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TheChubsterWolfie — OC- I do exist (Slight Vent Warning)

Published: 2018-10-30 19:09:30 +0000 UTC; Views: 449; Favourites: 29; Downloads: 0
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Description I saw this shirt going round and felt like drawing something with my OC in it, being trans and all.
however, some beautiful kind person decided to make a F2U base with the shirt.

(You don't have to read what's below if you do thank you <33)

A small message to all of you out there in the LQBT+ community 
You all matter, no matter what anyone tells you, you do matter.
You do exist, and deserve love and respect like anyone else.
If no one has the heart to respect you/love you etc
They simply aren't worth your time or care, sounds hard I know.
But understand there are better, caring, supporting people out there.

I myself still struggle with the battle to find respect and love for my gender and identity from my own family.
My own parents, well mother, has no respect for me being a man.
Ever since I finally was able to piece together why I always felt like I didn't fit in, or why I wished so damn hard to be gay etc.
It all made sense when my friends sat down with me and managed to help me find the pieces to the puzzle, ever since I was 11 I questioned everything about myself, more so my sexuality and gender.
However being young and still very unsure to it all, or afraid of being mistreated and judged I labelled myself as a tomboy and took life the best I could. Now I know i'm so much more than a tomboy, and I deserve so much more than a fake mask/label. 

My mum still abuses me mentally, labeling me and forcing me to be something I'm not. She has done this for years now, but I was only able to see it now, forcing me into clothes that are too small or feminine for me. Getting me to dress up, wear make up and wear dresses, now I'm not saying that men can't do this. I respect drag queens as much as anyone else, but it's really not for me, not just that but my mum refuses to buy male clothing for me where she can since I came out. Most would see this as being petty and over thinking it all, but it's hurtful and even small drops can overflow into a great river. 

I myself label as a pan, poly and transgender person, so I struggle with so much, but I don't let it beat me down.
So if any of you need a helping, supporting hand i'm letting you all know i'm here for you <33

I'm sorry for the following tags but these people help me greatly in finding myself and becoming far happier and confident in myself then little 11 year old me could ever be.

TheGrumpyWolfie  
Reanybean  
mysterypaws  
Miizumo
LemonKaiju  
dinogeek01  
And many many others <33

OC and dolling belongs to me
Base belongs to NaosRain
Base can be found here freebseRights.psd
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Comments: 5

MrSandman154 [2019-09-14 11:19:30 +0000 UTC]

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starrydraws69x In reply to MrSandman154 [2019-10-11 03:53:31 +0000 UTC]

There's no need to go out of your way and say something like this, they didn't ask for your opinion so you didn't need to give it.

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mysterypaws [2018-10-31 21:26:26 +0000 UTC]

Oh goodness you are such a sweetie <3 I'm so happy I helped you in some way and honestly wish I could actually be there for you irl so you know how special you are all the time

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TheChubsterWolfie In reply to mysterypaws [2018-10-31 21:28:19 +0000 UTC]

Awww dude

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NaosRain [2018-10-30 22:48:38 +0000 UTC]

ahhh I'm so sorry you go through that but I'm so glad you are much happier and stronger now. I know how you feel xux I go through some of the same things. Your persistence and courage is amazing <3 

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TheChubsterWolfie In reply to NaosRain [2018-10-30 23:13:00 +0000 UTC]

Thank you,
And thank you for the base too sweetie <33

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