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Kjasi [1290298] [2004-12-12 21:09:20 +0000 UTC] "Now with 37% more Gunpla!" (United States)

# Statistics

Favourites: 4572; Deviations: 299; Watchers: 111

Watching: 119; Pageviews: 53496; Comments Made: 2194; Friends: 119

# Interests

Favorite visual artist: Ken Akamatsu, Bastett and Masi Oka! (Hiro from Heroes! Check him out on IMDB!)
Favorite movies: Various, AKA toooooo many to name.
Favorite games: Final Fantasy VII, Kingdom Hearts II & World of Warcraft
Favorite gaming platform: Whatever plays the games I wanna play.
Tools of the Trade: A PC, some spare time, and occaisionally, a mechanical pencil.
Other Interests: Love Stories, Humor, (not comdies, there's a difference!) Mecha, 3D, Sci-fi, and Anime.

# About me

Current Residence: Earth, Sol System
Favourite genre of music: Soundtracks & Techno
Operating System: Windows 7 64-bit
MP3 player of choice: Winamp
Shell of choice: Turtle
Skin of choice: The one I'm wearing.
Favourite cartoon character: Not a cartoon character, but my personal hero is Masi Oka!
Personal Quote: Just because I'm a pacifist, doesn't mean I won't kick your ass!

# Comments

Comments: 804

MistressLegato [2013-01-30 20:00:53 +0000 UTC]

Well, looks like I'm not the only one the righteous and holy warrior has decided she is too good to be friends with.

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Kjasi In reply to MistressLegato [2013-02-06 11:37:38 +0000 UTC]

Almost... It's closer to say that I stopped being her friend because I was tired of trying to help her avoid an ugly future that she seems determined to make a reality.

I had problems with her stubbornness, her refusal to accept facts, and to top it all off, she majorly insulted me, but doesn't seem to know it. So I took a stand and stopped talking to her. I might resume communications with her one day, but I would need one hell of an apology from her that I honestly don't think she's capable of without a major change in her personality and beliefs.

The worse part about all of this? If she doesn't change she's either going to end up alone, unmarried and a virgin, or she'll end up exactly like her mother. As angry with her as I am, I don't want either of those to happen to her, but I don't see a way to change that outcome anymore.

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MistressLegato In reply to Kjasi [2013-02-06 19:14:02 +0000 UTC]

I agree. She is a sad, little lost sheep looking in the wrong places to find answers, but too ignorant to look at facts thrust upon her. THEN she acts like the pathetic little victim and insults her "attackers" until everyone pities her. A sad existence.
I also am very sad that her art has turned into nothing but poorly proportioned, over sexualized chibi art. She used to have talent, but it has all melted away into a pathetic overuse of what is safe and what gets her 12 year old fans.

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Kjasi In reply to MistressLegato [2013-02-07 06:39:30 +0000 UTC]

Fear is her main motivator. Fear drives every decision she makes. She fears something, so she gives it up or tosses it away so she won't have to deal with it. She feared being in a real relationship, (which in itself is very scary for her, as she doesn't have a good example of what a relationship is like) so she made the decision to stop being in love with me. That hurt me a lot, but it's a perfect example of how she's living her life now. All her decisions are based on fear.

Before I stopped talking to her, she was all but giving up on her art and instead going to business school so she could get a "job that pays well".

I agree that her art the last few years have been too much chibi, but as you said, it's safe. Nothing to fear from doing chibi art. But it's not going to help her if she really wants to grow as a person and an artist.

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MistressLegato In reply to Kjasi [2013-02-12 18:22:30 +0000 UTC]

I find it very LULZ worthy that some is bitching and moaning about "say it to my face, be an adult" and has every conceivable avenue of communication blocked.
It's just SO mature! Golly, I wish *I* could be such a grown up. Oh wait . . . said little child isn't blocked from commenting on my page . . .

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Kjasi In reply to MistressLegato [2013-02-12 20:19:43 +0000 UTC]

I'm chuckling at the "say it to my face, be an adult" part, because she won't apologize for what she did to my face, but DID apologize in email form. I replied to her email, and she hasn't responded back, so, I guess that's that.

