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I felt like doing this one because of my improvement in drawing. But this will likely be the last drawing I'll do for KittyTheGengarQueen because of recent events, including the fact that I started getting on her nerves, and the things about DreamUp. There's so much I need to get off my chest about this. And wow, this is by far my longest vent. And I'm incredibly sorry for how long this is. This is like over 15 minutes' worth of reading. So I guess you can do a reaction video of this.

Before I start, this was typed BEFORE she deactivated on the night of 22nd of November (10 PM in Eastern USA time zone), and she might reactivate this Friday. Kitty added this to her favorites right before she did deactivate. Anyway, let's get this over with:

When I joined DA, I faved so much of her stuff and commented on some of them. I was in love with her stuff because I've been a Gengar fan since Autumn 2016, and I'm interested in seeing a female Gengar. The next day, she made this drawing for me, which warmed my heart:
Gift for my New Friend Rawburt

I did some other things for her, and she did some other things for me, too. She once even called me one of her best friends. We even have some things in common, like we both like Panera Bread, we both dislike boiled eggs, and we both like strawberry milk (which I rarely get to drink, and I never had it until I'm 19) and grilled cheese. She actually has a phobia of a certain food that I dislike that many like. I am fine with those things as long as they don't get everywhere or if it's not me eating them, or her. I won't tell you what it is for safety reasons. We both have autism, too.
I really like images of her and Gargantua (this giant Gengar from a Pokémon episode that aired a long time ago), because she made such a beast cute. ^///^
Here's an example:
Nuzzles

Her best friend is JinjiTheGengar, and it warms my heart to see them look up to each other. And I heard that xxlPanda is the reason why KittyTheGengarQueen joined. Since I joined because of Kitty, I made a pretty big difference, and I'm glad to not replace Jinji as best friend.

But every so often, she would seriously lose her temper, like I sometimes have. In fact, she's strict when it comes to her rules. She had a comment section rule that I'm very respectful of (before she deleted the comment section rule recently), and there are many things that she really dislikes. She gets provoked very easily. She doesn't even like to RP (probably because of some bullying her or because of school). She doesn't tolerate fetish, either (because she wants the site to be safe). She doesn't like to do adoptables, either. Sometimes, she tells us about her monthly cycle that women go through.
Sadly, she had to go through some rough drama. I knew how she felt, so I tend to be a whiteknight of her, especially when others break her comment section rule.
In fact, someone once made a killing video of her, and when I stood up for her, he called me a whiteknight. That didn't bother me so much. I just care about Kitty's peace of mind. Thankfully, they made up with each other. But that wasn't the only time I acted like a whiteknight over her. When someone cursed at Kitty, she got really upset. My mom was harsh on me one over failing grades or late homework, and then this happens. I hated seeing Kitty upset along with getting tortured over education, so I screamed a death threat at the guy who was mean to her. Months later, I regret making that death threat, so I went to apologize. A while later, he accepted my apology, but he said that what Kitty said about "witchcrafting" someone is wrong.
Another example was when Kitty told me about a bigtime enemy of hers. I kept quiet about it, but I finally let it out on that enemy of hers over 3 months later and blocked him. And hour later, I saw his reaction (crying over being called a pedophile/cyberbully), and I regretted that. So I unblocked him, but he had already blocked me back. So I asked katamariluv (AKA Kathy) to get him to unblock me so I could apologize to him, which she did, and then I got unblocked. I apologized to him, and he accepted my apology. I'm glad things were alright between us.
I once even wrote a journal of a user that gave Kitty a hard time after the winter olympics ended (shame on you, VengefulSpiritMima, for causing a domino effect and getting another friend of mine to threaten to do something terrible after seeing Kitty's posts).
I can understand Kitty, because I can sometimes relate to her. I was much ruder back then than I am now. I once got impatient over requests, and when someone told me in a rude way to "stop getting upset over requests or else" not once but twice. And that made me REALLY mad, so I don't blame Kitty.

