually active women are not sluts!" but I have seen male slut shaming before (Yes, it happens
) so I decided to change it to people, so we can all be one happy family. Although typically it's slut shaming centers around women.I always see things like:
"She should have waited till marriage!"
"He doesn't deserve STD treatment because he chose to have sex!"
"If she didn't want a baby she should have kept her legs shut!"
"Sex is gross and anyone who does it for enjoyment is a filthy slut!"
"Pre-Marital sex is a sin and anyone who does the dirty beforehand is going to hell!"
And so on.
"Pre-Marital sex IS a sin, though! It says so in the bible!"
And so is eating shrimp, wearing mixed fabrics, shaving, eating pig and so on. Do you follow everything the bible says? Because if you do, you'd be one fucked up person. But really, why do people feel the need to let people down over what a 2000 year old book says? Get with the times!
"It's true that if she didn't want to be pregnant she shouldn't have opened her legs like the slut she is!"
Consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy. I have said this so many times before and people like you STILL don't get it! Plenty of women from all cultures are faced with unwanted pregnancies AND THAT INCLUDES MARRIED WOMEN!
"I'm offended by sex, I think it's so gross!"
Awww, somebody got offended!!!
But no seriously, do you think I care? If you don't like the thought of sex, here's an amazing idea: DON'T DO IT. And let people like me who enjoy sex keep on enjoying it. Kays?
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Um, it turns out that eating shrimp IS bad!
They clean the oceans!
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My only issue is when these people still refer to themselves as "Monogamous." - Monogamy is a term solely reserved for creatures who only take ONE partner their entire life.
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Sex made us, and the bible said babies are angels.
Wow.
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Honestly I think people just toss out the words "slut/whore" like candy without knowing its meaning. Being a slut is if a woman sells her body to men for money.
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I'm the most sexually unhealthiest person in my family...
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no no no that's not how it works, you don't NEED sex to be healthy especially if you don't enjoy it at all! what it means is those who do have sex before marriage and such is not wrong, or masturbating, I don't know if you do but it's all natural and okay if you do or don't!
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I was once given a tiny 3 inch bible for free by some wondering preacher at my college a few years ago. I decided to use the pages as tinder for my fire place do to the fact that I already had a much bigger bible for researching debates.
Bibles have essentially lost their values ever since the invention of the Gutenberg press.
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Pah~! The Bible is full of crap~!
I do a lot of things in it that states as sins. Wearing mixed fabrics, shaving those annoying hairs, eating oinks (I just had a cut-up pork chop for dinner today) and many other things. It's all natural stuff, dude~!
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"sexually healthy" Wait what the fuck!? When did dick or pussy became so much like blood and water?! Fuck this world today!
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If bieng sexually healthy is having sex, i'm going to die.Β
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Ever since I learned what sex was, I brainwashed myself into thinking sex was worse than the holocaust.Β
That was back in like 5th grade up until 9th. I'm okay with it now, but it still makes me uncomfortable. And I kinda feel ashamed of my "certain feelings" lol.
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I'm asexual myself, but if someone finds happiness from sex, I'm not complaining about that. I have friends who enjoy sex and they sometimes tell me about their sex life.
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Bruh you're so chill. I am a bisexual aromantic, and my friend, albeit jokingly, called me a hoe-bag. I know she meant it jokingly, but it still hurt though.Β
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I know a girl who has a lot of sex. She's gay, so she is comfortable with talking to me about her sex life (she also dated my sister, which is kinda awkward).Β
I always ask her one question about her experience: "Did you know her name?"
If she can answer that, than I don't consider it unhealthy. Or slutty.
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Depends on the person. You can still be a slut and be sexually healthy but of course you can be sexually healthy and not be a slut.
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There's a difference between being sexually healthy and being a whore.
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Not slutting yourself out to everyone you meet.
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I'm not sure 'slutting' is a verb...
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You know, whoring yourself out.
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ah, by being sexually active? I'm sorry, but what is so bad about that? Is it unnatural to have sex for pleasure now?
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Nothing wrong with having sex for pleasure with your boyfriend or your husband or even just with a guy you've been on a couple of dates with. But just sleeping around with a ton of people you don't even know? That's just trashy.
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Sex is natural, it's primal to want to diddle attractive people regardless of wither or not you know them.
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Thanks 
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Indeed. The old days truly have passed I guess...
Anyways, I wish you peace and happiness.
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Thank you. Same to you friend!
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Wakawelcome! And thx!
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ffppt I'm sure their choices aren't in any way detrimental to your mental and physical wellbeing?
Look, this day and age, women have been liberated from conservative 18th centuryΒ ideas. I mean- the word 'slut' appears in the 1400s, so yeah, 15th century ideas. Women used to have to wear chastity belts. Nowadays, women are free to do as they please, women are able to experience similar sexual promiscuity as men have been, for the past many, many years. What do you think of men who are indiscriminately having sex?
That's an unfair double standard, if you say 'hell yeah, let them boys get at it'.
