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RuntyTiger In reply to jamesgunner123 [2011-05-27 01:07:52 +0000 UTC]

LoL, I never really thought of it like that before.

And thanks

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RuntyTiger In reply to Mefosto [2011-05-27 04:09:41 +0000 UTC]

Thanks Mefosto

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RuntyTiger In reply to theojeca [2011-05-27 04:17:27 +0000 UTC]

Luck has nothing to do with friendships, you either put some work in it, or you don't. I try to be as honest with my self and with others about my feelings, even with a handicap of poor communication (something I am still working on).

Maybe I would end up being alone for the rest of my life, but I will still keep looking forward to the next day, changing, growing up, and hoping.

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theojeca In reply to RuntyTiger [2011-05-29 20:19:27 +0000 UTC]

I'm hardly trying to maintain this friendship because it's the only stable thing I have (all the rest is chaotic those days).
I have the asperger syndroma and it's pretty difficult for to have... anything with other people.

I don't like to have a look to the future. i don't like to see what i see. What i will become. What I won't become. What I wouldn't become. It's uncertain and I don't like it.

Thanks for answering me.

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RuntyTiger In reply to theojeca [2011-06-11 22:32:13 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome, and it's nice to hear from someone who I can really relate to.

However, I would like to think that we are more than our symptoms, our nature, and nurture. I tend to ruin friendships just because of my personality alone, but I always have friends who are willing to forgive me and want to talk to me again. And at the same time, I need to forgive myself, and change to for the sake of those who are close to me.

Well, those are my thoughts. And its a pleasure to read your comment.

-Eric Tarng

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theojeca In reply to RuntyTiger [2011-06-11 22:58:25 +0000 UTC]

I tend to ruin everything just because I'm wearing doc martens and Iron maiden shirts (people even hit me one time for this...).

But I don't know if it's my clothes or me the problem, it's my symtoms or just my nature... is the fact I'm socialy outcast my fault? I'm born to don't fit with people or I'm just a jerk?

This, with my unstable sexual identity, just make everything be... like it actulally is.


Thank you as well for the answer.

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RuntyTiger In reply to theojeca [2012-04-05 02:45:56 +0000 UTC]

Jeeze what kind of people are around you? I would have thought that France to be more open minded than the U.S. (Though there are pockets of strong Catholic influences). My sexual identity is also changing too. Either that, or I am getting tired of being alone *shrugs*. But sexuality is a fluid thing, not static and set in stone especially as we're growing up and learning more about ourselves.

Regardless, I think the most important thing is how you get along with others, and maybe even compromise a bit. No need to put up a wall or put on a front that makes it hard for people to get to know you. And I say compromise as in trying to fit in and try to get along with other people, and try to not let other people think you are strange/weird/different (you are still you).

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theojeca In reply to RuntyTiger [2012-04-05 20:12:28 +0000 UTC]

Big win about sexuallity.

And about peoples... it's hard to find the compromise between doing a compromise and submit and be like with other sheeps...
To tr to be original without being too marginal and to be ourselves whithout being outcasted.
But mostly reject normality because there is no normality. It's just a concept popularised by people who doesn't like other people who thinks and have a point of view.

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RuntyTiger In reply to Erkhyan [2011-05-27 01:08:07 +0000 UTC]

Yep, still using them

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