Unfortunately, I did 3 terrible things to Kitty that I seriously regret doing:

1. I caused this drama between her and gokudrad. I asked her to block gokudrad for his wrongdoings, but she engaged (which I should've told her not to) before she did. Even so, they could still see each other's posts. So when August began, she stopped doing status updates for 2 months because of him. At least gokudrad didn't misbehave as much as he used to, because what he did got his account suspended for a week, and then a month, giving him 2 strikes. He went to a new account afterwards. I'm glad that drama is over.

2. I let her know about the terrible thing ThomasDafoeStudios (AKA Tommy) did about blocking my friends (including her and her best friend) to have me all to himself. I blocked him via message a couple days later after finding out. I then did a status using a meme template he made over what he did to my friends. I ended up regretting it, because I didn't want to cause another upset to her like I did about gokudrad, but I caused it anyway since she saw my status. I was tempted to tell her before she found out, so before I made that status, I told JinjiTheGengar (Kitty's best friend) what he did, but he said it's not his problem since he didn't know him, and then I told him not to tell Kitty, and he promised. Anyway, Kitty not only hates being blocked, but also hates when someone's mean to Jinji. She hates ThomasDafoeStudios so much. When I did a deviation about what he did, the next morning, one of my friends used an alt account to share the deviation to him, so then Tommy apologized to a couple of my friends, so I then unblocked him, and forgave him. Not everyone forgave him, though. KittyTheGengarQueen hated him the most, so she wouldn't even think about forgiving him, especially since he still didn't delete that status saying which users he blocked. Sometimes, Tommy complains when I praise Kitty or Cyanesque111 (Cyan), who "started the Tommy incident". It had to happen on her birthday this year. On Cyan's birthday a few days after, under my status I commented about not wanting him to complain again. He did in a status, saying, "Happy birthday to one of my haters, Cyanesque111." I didn't really like that he used a loophole, but I still didn't block him again, but to make things worse, he seemed to support R41nb0w-K1tty-101, and I didn't know until Kitty told me and begged me not to trust him. So I told Tommy about R41nb0w-K1tty-101 and why she's a pedophile.
Oh, and I believe this is where I met ThomasDafoeStudios:
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3. I dragged her into some drama over me and katamariluv. A few days before (on the last night of September), there was a different kind of drama that PTParmenTOONS caused while Kitty was in my chat room. Let's just say that some chat members were blaming themselves, and Cyanesque111 lost it, causing KittyTheGengarQueen to leave the chat (so I'm adding a new rule to the chat: Do NOT leave the chat without my permission, or else you'll make a fool out of someone). PantherKing239 (AKA Darren) told Cyan, "You didn't make anything worse". And then Cyan was like, "Yes I did", because of the fact that Kitty left the chat room because he screamed something. He was like, "Now Rawburt's going to be so mad at me!", and then I told Cyan that I wasn't mad at him at all. I was more displeased with Kitty because she made a fool out of me and Cyan (I mean no offense). This was the fault of PT starting it all. Or it was my fault for putting a certain section of a description in a new deviation that time, so I removed that part of the description. And I apologized to Kitty and told her about PT, so she then blocked PT with the video that goes like, "GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!".
But that's not what I seriously regret. What I really did to drag her into drama was when Kathy cut ties with me for saying something really hurtful to her. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me in DA. For some reason, I did something that ended up not right: Telling Kitty about my situation. Later, she told Kathy, "He dragged me into this drama (I am not kidding), and I was being the idiot participating for a bit. But I'm making the right choice to just ignore it now, because it literally increased my blood pressure due to anxiety, and this crap is extremely unhealthy for me. So, after this comment, I'll stay out of it, for the sake of my health and since you're both my friends and I like you. (I'm gonna hide my comments now. Byby. Sorry about this. My bad.)", and she did hide her comments. She just needs a break from the anxiety. I felt awful about that, so I told her that this'll be my last comment and I'll never drag her into drama again. She replied with, "Don't let it be your last, just don't drag me into drama ever again." I'm glad she forgave me. And the next night, me and Kathy got back together.