People experience sexual drive, and people might not necessarily be looking for relationships or have not settled in one yet. I'm sorry if you have a low libido and are offended, but it's the truth. Sex is used for pleasure, it's natural, believe me. Some people plain love sex. Like you love transformers. Shaming you for liking it, is as fair as shaming women for being sexually active.
Besides, if you argue it's not natural, I will say it is. Dolphins masturbate hurrhurr dur, but a person does not experience sexual drive the way animals do; that is, being triggered by hormones.
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When did I ever tell you how I felt about men doing it? I don't approve of man-whores or "players"! They're pigs! I think men should understand the value of being in a relationship with a woman. And I DON'T have a low libido. I doubt you're interested in hearing about it, but I'm most certainly sexually active. The difference? It's with a person I know very well, and love deeply.
So...you're saying what, people are like animals and should basically bang whenever they feel like it? Sex is a very intimate thing that you shouldn't just give ANYBODY access to. It's a special thing. Of course sex is NATURAL. If it wasn't our race would die out. The reason sex feels so good is because if it didn't, nobody would want to do it, and nobody would ever have any babies and there would be no more humans left.
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Oh good, because I was a bit worried there, otherwise that would've been a bit of an issue too. But yeah, I asked because you never told me.
Look, I'm very glad you are in a loving relationship and view sex as a positive aspect of it, but I don't understand your vindictive stance on those who are sexually active and promiscuous? What makes you so angry and so vitriolic?Β Like op said, just let people who enjoy sex too, just enjoy it. In the 1960s-70s, the sexual liberation became a thing in many Western nations, and it's great. People are having the chance to enjoy sex and not necessarily have to settle down in a relationship, and people are having the chance to experiment sexually and their sexuality. My own view is just that, if someone else is happy to do something and it's not particularly damaging to myself or others, then by jove! Go for it!
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I just think that sex should mean something more than a little one-night-stand. Why would I want to give my body away for just one night to somebody I didn't even know? I'm not angry, I just don't understand it, or think it's right.
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You loved to abuse the word 'slut', 'whore' and any synonymous word earlier on.
But really, as long as nobody is trying to force you into having sex with idk, 10 people a day, I hope you won't be attacking people for doing what they do :/
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I'm not abusing the words, I'm just saying them, and I'm not attacking anybody. Like I said, I just don't understand it or approve of it. I know what you were going to say, that they don't NEED my approval, but that doesn't mean I have to like it.
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I agree with you
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Wakawelcome.
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Absolutely. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex so long as everything is safe, sane, and consensual.Β
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The definition of slut isn't the same as the way people use it.
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If you are unmarried and still fuck ten men a week...
YS IT IS STILL A WHORE
YOU ARE IN DENIAL BECAUSE YOU DID ITΒ
EVEN MY NON-GOD-WORSHIPPING PAGAN FRIEND AGREES
SO DO SOME ATHIESTS I KNOW
ITS NOT A RELIIOUS THINGS
ITS COMMON SENSE
YES SHE SHOULD HAVE KEPT HER LEGS SHUT IF SHE DID NOT WANT A BABY IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU RUN THE RISK OF PREGNANCY BECAUSE BOH CONDOMS AND BIRTH CONTROL HAVE A HIGH FAILURE RATE.
AMERICA WAS FOUNDED ON RELIGION TBH WHERE DO YOU THINK THE NO MURDER SHIT COMES FROM-
NAD IT ALSO DEPENDS IF YOU ARE CATHOLIC, CHRISTIAN, PROTETANT OR JEW-
JEWS CANNOT EAT SHRIMP
CATHOLICS CANNOT EAT MEAT ON LENT
Β ITS DIFFERENT DEPENDING ON WHICH PART OF THE BIBLE YOUR RELIGION GOES BY
QUIT DISSING ON THE RELIGION THAT MADE IT ABLE FOR YOU TO BE ALIVE TODAY SEEING AS YOUR OWN MOTHER WOULD HAVE SOLD YOU OFF FOR MORE CRACK-
ALSO, THE MORE SEX YOU HAVE THE MORE CHANCE YOU HAVE OF GETTIGN AN STD
I DONT CARE IF YOU THINK I AMSTUPID AT LEAST YOU THOUGHT TIHS IMPORTANT ENOUGH TO READ SO HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
BEING A VIRIGIN IN THIS DAY AND AGE IS WONDERFUL
NO DRAMA
NO ABORTIONS THAT WILL FUCK YOU UP LATER
SO FUCK YOUΒ
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Can't tell if trolling.
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Calm down there, keyboard crusaderΒ
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Can't tell if she's trolling.
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Hey, bitch, you think it's funny top talk about killing "niggers?" What a sad little person.
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10 men a week? Anyway, if you don't like it, SHUT UP! (Smosh ref) Β
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In all honesty, anyone has the right to do what they want with their bodies because it's simply their life choices. I myself would never agree to things such as friends with benefits, casual sex, etc, but I don't judge as long as you are doing it safely and doing anything with consent. Just because you're safely sexually active doesn't mean you're a bad person, and nobody really has the right to judge someone's personality solely on that.
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bruh I wish more people were like you. I enjoy casual sex and hook-ups, but I don't meet that many people who don't give me shit for it.Β
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