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Why should a woman be forced to carry the child of somebody who raped and disgraced her? It's her body, she should be allowed to do whatever she wants with it.Related content
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I do to.
But I support the women who decide to have their baby. Through and through!
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I agree 100%
also men have no right to tell women what to do with their bodies
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"It's her body, she should be allowed to do whatever she wants with it."
The baby's not apart of her body, the baby is inside of her body. Just because something isΒ INSIDE you doesn't mean that it IS you. That's just stupid.
Why should a baby get killed for something that it doesn't have control of? Isn't that kind of unfair?
Trying to be respectful, just speaking my opinion.
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Why should a mother have to carry a baby she was forced to have for 9 months straight?Β
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Why should she be forced into keeping something she never asked for? She probably wouldn't be able to mentally or emotionally handle the process if she doesn't even want to give birth at all. And if the victim is under 18, it also is bad to force her to have the child if she doesn't want it because: she is a minor and still has school to focus on. It could be worse if the victim is around 10-14 years old, as while she may have started her period at that age, she is still not developed enough to have it, which could kill her or cause permanent damage to her body such as infertility. So yeah, there's times where a victim is raped and needs to abort a child conceived from it. And the child wouldn't have a life that would be any better, if she was forced to keep it, the mother would probably abuse/neglect it, or she could give it up for adoption, but the child could want to meet her and have her be in their life, but the mother just doesn't want anything to do with them as their presence could remind them of the time they were violated. Also, they could also never be adopted, then once they turn 18, they're thrown to the curb. There are biological parents who decide to be in the lives of their children they gave up for adoption, even if they were conceived from rape, but that isn't always the case. An example: (www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/c⦠)
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and should the rape baby live a life of shame and guilt just for being born? Not receive true parental love due to being an unwanted rape baby,Β be hated by the victim's side of the family, live with getting blamed for all the bad things, and possibly suffer from child abuse? and whether or not the child gets taken into foster care or not? Are you anti abortionists ACTUALLY going to follow up with all the babies you "saved" from being aborted and make sure they're living well and doing well?
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I think if I wouldve gotten pregnant after my assault I would keep them, sure I wouldn't like the memory but I feel that would all pass?? After I had them. I don't wanna make a unborn child suffer from any sort of pain. But I understand why most people think the way they do!Β
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Unborn fetuses donβt have feelings, fetuses are inable to feel anything
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A rape is not only physically harmful to a woman, but also emotionally and physiologically harmful. Β I am pro-life and I believe that a woman should not keep a baby that is the product of rape. Β She shouldn't be forced to do so.
I have a friend who in college got raped and ended up getting pregnant. Β Her father tried talking her out of aborting the baby, but when she went through with it; he wouldn't speak to her for an ENTIRE month, and he always said: "you aborted my grandchild."
Well, excuse me, you're not the one who's body was violated against your will. Β I am usually against abortion, but if it's rape and incest and non consentual, then I support it. Β I mean, what the hell are you gonna tell the kid about his dad? Β That their dad was a rapist? Β That they forced themselves on their mother? Β Also the rapist can get visiting rights, so they can see the kid. Β And not only that, they can KEEP the woman from aborting the child.
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YEAH HELL YEAH
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Women who are raped and get pregnant have the right to abort their children.
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i'm pro-life, but i agree.
the child doesn't deserve to suffer knowing he/she was a mistake.
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can't you just send it off to an adoption center?? You still don't have to deal with it.
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Sending kids to an adoption center causes them to become mentally unstable and injures their state of mental health, especially since it just adds one more kid to the thousands of orphans.
If the child suffers hurt due to their mental state they may grow up to be just like their father, or worse.
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You dealt with it 9 months.If someone doesn't want to carry a reminder of the man who violated them,don't force them to.
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I don't trust statistics from anit-abortion sites that state 70% raped women preferred to keep their babies.
liveactionnews.org/raped-womenβ¦
Women need to carry anti-rape devices in their vaginas: clamps with sharp teeth to rip out any rapist's jimmy. If it's not legally available, then you can always get one if you ask around.