Anyway, there were some times when Kitty hurt my feelings a bit. I tagged her several times on deviations that I know for sure she'd like that she didn't fave yet. And then one time, she had enough, and said this, "Aww. But could you PLEASE stop tagging me? It's already getting old, and I can find it myself.", which made me feel pretty bad, so this deviation may be the last time I'm tagging her. She commented on my statuses one day, and then I saw her post saying, "Sorry 'bout all m' comments. I was originally s'posed to comment on a different status of mine, buuuuut then I saw all the drama again, and got quite stressed. Not to mention, separation anxiety happened beforehand (don't ask 'bout that part)." And then the next day, I asked her if she'd be interested in any adoptables, and if she's okay with going back to the chat. Unfortunately, she replied with this, "You better be telling a joke you poor dude! I faved this stamp (that says, "stop it with the f***ing adoptables") for a reason!!! I thought I told Kata that I don't do adoptables! I should've made her tell you! Not to be rude, but you drain my trusting of you each day. An environment can be too toxic for me, and I'm so glad I have an online best friend (Jinji) and a potential boyfriend (in high school) to lessen it." That actually kinda hurt my feelings and made me a bit mad (I guess Kitty was in her monthy cycle that women go through, making her ruder for sure). After I apologized, she told me that it's not fully broken yet and that I shouldn't beat myself up. She said she just got annoyed. I wasn't sure to keep trusting her, so after that, I tried refraining from making any comments or replies to her for a bit, and then I comment/reply again, but not very often. And to make things worse, after ThomasDafoeStudios commented on an adoptables deviation of mine, Kitty saw the comment ad said, "An even stronger reason why I don't do adoptables now. Giving one to the supporter of a pedophile? That's NUTS!" But I don't think he supports one, he just didn't know what was really going on. I just want peace with everyone, and you shouldn't force me (or others) to hate anyone.
And now she said she's planning on leaving DA (but not yet, but maybe sometime later) (another reason why this may be my last time tagging her), thanks to the new DreamUp feature that does AI art (another reason why this may be the last time I'll tag her). She claims that art is made by the hands, and not machine, and AI art might make those who put a lot of effort into their drawings look bad, although the new AI art feature still doesn't do that good of a job. I saw a recent video of hers about that, and she tells us that "You can NOT tell me what to do." I felt both understanding and hurt, because me and my brother tell each other that, but not around the same time. She said that the DreamUp feature steals art, and she doesn't seem to care about the fact that the "noai" option exists. YumUpArt gave her support and respected her feelings and told her nicely, but Kitty said she's doing fine but not posting art here anymore, and then she acted pretty rude again. Personally, I don't think she should leave DA just because of DreamUp, but I won't stop her, anyway.
She said she rejected suicide but then she said "Suicide is back dammit! Thanks school!", and then she keeps raging over not only high school, but also over...

I just wish things are easier for Kitty, and I wish she's more respectful. I'm glad she's trying to avoid drama for her health, but I don't want her to be mean to me or my friends, who are REALLY nice (if they trust you). If she keeps up her rea behavior, she may not be too trustworthy, and I may have to cut ties with her, and I wouldn't have said that if not for DreamUp. She's not really stupid because she's good at drawing, and sometimes gives advice, like not to make fun of other cultures. She also dislikes "grounded" videos (where they make in Vyona/GoAnimate, which I used to have in late 2015 and early 2016). But I respect your opinion on those kinds of videos either way. Sometimes, she was respectful to others and controlling her temper, but you wouldn't want to be on her bad side. And I thought MY anger issues are big.
We wished her a happy birthday, and she had the best birthday ever for sure. I was so happy to see her happy. My heart especially gets warmed when she does something nice to someone, especially that one time she made a gift for Cyanesque111. I'd like if she respects my friends more, because they're nice to her, and I want to give her the love she deserves. I wish she wouldn't just criticize us after what we've done to her, because I'll do anything to make her happy, but school and family can be stressful. I made a mistake of losing temper and causing my closest friends some damage, and I'll do anything to make it right. They criticized me over my anger issues before, and although I took it hard, I didn't want to lose my closest friends, and I wish to prevent more drama. I hope I'll learn to forgive myself for what I did, though. But she hates criticism more than I do. And by the way things are going now, I don't think I can make her that happy that easily again.

