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Published: 2011-01-19 03:09:18 +0000 UTC; Views: 5514; Favourites: 476; Downloads: 32
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Description In response to the slew of shit `DoItForTheLulz got for his stamps:

where people constantly tried to tell him parents get a free ticket just because they're parents.
Yeah try explaining that to someone who was raped by a parent, or beaten, or even killed.
It's nice that you live in a pink little bubble where all parents are perfect and as such don't even have to try for love and respect to get it, but that's not so with reality.

And we wonder why people don't take notice of child abuse more often.

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Comments: 25

fanfics4ever [2011-10-14 03:52:33 +0000 UTC]

why should I respect my dad when he's been hiding money from me and never stood up for me when my step-mother or her children treated me like crap?

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insanity8grimoire [2011-08-22 06:00:36 +0000 UTC]

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blueheron93 [2011-07-03 00:03:49 +0000 UTC]

You don't get my respect and love just for fucking 17 years ago. It's not that much of an accomplishment.

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SoulReaperArtemis- [2011-06-18 00:49:06 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for this. <3

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glomdi [2011-01-22 00:55:24 +0000 UTC]

I agree that respect is earned, but love isn't. Parents love their children before they're born(most the time), and the kid didn't have anything to do with it.

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Dametora In reply to glomdi [2011-01-22 01:17:43 +0000 UTC]

Love is so earned. Some parents do not love their children. You know this.
Love is given when the giver deems it appropriate. Some don't have to do anything to earn love, but some people do. Such as, you don't automatically love a random person, you love a certain person because they've proved your worth to you as a preferred partner.

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glomdi In reply to Dametora [2011-01-22 02:05:15 +0000 UTC]

I guess some is. But I'm just saying, love can be an undeserved gift, also.

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MagicallyCapricious [2011-01-19 16:05:38 +0000 UTC]

Agreed. I had to work for respect more than love, my parents are the most loving people you could ever meet, but really, no one respected me.

good on you for making this stamp!

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AzurePangolin [2011-01-19 11:05:21 +0000 UTC]

Teachers and Parents seem to think they're god and we have to fawn over them and whatnot X3
Some are respectable and we respect them like....they only need to say a phrase [its really weird, now I think about it XD]

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Chaz-Monroe [2011-01-19 05:35:00 +0000 UTC]

Absolutely right there. All things considered, some adults I know don't deserve love or respect from anyone, let alone their kids (who tend to cop the worst of it, unfortunately...). Happily for me I haven't suffered at my mum's hands, but I still agree with this stamp.

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Chaz-Monroe [2011-01-19 05:34:53 +0000 UTC]

Absolutely right there. All things considered, some adults I know don't deserve love or respect from anyone, let alone their kids (who tend to cop the worst of it, unfortunately...). Happily for me I haven't suffered at my mum's hands, but I still agree with this stamp.

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CrayolaCupcake [2011-01-19 05:11:15 +0000 UTC]

i know it prolly has nothing to do with this, but i went to a biker rally for child abuse, and i raised alot of money
btw tht stamp is rly pretty i like it

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Xonaiya-Tycelyn [2011-01-19 03:42:49 +0000 UTC]

My father isn't like in your description...

...But I lost respect for him, when after several years of psychological abuse and torment from students and teachers, I fought back and got in-school suspended. I was suspended for being cornered by a student and fighting him out of terror. The principal irately complained how I didn't do my work, and my father BETRAYED ME by agreeing and threatening to "push me forward" despite also hearing from me that I had to punch a kid IN THE FACE just to let me out of the damn corner of the fucking room.

Well, I'm sorry that I prioritized survival over math. I figured if I'd shut down and not move, they would leave me alone. How naive.

He also recently bitched me out for "not going to school or working" and that "I have no rights because I don't pay any bills". I should also "respect him because the house is HIS".

Good luck with that, douchebag.

TL;DR and life story aside, I agree completely. I also love the composition of the stamp and the text you used! Very interesting and eye catching.

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Whatura In reply to Xonaiya-Tycelyn [2011-06-14 01:34:51 +0000 UTC]

Oh my god, I go through the same exact thing (even now that I've been out of high school for three years...). But the worst part of it is that my mother, who usually is very supportive of me, says what my father puts me through isn't abuse and that I have to stop being so sensitive.

tl;dr I know what you're going through. Stay strong, I'm sure things will get better once you are able to set off on your own

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Xonaiya-Tycelyn In reply to Whatura [2011-06-14 02:13:50 +0000 UTC]

AGH god and the thing with the mom just makes it worse.

I hope when I'm outand about you and I bump into each other. 8D

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Whatura In reply to Xonaiya-Tycelyn [2011-06-14 02:16:38 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, but I try not to think about it, haha ;;

That would be really neat, if we were to bump into each other. But, you're all the way in Canada and I'm in the US xD

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Xonaiya-Tycelyn In reply to Whatura [2011-06-14 02:39:08 +0000 UTC]

AWW LAME. Oh well.
Hope everything goes well with your family though <3

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Whatura In reply to Xonaiya-Tycelyn [2011-06-14 03:04:53 +0000 UTC]

Same you you <3

By the way

*watch*

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Xonaiya-Tycelyn In reply to Whatura [2011-06-14 03:17:56 +0000 UTC]

I SAW THAT <3 THANK YOU

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Dametora In reply to Xonaiya-Tycelyn [2011-01-19 03:44:18 +0000 UTC]

I'm glad you like it!

And I can totally understand where you're coming from, as my father has done those things before. Psychological abuse is still abuse.

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Xonaiya-Tycelyn In reply to Dametora [2011-01-19 03:49:33 +0000 UTC]

I could go for ages explaining the shit he pulled on my sister, too.

I hope that when I finally learn how to make GIF stamps I can make them as attractive as you, =DoItForTheLulz and ~genkistamps do! I should start downloading text kits...bahaha.

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Dametora In reply to Xonaiya-Tycelyn [2011-01-19 03:50:58 +0000 UTC]

Glad to inspire~

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emeraldthechao174 [2011-01-19 03:24:40 +0000 UTC]

If they lie to themselves about it's existance then they have no responsibility, in their minds, to care about it. Ignorance is bliss right?

I know I can't understand, I have a great mother, but I try to.

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Emmasj [2011-01-19 03:18:00 +0000 UTC]

Chears! You have earned my respect, kthx.

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Dametora In reply to Emmasj [2011-01-19 03:27:12 +0000 UTC]

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