I disconnected a lot of paths for communication between us, but I never blocked her from using them.

I'm also curious as to WHY she commented on here in the first place. Does she still check my account on a regular basis, just in case I try to open up to her?

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MistressLegato In reply to Kjasi [2013-02-13 21:13:20 +0000 UTC]

I love that she claims that she apologized to me, but she NEVER did. I asked for many years that she stopped bringing religion into conversation with me and she CONSTANTLY was saying "I'll pray for you," "I hope God watches over you," Jesus, this and fucking that. She never considers anyone else's feelings or views.
But I guess she checked here for some reason. And feels like she is defending herself, despite making herself look like an even bigger jackass than she already looks. But for me, bridges burned are not reconstructable. She pushed my buttons for years and I'm done with it. I'm done with the "Abortion is murder!" and the religion being constantly stuffed down my throat bullshit. I don't need that, especially from someone who is supposed to be my friend.

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Kjasi In reply to MistressLegato [2013-02-14 10:02:46 +0000 UTC]

For her, an apology (or saying "I'm sorry.") is a way to just end the confrontation. I believe it to be more of a promise to try and not do it again. An attempt at real change, if you will. But then she does it again a day later. It's gotten to the point where her apologies mean virtually nothing to me, which is why I wanted a real, substantive apology from her. (I got her usual, canned apology emailed to me. -_- At least she recognized why I was angry.) Frankly, for me to completely forgive her would be impossible for her to do without major, substantive changes to the way she thinks, what she believes, and how she acts. I just don't see it ever happening. There's no more free spirit left inside her... Just the propaganda she was raised to believe was the truth.

I asked her why she was against abortion, what she was fighting for. She wants to protect the children. That's fair, and that's a good thing to do. But then she falls for the same counter-intuitive tactics and beliefs perpetuated by the Church and the Republicans that completely contradict why she's fighting to stop abortion; She's against contraception, even though it's been proven to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies. Not to mention it prevents the natural 50% abortion rate that a woman's body naturally performs. I did the math, based on scientific studies, presented it to her, and she ignored it. I never got a response about it. The bottom line is, if she's REALLY fighting abortion to stop children from dying, then why is she fighting against these things that have been proven to reduce the number of zygote deaths?

There's a cartoon that's very appropriate for her belief structure. It's the common catholic complaining about things she doesn't agree with because she follows what her faith has taught her. This goes on for about 6 panels of the comic. The 7th is a modest person saying "It's fine for you to believe what you want, and to teach that to your kids. All I ask is that you don't force them onto me." The final panel was of the catholic screaming bloody hell about being assaulted for her beliefs. This is exactly how Kerry reacts.

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MistressLegato In reply to Kjasi [2013-02-15 04:55:41 +0000 UTC]

Fact. I also asked her how she could be against birth control and she had no legitimate reasons other than creating out about how I was attacking her.

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Kjasi In reply to MistressLegato [2013-02-16 21:16:05 +0000 UTC]

Oh, I found the comic! [link]

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MistressLegato In reply to Kjasi [2013-02-17 17:10:06 +0000 UTC]

I am lmao that it sort of looks like her XD

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Kjasi In reply to MistressLegato [2013-02-17 21:13:54 +0000 UTC]

I know, right?!

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Kjasi In reply to Kjasi [2013-02-12 20:21:40 +0000 UTC]

Err... She won't apologize to my face, what she did. Yeah, that's what I meant. She didn't so anything to my face.

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bastett In reply to Kjasi [2013-02-09 08:27:31 +0000 UTC]

This is an art website and if you have a comment to an artist it's best if you tell him/her that instead of on the person's gallery. It's my opinion.

Sorry if my art work is childish for you. You have a right to your opinion. As for me personally I have grown and I am continuing to grow. Please call me instead of post your rants on a page that is not directed towards me even though your words are.

Might I also add that this would have NEVER happened if you didn't say what you did say after the election? I did not attack you. You attacked me. And Marci, I am sorry for bringing "God" into my reply. I apologized and, since we are on the topic of 'growing up' accept this apology and move on with your life. I am. And I have NEVER bashed your work. Keep that in mind.

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overseer [2012-08-27 22:38:23 +0000 UTC]