I hope I don't sound harsh, but if she doesn't get a grip on her anger or talk to us about what's bothering her and let us help her, she may push others away. And if things do get worse with our relationship again, I might have to cut ties with her. And since she's no longer posting art here, it makes me back down less. Well, someone recently cut ties with her over her behavior making Kitty really mad, because they wouldn't accept her for who she is. Well, that makes me back down a little more again, because I guess I accept how she is, although I wish she can be more respectful and work on her temper better. But I still love her and care about her, and I still like when others do fanart for her, and I never want to hurt her at all, and I don't blame her too much because she's young and I've been having killing thoughts before. But even so I feel like she's not too trustworthy. I prefer her content from 2021, because those are more wholesome. (EDIT: I meant the FIRST HALF of 2021, why didn't I point it out sooner...)

Here's my message to Kitty the Gengar Queen:
Kitty, I hope I'm not being too harsh, but I gotta be honest. I am pretty disappointed in you. I can actually be mad at you, too, but I never want to hurt you. I wish you were more comfortable with me and my friends, but I don't really want you to put us before Jinji and xxlPanda, though. I've done so much for you, and I tried to be as nice to you and as patient with you as I possibly can, but I don't feel like I've done enough. I even offered you free requests forever once. I'm glad you did some nice things for me since I was nice to you, first, but still... I feel like now you're only good for drawing and posting drawings. PantherKing239 is a much better person than you are, and you should respect Cyanesque111's feelings, too (I'm not saying that you aren't). And nobody can be better than my sweetest friend, katamariluv. I am a human being, too. Me and my friends deserve the same respect as everyone else! Even so, I understand how hard things have been for you. I'll do anything to erase all the bullying you had to go through from your mind, and I feel like I failed to make you a better person. I still care about you, and your peace of mind is what matters to me most about you. I get that you have autism and temper issues, but you need to put other people's feelings, first. You really need to work on your temper... You really did hurt my feelings...
Oh, and there IS a way out of hell, and that's Jesus. If you trust him, you can be saved. Don't think I'm lying; you can find other sources like in the bible, and from the Christian users: katamariluv, ServantOfJesus, MrScroreA113, and CutePositiveArt. Take their word for it, and you can vent things at them, just don't be mean to them. I never wanted to force you, but I want to save you from the scariest thing ever, and make things healthier for you, because your actions aren't healthy. I know someone cut ties with you for that, but I wouldn't do it too easily or be very rude.
Besides Jinji, you can count on me, katamariluv, PantherKing239, Cyanesque111, IceFirey573, M1x0-dev, and djrotom to give you so much love, or at least help you feel better when you want. And you don't have to post things here anymore or get me to add you back to chat again. Just... PLEASE... try to control better and focus on the good things. But don't stop being how good you are, though. You're such a wonderful artist. I remember when you were nicer.
I'M SO SORRY!!!
Also, please don't go after Kitty. This is not to bully her at all, it's to share my thoughts on her, as well as some history. She had been through enough bullcrap in her life (after she reads this vent). If none of you users were mean to her, her anger issues wouldn't be as bad, and I never would've even thought about writing all this down!
It's all thanks to you, toxic users who misbehave way too easily (and some rude people in her area)! >: (

And that's why this will likely be my last gift for Kitty, at least for now, for short of Kitana. And please be respectful to her, no matter how she behaves. (I put so much heart on this vent) :'c

EDIT: She was mean to my friends, Cyanesque11 and PantherKing239. I was going to let her have it, but she apologized for her behavior, so some of my friends can't trust her anymore. I forgave her but let her off with some warnings. Ever since, we're in good terms now. She may lose her temper again someday, but at least she's learning from her mistakes. She apologized to Cyanesque111, and he forgave her, but he can't watch her again until he sees that Kitty's done with whatever terrible things. She's afraid of apologizing to PantherKing239 for now. I'm so glad she wished me a happy birthday. And I'm glad she had gotten some support. <:3

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I felt like doing this one because of my improvement in drawing. But this will likely be the last drawing I'll do for KittyTheGengarQueen because of recent events, including the fact that I started getting on her nerves, and the things about DreamUp. There's so much I need to get off my chest about this. And wow, this is by far my longest vent. And I'm incredibly sorry for how long this is. This is like over 15 minutes' worth of reading. So I guess you can do a reaction video of this.

