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Tagath — I'm okay p06
Published: 2012-07-01 21:20:44 +0000 UTC; Views: 1611; Favourites: 36; Downloads: 13
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I don't really advise you to date a gay boy. Unless you're male and attracted to guys, of course. Otherwise, it's just complicated and not worth it.This being said, I really don't remember much about... all this. I've pretty much erased all my highschool years from my brain. I know I love that guy very, very, very much. And that I ended feeling hurt. But that's... it. I don't remember what sort of person he really was. It's a bit strange, really.
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I love your drawings of your hair. So wispy and cute. :3 And I do mean that.
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Wow, this is very poignant for me. I haven't ever had a relationship like that, but my experiences in high school where like hell, I just shut down half the time, but now I look back on the place that was so horrible to me I can barely remember it! The little things I remember, like classes and presentations, but I can't remember the faces or voices of the people who were on my case day after day, and it's only been three years. Sometimes I would think that there's something wrong with me, because I usually have such a good memory. It's good to know that I'm not the only one who forgets things like this.
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You have no idea how relieved I am to know I'm not the only one. If I concentrate really hard I can remember a few things, but most of it is just... blank. It's so weird, being able to remember exact quotes from films or books, but to not know what people you saw everyday looked like or even what their name were.
Memory sure is a strange thing. But the way I see it, if I don't remember it, it probably just wasn't that important to begin with.
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After being teased in primary school until I admitted to liking some guy, I swore to never get into a relationship ever. It took me around 8 years to realise that was a dumb reason to not allowing myself to have good emotions towards males. However I am forever awkward about relationships and cannot say "I love you" or kiss without feeling tremendous shame, nor do I intend to get over that. I accept it as a permanent quirk of mine, and my partner will simply have to accept that. I also put it down to my family allways making silly mocking sound when people kissed on tv, making it really awkward in my head from a young age.
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bad experiences can be a huge problem for future relationship... especially if life has made you see it as a bad thing. But if you were able to not let that put you down, it's great 
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'I was a girl then' wait so you got a sex-change or is it a grammar mistake because I`m confused xD
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I no longer identify as a girl, no
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i think she means that she was young, like a girl, and not a woman quite yet
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im not sure if im right or not but thats my guess ~
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What seems to me worse is not that he was gay. Is that he liked to manipulate people and you couldn't trust him. That's no base for friendship, let alone love.
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well, when I say manipulate... I mostly remember jokes. I remember he sometimes did things that were actual manipulation too, though I don't remember exactly what. But that was not a very healthy basis for any sort of relationship, no...
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Je trouve que c'et une vision biaisée, tu ne peux pas te baser sur une seule expérience malheureuse pour décréter que tu ne peux pas être aimée et ne plus vouloir être en couple.
Cela dit, être en couple n'est pas une fin en soi, mais se priver de bonnes expériences, te fait à mon avis passer à côté de relations qui peuvent être sympa. Après la vie en couple c'est pas non plus le conte de fée parfait!
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en soit, ça n'était pas basé que sur ma propre expérience. Personne dans mon entourage n'avait une relation de couple qui me paraisse enviable. Je laisse tout de même une chance à ça maintenant, en partant du principe que dans mon entourage, il y avait beaucoup de cons et de gens destructeurs, donc normal que ça marche mal pour eux.
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Oui j'imagine qu'avec que des mauvais exemples, ça le fait moyen. Prends exemple sur moi, ça fait 5 ans que je suis avec mon copain!
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C'est un peu triste que tu ne veuilles plus être en couple.
J'espère que tu trouveras ton "Happy/Not so bad Ending" en tout cas. ^^
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ça a finit par me passer en fait (enfin... en soit non, j'ai toujours des a priori contre la vie de couple et l'idée d'une relation romantique. Mais. Je ne suis plus célibataire
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