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Published: 2011-08-24 00:19:32 +0000 UTC; Views: 3511; Favourites: 54; Downloads: 11
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OMGOSH ST THIS IS THE STORY OF MY FREAKING LIFE! You are not a lone there are many other c-words like her out there. TRUST ME!!!
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I think everyone must at one point, have blamed everything shitty on a person, or in my case, 2 people - my parents. And that's alright ST. It feels better to believe you didnt cause your own pain. I dont know your situation but it sounds like you and this girl had some great times and honestly do you regret it? You're worth something, and to the people who love you, youre worth everything, you just dont know it yet xx
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the reason is probably because you're empty and dead inside.
don't let some bitch bring you down. you're better than that. rise up and show the world that you are something, you are strong, and you will not just roll over and rot away because of one person.
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I know how you feel ST I'm going through something similar...I feel the same at times..
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Take care of yourself first always if someone is making you miserable don't hang around ... their problems shouldn't bring you down ... note me if you need someone to talk to... I have been there and I am still dealing with it but I am at least at a place where I can think straight.
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I have the oddest mixed feelings about this secret. Cause I remember seeing the Secret 7417 in one of my friends favorites who I have been having issues with. It was a year or two ago I saw 7417 and I remember it made me feel really happy, even if she didn't write it, but just cause she Favorited it.
Since then we have lost being friends, though I don't feel that all of the problems that have happened can be traced solely back to me, or even the other way around. I just think both of us had things going on in our lives that put strain on the situation to bring it to where it currently is now.
I can relate to the first half of the secret though. Life gets better though, It just takes sometime. I wouldn't fret over blaming problems on people around you and just focus on getting better.
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ok, my last comment was more about the old secret.
here about the new one:
i think it is important that you talk to someone about it (probably NOT her, unless you feel it would be a good idea). Maybe to your today's best friend, or someone you trust. or someone who doesn't relate to your personal life too much, if there is no one you can think of, then perhaps somebody from DA. if you do that you'll become stronger over the time. your heart and head will work it out. it will all go away without pain and without bad memories. but it takes this step and some time.
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talk to her about it, i'm sure she will be happy to be there for you too, once in a while, and give you something back in return for all your support.
you are helping her much by being there for her, that is more than most people do. you didn't choose your good life, don't blame yourself for it, it is not your fault or anything. be happy, enjoy and share your life with others.
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you are worth something <3 you're worth just as much if not more than your friend , we've all been here ST but things can and will get better , stay strong X
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I can relate. But it gets better, ST, trust me. People come, people go, and one day you'll be free from her, just keep positive, that's the only way
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I lost a really close friend ('bffs' for 8 years..) a few years ago...and I am still not over it.
Sometimes, you get so close to a person, you dont feel like yourself without them.
But, you just got to keep searching. You deserve that.
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You know ST, both of your secrets apply to things that happened to me recently. Honestly, I could have been the one to submit these. And I'm sorry it went that way for both of us, but you should still be glad you found out the friendship wasn't healthy.
You will find a better friend, who will really be good for you. And that's because you are worth something, and you deserve that.
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Everyone is worth something ST!
Don't stick around people who don't make you feel like the awesome person that you are (:
and even if you don't want to give up on this person because of the previous friendship aspects, at least find the people that can help you so you don't stress yourself out with someone else's problems.
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ST, you are worth so much. Don't tell yourself you're worth nothing. But you might want to talk to her about these issues. In my opinion, honesty is always the best option.
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You are worth something, and you shouldn't doubt that. But why do you blame her and your friendship with her? Like others said, don't give up on yourself. You are the only one who can give yourself worth or take it away. It is all within your own power.
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ST... You are worth something. Believe me, I know someone who is/was in a similar situation. She is one of the most amazing people I know, and yet because of some idiot, she feels the same way you do sometimes. But don't give up on yourself. Don't think that you're worthless. You're not. No one is worthless.
*flails* I'm bad with words. Just... trust me, ST, you ARE worth something.
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You are worth something ST, everyone is...
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