Before I start, this was typed BEFORE she deactivated on the night of 22nd of November (10 PM in Eastern USA time zone), and she might reactivate this Friday. Kitty added this to her favorites right before she did deactivate. Anyway, let's get this over with:

When I joined DA, I faved so much of her stuff and commented on some of them. I was in love with her stuff because I've been a Gengar fan since Autumn 2016, and I'm interested in seeing a female Gengar. The next day, she made this drawing for me, which warmed my heart:
Gift for my New Friend Rawburt

I did some other things for her, and she did some other things for me, too. She once even called me one of her best friends. We even have some things in common, like we both like Panera Bread, we both dislike boiled eggs, and we both like strawberry milk (which I rarely get to drink, and I never had it until I'm 19) and grilled cheese. She actually has a phobia of a certain food that I dislike that many like. I am fine with those things as long as they don't get everywhere or if it's not me eating them, or her. I won't tell you what it is for safety reasons. We both have autism, too.
I really like images of her and Gargantua (this giant Gengar from a Pokémon episode that aired a long time ago), because she made such a beast cute. ^///^
Here's an example:
Nuzzles

Her best friend is JinjiTheGengar, and it warms my heart to see them look up to each other. And I heard that xxlPanda is the reason why KittyTheGengarQueen joined. Since I joined because of Kitty, I made a pretty big difference, and I'm glad to not replace Jinji as best friend.

But every so often, she would seriously lose her temper, like I sometimes have. In fact, she's strict when it comes to her rules. She had a comment section rule that I'm very respectful of (before she deleted the comment section rule recently), and there are many things that she really dislikes. She gets provoked very easily. She doesn't even like to RP (probably because of some bullying her or because of school). She doesn't tolerate fetish, either (because she wants the site to be safe). She doesn't like to do adoptables, either. Sometimes, she tells us about her monthly cycle that women go through.
Sadly, she had to go through some rough drama. I knew how she felt, so I tend to be a whiteknight of her, especially when others break her comment section rule.
In fact, someone once made a killing video of her, and when I stood up for her, he called me a whiteknight. That didn't bother me so much. I just care about Kitty's peace of mind. Thankfully, they made up with each other. But that wasn't the only time I acted like a whiteknight over her. When someone cursed at Kitty, she got really upset. My mom was harsh on me one over failing grades or late homework, and then this happens. I hated seeing Kitty upset along with getting tortured over education, so I screamed a death threat at the guy who was mean to her. Months later, I regret making that death threat, so I went to apologize. A while later, he accepted my apology, but he said that what Kitty said about "witchcrafting" someone is wrong.
Another example was when Kitty told me about a bigtime enemy of hers. I kept quiet about it, but I finally let it out on that enemy of hers over 3 months later and blocked him. And hour later, I saw his reaction (crying over being called a pedophile/cyberbully), and I regretted that. So I unblocked him, but he had already blocked me back. So I asked katamariluv (AKA Kathy) to get him to unblock me so I could apologize to him, which she did, and then I got unblocked. I apologized to him, and he accepted my apology. I'm glad things were alright between us.
I once even wrote a journal of a user that gave Kitty a hard time after the winter olympics ended (shame on you, VengefulSpiritMima, for causing a domino effect and getting another friend of mine to threaten to do something terrible after seeing Kitty's posts).
I can understand Kitty, because I can sometimes relate to her. I was much ruder back then than I am now. I once got impatient over requests, and when someone told me in a rude way to "stop getting upset over requests or else" not once but twice. And that made me REALLY mad, so I don't blame Kitty.