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Actually, a woman made something like that, look up Rapex. It's like a plastic/rubber tube thingy with barbs inside. You insert it into you, and if a guy tries to penetrate you, he'll get his dick impaled inside it and he'll have to go to the hospital.Β
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That's a good idea, and kind of funny in a way.
Though, I feel that would be uncomfortable or annoying to have to deal with for a scenario that may or may not happen.
I'm all for learning to punch people in the face though!
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KittenPrince55 Thatβs a good idea.
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Nice! Β Where can I get one? Β Β
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I'm not sure, a South African woman invented itΒ
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I agree with the anti-rape thing!
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It disgusts me that people would even think a rape victim should be held accountable for a child she didn't even consent to having. And I'm pretty sure most rape babies grow up to be neglected.Β
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What's worse is Rape perpetrators can sue for custody too by claiming the woman they raped is unstable, um yeah I don't expect other women to be the same after something like that and I don't know why people would think it would be easy to get over Rape...
I find that disgusting.Β
Sorry, I only found this stamp today.
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People who think that a woman can get over rape are the pinnacle of juvenile stupidity.Β
I'll be honest, I was molested by a friend of mine when I was 8, but he was the same age as me and I don't feel that traumatized nor do I hate that guy. If anything, I really hate whoever influenced him. I could tell from the words he was saying to me that he learned them from an adult.Β
But that moment in my life is compared to actual rape. I try to imagine what it must feel like to experience rape. People seem to hate rapists more than murderers, so I'll take their word for the pain it causes.Β
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one time someone told me that if i, a thirteen year old girl who is gay and is repulsed by sex, should go through with the pregnancy.
i'm sorry sweetie but if you had the option to save a living, breathing human or a fetus who can't feel anything yet, you would SERIOUSLY save the fetus?
you clearly don't value human life if you say that. if you're pro-life, you HAVE to be pro-life after the baby is born too.
my aunt's argument for abortions is "maybe they shouldn't have gotten pregnant"
lady has 8 kids, 4 were taken away because she was a crackhead. maybe she should try the not getting pregnant method sometime? she's not even my aunt, she and my uncle aren't even married.Β
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Honestly, your aunt doesn't have a right to talk because if she's a crackhead and has had her kids taken away, it shows that she'll not only ill fit to be a parent, but that she has no place, WHATSOEVER to tell you what to do with your body.Β I'm really sorry you had to deal with those disgusting judgemental people and I hope that they learn and honestly stop meddling in other people's business.
But they have never been raped and they don't know what it is like to be raped.Β Honestly, they don't have a leg to stand on.
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And think of how the child would feel some day if he/she found out
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Yes, it would be better for the child, too...I don't want to have a child from somebody who have done something horrible to me...I couldn't love the child with all of my heart, because he or she would be just reminder of that...case
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I knew a girl whose sister was abducted and raped, she kept her baby for some reason, she said her baby didn't deserve to die and that it wasn't her fault or the baby's (her rapist was caught but committed suicide). Her baby, a sweet little boy named Benjamin, looks a lot like her, auburn hair and dazzling green eyes. It pains her, the memories, but she's happy to raise her son, he'll become a good guy.Β
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I'm happy for her, Ben will grow to be a good person himself.Β
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Especially if the child looks like the rapist :I
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Agreed. Abortion should always be an option for a woman, unless she wants to keep the baby. Simply put, her choice.
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Rape is disgusting in so many ways. It saddens me to see that some people are so desperate for sex that they resort to violating another persons body without consent. I fully support abortion, especially in this case. Rape causes emotional distress, and conceiving out of an event like that won't help that victims state of mind.
Again, I support this, but even if I didn't, it's not my choice!
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I wouldn't want to have a child that is showing me the memory on
How it was made into this messed up world.
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Two things:
1. People are dumb. No on should rape.
2. It's cells. If the pregnancy was a accident or was caused by rape, you could get an abortion if you want to. It's fine.
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Read this.Β
www.experienceproject.com/storβ¦
I am greatly horrified at this.
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I can't see it-Β
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It came up for me, but it is about a woman who went in to get a abortion, but the clinic she went to was fake. The people there fed her false information and I think there was some threats to her as well.
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That was my reaction too.
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