Unfortunately, I did 3 terrible things to Kitty that I seriously regret doing:

1. I caused this drama between her and gokudrad. I asked her to block gokudrad for his wrongdoings, but she engaged (which I should've told her not to) before she did. Even so, they could still see each other's posts. So when August began, she stopped doing status updates for 2 months because of him. At least gokudrad didn't misbehave as much as he used to, because what he did got his account suspended for a week, and then a month, giving him 2 strikes. He went to a new account afterwards. I'm glad that drama is over.

2. I let her know about the terrible thing ThomasDafoeStudios (AKA Tommy) did about blocking my friends (including her and her best friend) to have me all to himself. I blocked him via message a couple days later after finding out. I then did a status using a meme template he made over what he did to my friends. I ended up regretting it, because I didn't want to cause another upset to her like I did about gokudrad, but I caused it anyway since she saw my status. I was tempted to tell her before she found out, so before I made that status, I told JinjiTheGengar (Kitty's best friend) what he did, but he said it's not his problem since he didn't know him, and then I told him not to tell Kitty, and he promised. Anyway, Kitty not only hates being blocked, but also hates when someone's mean to Jinji. She hates ThomasDafoeStudios so much. When I did a deviation about what he did, the next morning, one of my friends used an alt account to share the deviation to him, so then Tommy apologized to a couple of my friends, so I then unblocked him, and forgave him. Not everyone forgave him, though. KittyTheGengarQueen hated him the most, so she wouldn't even think about forgiving him, especially since he still didn't delete that status saying which users he blocked. Sometimes, Tommy complains when I praise Kitty or Cyanesque111 (Cyan), who "started the Tommy incident". It had to happen on her birthday this year. On Cyan's birthday a few days after, under my status I commented about not wanting him to complain again. He did in a status, saying, "Happy birthday to one of my haters, Cyanesque111." I didn't really like that he used a loophole, but I still didn't block him again, but to make things worse, he seemed to support R41nb0w-K1tty-101, and I didn't know until Kitty told me and begged me not to trust him. So I told Tommy about R41nb0w-K1tty-101 and why she's a pedophile.
Oh, and I believe this is where I met ThomasDafoeStudios:
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3. I dragged her into some drama over me and katamariluv. A few days before (on the last night of September), there was a different kind of drama that PTParmenTOONS caused while Kitty was in my chat room. Let's just say that some chat members were blaming themselves, and Cyanesque111 lost it, causing KittyTheGengarQueen to leave the chat (so I'm adding a new rule to the chat: Do NOT leave the chat without my permission, or else you'll make a fool out of someone). PantherKing239 (AKA Darren) told Cyan, "You didn't make anything worse". And then Cyan was like, "Yes I did", because of the fact that Kitty left the chat room because he screamed something. He was like, "Now Rawburt's going to be so mad at me!", and then I told Cyan that I wasn't mad at him at all. I was more displeased with Kitty because she made a fool out of me and Cyan (I mean no offense). This was the fault of PT starting it all. Or it was my fault for putting a certain section of a description in a new deviation that time, so I removed that part of the description. And I apologized to Kitty and told her about PT, so she then blocked PT with the video that goes like, "GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!".
But that's not what I seriously regret. What I really did to drag her into drama was when Kathy cut ties with me for saying something really hurtful to her. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me in DA. For some reason, I did something that ended up not right: Telling Kitty about my situation. Later, she told Kathy, "He dragged me into this drama (I am not kidding), and I was being the idiot participating for a bit. But I'm making the right choice to just ignore it now, because it literally increased my blood pressure due to anxiety, and this crap is extremely unhealthy for me. So, after this comment, I'll stay out of it, for the sake of my health and since you're both my friends and I like you. (I'm gonna hide my comments now. Byby. Sorry about this. My bad.)", and she did hide her comments. She just needs a break from the anxiety. I felt awful about that, so I told her that this'll be my last comment and I'll never drag her into drama again. She replied with, "Don't let it be your last, just don't drag me into drama ever again." I'm glad she forgave me. And the next night, me and Kathy got back together.

Anyway, there were some times when Kitty hurt my feelings a bit. I tagged her several times on deviations that I know for sure she'd like that she didn't fave yet. And then one time, she had enough, and said this, "Aww. But could you PLEASE stop tagging me? It's already getting old, and I can find it myself.", which made me feel pretty bad, so this deviation may be the last time I'm tagging her. She commented on my statuses one day, and then I saw her post saying, "Sorry 'bout all m' comments. I was originally s'posed to comment on a different status of mine, buuuuut then I saw all the drama again, and got quite stressed. Not to mention, separation anxiety happened beforehand (don't ask 'bout that part)." And then the next day, I asked her if she'd be interested in any adoptables, and if she's okay with going back to the chat. Unfortunately, she replied with this, "You better be telling a joke you poor dude! I faved this stamp (that says, "stop it with the f***ing adoptables") for a reason!!! I thought I told Kata that I don't do adoptables! I should've made her tell you! Not to be rude, but you drain my trusting of you each day. An environment can be too toxic for me, and I'm so glad I have an online best friend (Jinji) and a potential boyfriend (in high school) to lessen it." That actually kinda hurt my feelings and made me a bit mad (I guess Kitty was in her monthy cycle that women go through, making her ruder for sure). After I apologized, she told me that it's not fully broken yet and that I shouldn't beat myself up. She said she just got annoyed. I wasn't sure to keep trusting her, so after that, I tried refraining from making any comments or replies to her for a bit, and then I comment/reply again, but not very often. And to make things worse, after ThomasDafoeStudios commented on an adoptables deviation of mine, Kitty saw the comment ad said, "An even stronger reason why I don't do adoptables now. Giving one to the supporter of a pedophile? That's NUTS!" But I don't think he supports one, he just didn't know what was really going on. I just want peace with everyone, and you shouldn't force me (or others) to hate anyone.
And now she said she's planning on leaving DA (but not yet, but maybe sometime later) (another reason why this may be my last time tagging her), thanks to the new DreamUp feature that does AI art (another reason why this may be the last time I'll tag her). She claims that art is made by the hands, and not machine, and AI art might make those who put a lot of effort into their drawings look bad, although the new AI art feature still doesn't do that good of a job. I saw a recent video of hers about that, and she tells us that "You can NOT tell me what to do." I felt both understanding and hurt, because me and my brother tell each other that, but not around the same time. She said that the DreamUp feature steals art, and she doesn't seem to care about the fact that the "noai" option exists. YumUpArt gave her support and respected her feelings and told her nicely, but Kitty said she's doing fine but not posting art here anymore, and then she acted pretty rude again. Personally, I don't think she should leave DA just because of DreamUp, but I won't stop her, anyway.
She said she rejected suicide but then she said "Suicide is back dammit! Thanks school!", and then she keeps raging over not only high school, but also over...

I just wish things are easier for Kitty, and I wish she's more respectful. I'm glad she's trying to avoid drama for her health, but I don't want her to be mean to me or my friends, who are REALLY nice (if they trust you). If she keeps up her rea behavior, she may not be too trustworthy, and I may have to cut ties with her, and I wouldn't have said that if not for DreamUp. She's not really stupid because she's good at drawing, and sometimes gives advice, like not to make fun of other cultures. She also dislikes "grounded" videos (where they make in Vyona/GoAnimate, which I used to have in late 2015 and early 2016). But I respect your opinion on those kinds of videos either way. Sometimes, she was respectful to others and controlling her temper, but you wouldn't want to be on her bad side. And I thought MY anger issues are big.
We wished her a happy birthday, and she had the best birthday ever for sure. I was so happy to see her happy. My heart especially gets warmed when she does something nice to someone, especially that one time she made a gift for Cyanesque111. I'd like if she respects my friends more, because they're nice to her, and I want to give her the love she deserves. I wish she wouldn't just criticize us after what we've done to her, because I'll do anything to make her happy, but school and family can be stressful. I made a mistake of losing temper and causing my closest friends some damage, and I'll do anything to make it right. They criticized me over my anger issues before, and although I took it hard, I didn't want to lose my closest friends, and I wish to prevent more drama. I hope I'll learn to forgive myself for what I did, though. But she hates criticism more than I do. And by the way things are going now, I don't think I can make her that happy that easily again.

I hope I don't sound harsh, but if she doesn't get a grip on her anger or talk to us about what's bothering her and let us help her, she may push others away. And if things do get worse with our relationship again, I might have to cut ties with her. And since she's no longer posting art here, it makes me back down less. Well, someone recently cut ties with her over her behavior making Kitty really mad, because they wouldn't accept her for who she is. Well, that makes me back down a little more again, because I guess I accept how she is, although I wish she can be more respectful and work on her temper better. But I still love her and care about her, and I still like when others do fanart for her, and I never want to hurt her at all, and I don't blame her too much because she's young and I've been having killing thoughts before. But even so I feel like she's not too trustworthy. I prefer her content from 2021, because those are more wholesome. (EDIT: I meant the FIRST HALF of 2021, why didn't I point it out sooner...)

Here's my message to Kitty the Gengar Queen:
Kitty, I hope I'm not being too harsh, but I gotta be honest. I am pretty disappointed in you. I can actually be mad at you, too, but I never want to hurt you. I wish you were more comfortable with me and my friends, but I don't really want you to put us before Jinji and xxlPanda, though. I've done so much for you, and I tried to be as nice to you and as patient with you as I possibly can, but I don't feel like I've done enough. I even offered you free requests forever once. I'm glad you did some nice things for me since I was nice to you, first, but still... I feel like now you're only good for drawing and posting drawings. PantherKing239 is a much better person than you are, and you should respect Cyanesque111's feelings, too (I'm not saying that you aren't). And nobody can be better than my sweetest friend, katamariluv. I am a human being, too. Me and my friends deserve the same respect as everyone else! Even so, I understand how hard things have been for you. I'll do anything to erase all the bullying you had to go through from your mind, and I feel like I failed to make you a better person. I still care about you, and your peace of mind is what matters to me most about you. I get that you have autism and temper issues, but you need to put other people's feelings, first. You really need to work on your temper... You really did hurt my feelings...
Oh, and there IS a way out of hell, and that's Jesus. If you trust him, you can be saved. Don't think I'm lying; you can find other sources like in the bible, and from the Christian users: katamariluv, ServantOfJesus, MrScroreA113, and CutePositiveArt. Take their word for it, and you can vent things at them, just don't be mean to them. I never wanted to force you, but I want to save you from the scariest thing ever, and make things healthier for you, because your actions aren't healthy. I know someone cut ties with you for that, but I wouldn't do it too easily or be very rude.
Besides Jinji, you can count on me, katamariluv, PantherKing239, Cyanesque111, IceFirey573, M1x0-dev, and djrotom to give you so much love, or at least help you feel better when you want. And you don't have to post things here anymore or get me to add you back to chat again. Just... PLEASE... try to control better and focus on the good things. But don't stop being how good you are, though. You're such a wonderful artist. I remember when you were nicer.
I'M SO SORRY!!!
Also, please don't go after Kitty. This is not to bully her at all, it's to share my thoughts on her, as well as some history. She had been through enough bullcrap in her life (after she reads this vent). If none of you users were mean to her, her anger issues wouldn't be as bad, and I never would've even thought about writing all this down!
It's all thanks to you, toxic users who misbehave way too easily (and some rude people in her area)! >: (

And that's why this will likely be my last gift for Kitty, at least for now, for short of Kitana. And please be respectful to her, no matter how she behaves. (I put so much heart on this vent) :'c

EDIT: She was mean to my friends, Cyanesque11 and PantherKing239. I was going to let her have it, but she apologized for her behavior, so some of my friends can't trust her anymore. I forgave her but let her off with some warnings. Ever since, we're in good terms now. She may lose her temper again someday, but at least she's learning from her mistakes. She apologized to Cyanesque111, and he forgave her, but he can't watch her again until he sees that Kitty's done with whatever terrible things. She's afraid of apologizing to PantherKing239 for now. I'm so glad she wished me a happy birthday. And I'm glad she had gotten some support. <:3